Izindlela zokuzivumelanisa nendlela yokuphila enhle
Gwema okungalungile nokusekela okuhle
Sonke singangena ekucindezelekeni ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene. Futhi ngezikhathi ezinjalo, sivame ukuzitshela ukuthi: "Ngingumuntu olahlekile ngokuphelele" noma "Yebo, kungani ngiyiziphukuphuku kangaka? ". Futhi-ke into eyinhloko ukuzibamba, futhi lapho isikhathi esilandelayo kwenzeka, khona-ke yamukela inkulumo engalungile njengento engafaneleki futhi engalungile, bese uzama ukuthatha le nkulumo ngombono oqondile futhi onengqondo: "Angikwazi ukwenza njengoba ngangifisa ukwenza."
Ukuphefumula okuhle
Ngezimo ezicindezelayo, kungaba ukukhathazeka kokukhathazeka, noma ukucindezeleka, amasu okuphumula nokuphefumula okujulile kungasiza. Esikhathini esilandelayo, ngokushesha nje lapho uzizwa umthelela wokucindezeleka kuwe, ngokushesha uqale ukwenza lo msebenzi - ngomlomo wakho senza ukuphuma okujulile ukwenza umsindo wezwi. Vala umlomo wakho, imizuzwana engu-4, uthathe umoya ophuthumayo ngekhala lakho, ubambe umoya wakho imizuzwana engu-7 uphinde uthumele ngomlomo ngokukhala komsindo imizuzwana engu-7. Ukuzivocavoca kuphindwe kathathu.
Sifeza ukuzithokozisa okugcwele
Owesifazane ngamunye ngekhwalithi ethile uzibheka njengomuntu ophumelelayo nonamandla, isibonelo, njengomfazi onothando noma umngane. Futhi ngokuqinisekile, uyayithanda le ndima kakhulu, noma kunjalo, kuyafaneleka ukuzama ukwamukela nezinye izici zokuphila kwakho. Thatha, isibonelo, imifino nezithelo ezingavuthwa ngokushesha, kodwa noma kunjalo zivuthisa ukuvuthwa okugcwele, futhi uzovuthwa ekuziqapheliseni okugcwele, emva kwalokho kuzoba lula ngokwakho esikhumbeni sakho.
Ukukhetha okuhle kakhulu
Uma umile emgqeni esitolo, ekhemisi, unomuzwa wokuthi ukucindezeleka kwakho kukhula njalo ngemva kwesibili, bese uzama ngalesi sikhathi, oma emgqeni ukuze ubone njengesikhathi sakho samahhala, isibonelo, wenze ingxoxo nomuntu oseduze, bese ukucindezeleka kwakho okungenzeka uzoba ukuphumula.
Zizuze ngokwethu ngomsebenzi owenziwe
Izwe elisizungezile, ngeshwa, alikwazi njalo ukuphumelela kwakho, ngakho-ke ucabange ngokwakho umvuzo, bese ungayizizwa ungalingani. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umvuzo onjalo ungathuthukisa nokusebenza kahle. Ngendlela, umvuzo ungenziwa ngesimo sezinto ozithandayo, okuzovela kuzo.
Khumbula: ukubekezelelana kuyinto enhle
Ngezinye izikhathi imbangela yezenzo ezimbi kakhulu ukuhlupheka kwabantu. Futhi, cishe, ukukhumbula lokhu, uzophatha abanye ngesihawu. Futhi lapho uhlangana ngokulandelayo "onesihluku", umphathe ngaphakathi ngokuzithoba. Futhi emva kwesikhashana uzomangala ukuthi ngabe umuzwa wentukuthelo nobuthakathaka uzothungatha kanjani ngaphakathi.
Uthando, khona-ke uzothandwa
Noma yimuphi owesifazane unomgangatho owodwa ovelele - ikhono lemvelo lokuhlangana nabanye, futhi lokhu kuyinhloko yowesifazane. Owesifazane uthanda ukuwusizo futhi ozwakalayo, ukuba nekhono namandla okuhlela imizwa yethu. Nsuku zonke cabanga ukuthi ungenza kanjani ngendlela ethile yokuziphatha, lokhu kuzokusiza ukuletha uxhumano olujulile, esikhathini esizayo lokhu kuxhumana kuyosiza ekufezeni injabulo yangempela.
Phila ngokulula
Ngezinye izikhathi impilo yethu iyinkimbinkimbi, nakuba empeleni kungaba lula. Ngakho-ke, kufanele wenze lula impilo yakho nendlela yakho yokuphila, bese uzothola izizathu eziningi zenjabulo. Uma uqaphela ukuthi usebenza njalo endaweni ethile, thola indlela yokumisa futhi ushintshe isimiso sakho. Lungisa lezi zimo ngokwakho, ungavumeli isimo siholele. Isibonelo, kulo lonke isonto lonke, njalo kusihlwa noma ebusuku uhambele imicimbi ehlukahlukene, futhi uphinde unikezwe ukuya endaweni ethile, sekuyisikhathi sokuthi "cha."
Khumbula amazwi okuhlakanipha
Vala amehlo akho futhi, ucabange ngesimo sakho esicindezelayo, zama ukucabanga ngomuntu ozibonayo ngokuhlakanipha kakhulu. Kuthulwe? Manje ake ucabange ukuthi wathi ngalokhu nokuthi wenzeni. Futhi manje, uzalise iseluleko sakhe njengobuhlakani bakho, futhi uthole ukwaneliseka, uqaphela ukuthi uqondisile isimo, hhayi wena.
Isosha empilweni
Sonke sithola ulwazi lwansuku zonke nsuku zonke, kodwa, ngayinye ngezindlela ezahlukene. Kodwa akufanele uphelelwe ithemba, njengoba isiboshwa sakhe esesimweni esibucayi sejele singalahlekelwa futhi sikholelwa ukuthi konke kuyoba kuhle. Ngakho-ke, uma ubhekana nezimo ezihlukahlukene ezingathandeki, zikhuthaze ngethemba lokuhle kakhulu, bese uzojabula, ngoba ukwazi ukubhekana nalokhu. Ngokudlulisela ithemba kwabanye, uzothuthukisa ikhono lakho kulo mkhuba.
Ukubonga okuwusizo
Umqondo wokubonga impilo yakho unomthelela oqinile, ungakholelwa? Hlola, ngenxa yalokhu, chaza abantu noma ngisho nezinto okungazithokozisa ngazo, kuyilapho into encane noma enkulu. Futhi uthi: "Ngiyabonga ngoba ...", "Ngiyajabula kakhulu ukuba ..." khumbula lokho owazizwa ngenkathi wenza, futhi udwebe iziphetho.
Kholelwa kuwe
Indlela ephumelela kakhulu yokusetha isithombe esihle sempilo yakho ukukholelwa kuwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungaba isilawuli esiwusizo sokungathembeki nokucindezeleka empilweni yakho. Qonda ukuthi ukwesaba kuyingxenye yakho, kodwa kuphela ongashintsha le ngxenye yakho. Ukuze wenze lokhu, thatha umoya ojulile bese uqala ukubona ukuthi ungaphezu kwesimo sokwesaba okukhona kuwe, zama ukuphoqa ngamandla izinkambo zesaba.