Kutholakale indlela yokuthakazelisa okuthakazelisayo: lapho umyeni wakho esengumfana nje, usukulangazelela ukumthanda, ukuthi ngenhliziyo yonke imithetho yengqondo ikhunjulwe ngenhliziyo. Wamlalela ngokucophelela, wamvumela, wayenesithakazelo ezindabeni zakhe, wamgqoka futhi wacabanga kuphela ngaye. Wayenguye ongcono kakhulu, othandekayo kakhulu, ohlakaniphile, onomusa kakhulu, ongcono kunazo zonke, obala kakhulu ... Futhi le noodle yawela ezindlebeni zakhe kangangokuthi ekugcineni wafika esiphethweni sokuthi kwakudingeka ashade. Ngokuphuthumayo. Kuwe.
Kodwa-ke, ngaphambi kokuba awele umngcele wehhovisi lokubhalisa, ngokuthokozela isidumbu sakho ngenjabulo, egqoke i-lace ne-taffeta, ngokushesha wabonakala izimangalo. Akukhona ukuthi babengekho lapho ngaphambili. Njengamanje, uzizwa njengejubane le-tiger ozogcina ephethe isithubhu nebhasi ezandleni zesitifiketi somshado nesitembu epasipoti, wanquma ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokwenza.
Ehlomile ngezincomo zabamemezeli besifazane ekuqeqeshweni kwesilwane esilusayo salo "myeni" ozozalwa futhi besebenzisa imibono yayo mayelana nendlela yokuziphatha kahle indoda eshadile, uzama ukuzama ukuguqula okungaguquki futhi ungaphuthelwa amehlo, izindlebe nemiphefumulo yesithunzi, owawubonga ngakho ngaphambilini.
Kodwa awudingi lutho. Ungakhathazeki, ukumamatheka kaningi, zama ukubukeka okuhle, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - ungakhohlwa ukudumisa izimfanelo ezinhle kakhulu. Okusho ukuthi, ukudumisa umyeni wakhe. Phela, ekuboneni kokuqala kubonakala sengathi lo mhlali ohlala emahhovisi angeke akwazi ukubekezelela "ithole lobubele" futhi usekulungele ukwenza izenzo zobuciko usuku lonke nje. Kodwa empeleni i-betrothed yakho ifana nembali yethenda, ngaphandle kokugqugquzelwa ngendlela yokudumisa, njengokungathi ngaphandle kokunisela okuhle, maduzane ubomile futhi uyeke ukuzenza izenzo zobuqhawe kuphela, kodwa izenzo ngokujwayelekile.
Masivumeli ukumbamba kancane futhi angabuthandi, futhi akudumise ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngakho qala kuqala. Futhi i-ayisikhilimu, ethinteke kuphela ebuhlotsheni bakho obuhleliwe futhi obude, izoqala kancane ukuziqhayisa ngokwayo.
Awunawo yini okumdumisa ngakho? Kwenzeka ngempela? Ngeke ngikholwe! Funda uhlu lwezimfanelo ezidinga ukudumisa, qhubeka nokuthanda kwakho futhi ubale ukuthi zingaki zazo ongazisebenzisa kumyeni wakho.
NGOKHO OKWENZEKA, OKUHLELEKILE, ...
Ngakho-ke, nansi uhlu olulinganiselwa lwezimfanelo ezingakwazi futhi okufanele lidunyiswe ngalo:
• Uhlakaniphile.
Uyini umehluko wokuthi akuwona u-Einstein, kodwa ukuthi uqonda kanjani ezombusazwe!
• Uhle.
Yini? Bald futhi fat? Kodwa yiziphi amehlo akhe!
• Kungumnotho.
Kwenzekani uma isikhathi sokugcina egeza izitsha, ngenkathi eseyingane. Kodwa ngemva kokwethenjelwa okukhulu, wayesekhipha imfucumfucu!
• Kuhle.
Ungalokothi ugqoke amasokisi aphindwe kabili. Naphezu kokuthi kufanele uwageze.
• Uyakhathazeka.
Kanjani kanjalo, kusho? Wenzani !!! Kuyinto enhle futhi yokonga, enakekela ukuphepha kwesabelomali somndeni. Oh, uyathanda ukusebenzisa imali? Ngakho-ke:
• Unomusa.
Futhi ungathanda yini ukuya komunye umkhawulo womuzi utamatisi nge-ruble ngenxa yomnotho?
• Ulalelisisa.
Uma ucasukile lokho esikhundleni sokukunikeza isipho sokuzalwa, wakunika imali, ngakho ungakhathazeki. Kungaba kubi nakakhulu uma ekhohlwa ngaye.
• Ungumthandi omkhulu.
Leli qiniso liphinde libonakaliswe ngokuthi emva kokulala, yena, ekhathele ukusebenza kanzima ukukunika injabulo, ngokushesha ulala.
• Uyazijabulisa.
Nakuba echitha isikhathi esiningi kakhulu kubangani, kunethemba lokuthi phakathi kwabo, ekugcineni, kuzoba usizo.
• Uhlakaniphile.
Abanye bambiza ngokuthi yi-bore, kodwa nje uzama ukungena enhliziyweni yezinto!
• Uyazifakaza.
Kungokuthi nje une-streak emnyama. Kodwa uyazi ukuthi uzophumelela!
• Unethalente.
Abahlala esikhathini esingakaze baqonde lokhu, kodwa ngokuqinisekile bayakwazisa inzalo!
• Unengqondo eyodwa.
Iqiniso lizama njalo nsuku zonke kuya okusha, ngokuphambene nalokho, izinhloso. Kodwa lezi ziyinkimbinkimbi.
• Ungubaba omuhle kakhulu.
Izingane ziyamthanda kakhulu! (Mhlawumbe ngenxa yokuthi abavame ukukubona?)
• Ungumbuso.
Esikhundleni sokubiza uninazala ukuthi uyisiphukuphuku, wamane wamshiya, wavula umnyango.
• Uthembekile.
Uqinisile futhi wathi ngokuqinisekile uthe waya ejimini ukuze ulahlekelwe isisindo. Kodwa wayengase athule futhi aqale umthandi othulile.
• Akabhemi (akaphuzi, akayithandi, akayidlala ama-sweepstakes, akaholeli amantombazane) ...
Ucabanga ukuthi akenzi lokho, ngoba akavikeli izinzwa zakho, kodwa impilo yakho? Khona-ke lesi yisikhathi esisha sokudumisa:
• Uyayithanda kakhulu impilo yakhe.
Ngakho-ke, uzama ukuchitha imizamo yakhe bese echitha ubusuku bakhe embhedeni. Futhi-ke-emndenini womndeni. Futhi, ekugcineni:
• Ngiyaziqhenya ngaye!
Akulona iqiniso yini? Khona-ke akucaci ukuthi kungani usenayo naye.
NGOKUTHI UNGAKHUMBI UMUNTU WAKHO
Ukudumisa kuqala okokuqala ubuciko. Ngakho-ke, idinga isikhathi esifanele, indawo, ukunambitheka okuhle nokucabangela. Kumele kuqatshelwe ngokukhethekile ukuthi indumiso ephumelela kakhulu yindumiso yomphakathi. Kodwa le remedy enamandla ingabonakala njenge-balm emphefumulweni wakho othembekile, kanye nobuthi, onamandla okwehlisa ubuhlobo bakho ngokuphelele.
Lapha ungathatha njengesiqondiso esenzweni mayelana nalesi sikhundla: ukudumisa emphakathini kuyadingeka kulokho okufakwe ohlelweni lokubaluleka lwalaba bantu. Uma unesixuku esihlangene nezivakashi zabangani bakhe abathandwayo abathandwayo abazicabangela njengama-playboys, kungaba yisenzo sobuwula sokudumisa umnotho wakhe. Mhlawumbe abangane bayoqonda isifiso sakho futhi baze bayithwale ku-akhawunti yakho yezwekazi. Kodwa umthandi wakho uzozizwa njenge-idiot ephelele futhi abe nomuzwa wokuzidela we "omalume abadala". Kodwa amahlombe alabo abalingani abafanayo ngokuqinisekile ayowa uma usho ukuthi ukhathele ukushaya umyeni wakho kusuka kubalandeli abaningi besifazane.
Ungagxila ezintweni ezingabalulekile kumuntu wakho. Uma enzonda indlu, ukuncoma "ugeze izitsha zakho kahle" kuzobonakala njengokuhlekwa usulu futhi kunesizathu sokuthi akazi lutho mayelana nokugeza izitsha. Kulokhu, udumo lwezitsha lungabonakala kuphela kumongo "nonke nenza okuhle futhi izitsha ziwubufakazi obungenasisekelo."
Futhi into eyodwa ngaphezulu. Ungadluli! Uma umyeni wakho ephethe iqembu elimnyama, udinga udumo, ukuqonda, nokusekelwa njengomoya. Uma sekude ngemuva, khona-ke ukudumisa umyeni wakho ngaphandle kwanoma iyiphi indlela - ingozi ukuthi uzokuzicabangela njengomnikazi wazo zonke izici "ezicasuliwe". Futhi-ke kungase kubonakale kuye ukuthi eduze komuntu onjalo ohlakaniphile, ophanayo, othandekayo, othakazelisayo, othakazelisayo, othakazelisayo kumele abe ngumfazi ohluke ngokuphelele. Akusiwe. Vumela ukukhathazeka kwakho kube nomuzwa oqotho, kodwa konke okufanayo ekhanda lomuntu ngezikhathi ezithile kufanele ujezise ukungabaza ukuthi uphazamisa endaweni ethile nento ongayitsheliyo.
Ngelinye igama, yiba umuntu odala futhi uthola indawo yegama elihle. Futhi-ke, ngifisa sengathi ujabule empilweni yakho siqu!