Ngokuvamile kaningi lapho uneminyaka engamashumi amahlanu, abesifazane bafuna umsebenzi ngezizathu eziningi. Isibonelo, umyeni uthola kancane, unqunywe, izingane zakhula futhi zaqala ukuphila ngokuzimela, okwaholela ekusenikeni kwesikhathi samahhala, kusukela esimweni sokuhlala ekhaya kanye nesithukuthezi noma empilweni engaphumeleli. Qhubeka lolu hlu lungapheli, kepha iphuzu alikho, kodwa ukuthi ungabheka kanjani umsebenzi, uma ungaphezu kwama-50. Futhi konke okufanayo kufanele kwenziwe kahle. Emva kwakho konke kule nkathi kunzima ukuthola indawo efanele yokusebenzela.
Futhi lapha, ngenxa yesinye isizathu noma esinye, unqume ukuthi umsebenzi yinto kuphela ezokugcina uqhubeke eminyakeni engamashumi amahlanu, futhi ngaphandle kwalokho ungumuntu onesithukuthezi futhi ongathandeki. Ngokuqinisekile uye waya ekusesheni kwakhe. Into yokuqala oyenzile kwaba, njengomthetho, uhlale phansi ucingo futhi wanquma ukungcola ngokuxhumana kwakho kwasekuqaleni nabantu obaziyo. Futhi-ke, usathola indawo yamahhala enhlanganweni. Ngemuva kwekholi, into yokuqala oyenzile yayihlinzekwa ukuza ngesikhathi esithile sokuxoxisana. Wena, okwamanje, okwamanje usuvele uthanda i-bayonet emnyango wekhabhinethi, ngethemba lokuthi unenhlanhla. Kodwa umuntu oneminyaka yakho (noma mhlawumbe osemncinyane) esitokisini esiqinile wanikeza lesi sikhala kanye nomholo, ongakaze ucabange ngakho. Futhi umcabango wokuqala owawuhamba ekhanda lami: "Empeleni ngomsebenzi onjalo ongcolile ngizothola i-pittance enjalo edabukisayo? ". Futhi uma ucabangela ukuhlangenwe nakho kwakho komsebenzi, lapha ngokuvamile kuyoba nokuthuka. Futhi kuzo zonke izimpikiswano zakho ukuthi ungumchwepheshe ofanelekayo, usanda kubiza inombolo efunwa phakathi kwabantu abasha abafuna ukuthola le sikhala. Ngemuva kokuxoxwa okunye okuningi, ekugcineni wazibonela izinto ezibalulekile. Ukubala emsebenzini kumashumi amahlanu, nokunye okuningi endaweni efunayo, kufana nokuphupha mayelana "neminyaka eyishumi nesishiyagalolunye". Futhi iqiniso lesibili, okushiwo ukuthi bonke abaqashi, abanikezwa ubudala, bakholelwa ukuthi uma uneminyaka engaphezu kwamashumi amahlanu, kusho ukuthi uzoba namandla kunokuba, isibonelo, intombazane eneminyaka engu-25 ubudala engayisebenzela yona. Nasi isithombe esicacile salokho abaningi besifazane abaneminyaka yalesi sikhathi ababhekene nazo, bezama ukuthola umsebenzi.
Ngaphezu kwazo zonke ezingenhla, abaqashi bayaqiniseka ukuthi owesifazane kule nkathi uyoba nzima kakhulu ukuqonda ubuchwepheshe besimanje, akakwazi ukushintsha ngokushesha futhi aphendule ngokushesha izinkomba ezintsha zamakethe zanamuhla. Kungenxa yalokhu futhi yonke imisebenzi yokunikezwayo ivame ukukhawulelwa kokuthunyelwe okungahambisani nokukhokhelwa okuncane.
Ngendlela, manje, ngokumangalisayo, usuku lokuzalwa komfakisicelo lomsebenzi lungenye yezingqinamba eziyinhloko zokuqala. Futhi kunoma iyiphi ingxoxo uvame ukubuza iminyaka yakho, futhi akusilo lonke ulwazi lomsebenzi kanye nezimfanelo zobuchwepheshe. Noma into yokuqala ongayibona cishe yonke isimemezelo somsebenzi wesibili yilapho abantu abasha, abanamandla abaneminyaka engama-20 -40 kuyadingeka. Nasi isenzo somphakathi wanamuhla kanye nemakethe yezabasebenzi.
Uma uneminyaka engaphambi kokuthatha umhlalaphansi, akufanele uthukuthele futhi ucindezeleke ngoba awukwazi ukuthola umsebenzi ohloniphekile. Nanka amathiphu okufanele akusize ukuthola indlela yokuphuma kweso simo.
1. Uma umqashi ekutshela ukuthi unamandla kakhulu kunomuntu oneminyaka engamashumi amabili ubudala ongafika endaweni yakho, zama ukuyihumusha zonke izinzuzo zonyaka wakho. Gcizelela ukuthi unama-plodding ngaphezulu, isimiso sakho sezinzwa seminyaka yonke sinomsindo, ikakhulukazi ekukhethekile kwakho. Ngelinye igama, ebhizinisini lakho, akekho noyedwa ongakukhipha ibhalansi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, konke kuvela kuwe, isiqinisekiso esiphelele sokuthi ngeke ukhulelwe futhi ungayi esivumelwaneni, noma ngeke uhlale ushiye ikhefu lokugula ukuze unakekele ingane encane elele ngokungazelelwe. Zibonise wena neminyaka yakho ngehlangothini ehlukile futhi efanelekayo.
2. Khetha ukuthi yikuphi okufunayo kusesikhundleni sakho osibhekayo: umsebenzi othakazelisayo nokuthakazelisayo, umholo ophezulu, ukukhula komsebenzi noma into ongayigcwalisa yona noma ukuphumula ekhaya. Ukwazi ngokwakho lokho okufunayo, ngokuqinisekile uzothola kulula ukuzibona emakethe yomsebenzi.
3. Ukuxhumana nomqashi, ngaso sonke isikhathi ngokucacile nangokucacile ukuphikisana nezidingo zabo, ezihlobene nesimo kanye nomholo (awufuni ukuthola umsebenzi wama-ruble angamashumi amahlanu, ngisho ne-janitor). Letha izingxabano eziningi kanye nezibonelo zobungcweti bakho kanye nolwazi lomsebenzi ngangokunokwenzeka.
4. Zama ukumangala umqashi. Ukuphazamisa ngokusemthethweni futhi umtshele mayelana nezimo ezibucayi futhi ezimbi kakhulu empilweni yakho. Mbonise ukuthi ungumuntu okhuthele futhi ojabulayo, ngisho naphezu kweminyaka yobudala, nje akhiphe inani elikhulu lamandla amakhulu. Zama ukuhlakanipha, ukuzijabulisa. Veza ukuthi ungumuntu ongasenza isinqumo esifanele nesokunene ngaso sonke isikhathi.
5. Isinyathelo esibaluleke kakhulu ekutholeni umsebenzi yikhono lakho lokungabonisi nje kuphela, kodwa ukubonisa umqashi wakho ukulangazelela kwakho nesifiso sokuthola into entsha ezweni lezinqubo zobuchwepheshe nezinhlelo ezihlukahlukene. Bhalisa ngisho nezifundo ezikhethekile zokufunda ubuchwepheshe obusha. Lokhu kuzokusiza, ngolwazi lwakho, nolwazi lobuchwepheshe besimanje, ngakho-ke noma umqashi angeke ahlale. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungafunda izifundo zokuqeqesha eziphambili noma ukuqeqeshwa okukhethekile. Ngendlela, wengezela amagama akho ngezitifiketi kanye nediploma kulezi zifundo. Khumbula ukuthi akukaze kube sekwephuzile ukutadisha, futhi imali esetshenzisiwe kuyo izobuyela kuwe ngesimo somsebenzi omuhle kakhulu.
Futhi owokugcina, khumbula, ngubani ofuna, uthola njalo. Ngakho-ke, uma wenqatshelwe, ungesabi, kodwa qhubeka ufuna umsebenzi oqhubekayo. Into eyinhloko, ukuhlonipha nokuziqhenya ngokwakho, khona-ke uzokwaziswa ngesithunzi.