Abesifazane bayathokozisa ukuhleka usulu - kodwa ukwedlula amahlaya abesifazane akufani namadoda, akuwona wonke umuntu ozokuqonda. Abathandi be-KVN ne-gum club, eminye imibukiso nezinhlelo ezihlekisayo zivame ukujwayele ukudlulisa amehlo - ngokusobala abesifazane abahlaziyekile abanakho ukuthonya. Kodwa empeleni, amahlaya wesifazane akhona, kodwa ahluke.
Abesifazane batshayela izimoto futhi baqashe izikhundla zomthwalo wemfanelo, bengakhohlwa, noma kunjalo, injongo yabo eyisisekelo, yemvelo. Ngakho amantombazane azama ukunqoba indawo yawo esiphephelo sokugcina sokuzijabulisa kwamadoda - ngokuhlekisa.
Yini abesifazane nabesilisa abahlekisa ngazo?
Into yokuqala ebambe iso lakho uma uqhathanisa amahlaya yisihloko. Amantombazane amaningi "abesilisa" azohle ahlekise nabesifazane, kodwa-ke, amadoda ahlabekile ngokudoba nabaphathi, futhi lezi zihloko ezimbalwa ezingezona ezesifazane.
Ngezinye izikhathi amadoda, ukubhala okuthile okuhlekisayo, basebenzisa izihloko ezivame ukwesilisa ngokobulili, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nokuzulazula ukuya "kwesigamu sowesifazane". Ngakho-ke kukhona zonke izinhlobo ze "Idayari yendoda yomfazi olahlekelwayo", "Umklami we-programmer" nezinye izinto ezihlekisayo. Kodwa obhala i-anecdote noma indaba ehlekisayo, kuvame ukuqondwa ekuqaleni kokubona.
Amadoda avame ukubhala ama-humoresque futhi abhale ama-anecdotes mayelana nokuhlukumezeka kwabantu besifazane kanye nobulili ngokujwayelekile. Abesifazane bahlabelela ngakho ngokuqondile:
"Umkami we-SMS - inkosikazi:
- Ngathenge amabhulukwe omusha kumyeni wami, uzobona-hlola.
Kusukela kumakhosikazi kuya kumkakhe:
"Ngifake ephaketheni lezintambo zikaRafaelello - lokhu kungokwenu."
Mhlawumbe, lena yi-anecdote yezinsikazi ezinamahloni kakhulu "mayelana nalokhu".
Abantu bahleka kanjani?
Umbhalo kanye ne-overtones, ukungabi khona kwejubane elikhulu lokuphendula kanye (ngezinye izikhathi) ukuthuka, ukwesaba ngokwayo kuyinhlekisa noma ngaleso sikhathi kuba yinto yokuhleka usulu - yiyo indlela amahlaya wesifazane ahluke ngayo emadodeni. Yingakho kunoma yiziphi izinguqulo zesifazane zeProjectorPhilston, izinombolo zesifazane ku-Comedy Club zibonakala kanjalo ... zingabonakali.
Amadoda anzima, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo esiteji (futhi, yini engalungile, empilweni) abanakho ukulahlekelwa. Owesifazane uzama njalo ukusindisa ubuso bakhe, futhi kusukela kulo mdlalo, ukuthuka kulahlekelwa yingxenye yengonyama yokusebenza kahle kwayo.
Uma umuntu ngesikhathi sokurekhoda lo mdlalo ngokuzumayo uzibeka njengesiphukuphuku - uzoshaya le ndima ukuze wonke umuntu aqiniseke - futhi uthola ingane. Uma owesifazane elahlekelwa ihlaya lakhe langaphambi kokuqalwa - uNkulunkulu angavumeli ukuthi angamletha ekupheleni ...
Noma mhlawumbe lokhu kuyisibonelo?
Kungenzeka ukuthi, kunokuphikisana ngokuthi amahlaya wesifazane ahluke kumadoda, kungcono ukucabanga ngezinkolelo zesimo. Abesifazane bakhulisa izingane. Bahlakaniphile. Abathetheleli umqondo, kodwa - ikakhulukazi, ngokufaka uphawu kwi "bitch" noma "inyoka ngaphansi kwesundu". Baziwa ngezimfanelo, futhi kusukela emvelweni ojabulisayo (kufaka phakathi izitatimende ezihlambalazayo, ukuhleka usulu okuthile) kubuyisa ngokuphazamiseka.
Ngabe owesifazane angakwazi yini emva kwalesi sihlabelelo futhi aqondwe, avunywe yiziphi izilaleli - hhayi nje kuphela owesifazane? Kulula.
Esinye isici singabhekwa njengento ekhethekile yokugxeka. Amantombazane ahleka ngokuphathelene nobuhlobo, kanti ingxenye engcono yesintu ngokuvamile iwunqoba yibo ... Akusilo yini okwenza abantu bajabule empeleni?
Yiqiniso, kukhona futhi okuphikisanayo-uma ama-divas wokubukeka kombukiso avela esiteji, kodwa ngedatha yomdlali we-zero. Kodwa nokho akusihlekisayo, kunalokho kubizwa ngokuthi umncintiswano wokuhle ...
Amahle kakhulu amahlaya wesifazane ...
Yiqiniso, amahle kakhulu amahlaya wesifazane ekhaya, emndenini. Kukhona inani lamahlaya okulinganiselwe, asekhaya "ukusetshenziswa". Ukuhleka usulu kumngane ojwayele abangane ababili noma abathathu kulula. Zama ukukhipha kulo mdlalo wokuhlayalaza bese ukwenza esibukweni esikhulu, sinikeze izilaleli ezizigidigidi - ubuwula. Mhlawumbe, kungenxa yokuthi umehluko wezihloko futhi akukho okucacile, okujwayelekile "kwamahlaya" wesifazane. Noma yini ezama ukuyishintsha, amadoda aphoqelelwa ngaphandle zonke izindlela.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kunamahlaya wesifazane ahluke kumahlaya wesilisa, ngakho-ke amandla okuba ahle. "Wena ngokwakho u-crest!" - Kungenzeka yini ukuba uphume emlonyeni wesifazane othakazelisayo. Futhi uma uthi kancane - ngeke kube funny ...
Ukuzijabulisa ukulimaza omunye, kodwa ngokumomotheka ebusweni bakho
Ngakho-ke amahlaya, amantombazane othandekayo, abesifazane, abesifazane. Joke, kodwa khumbula-noma ngabe ufuna ngempela ukungena kwi-KVN noma i-Comedy Club, noma (ungavumeli) kwi "I-Curve Mirror", kuzodingeka uhlupheke emigodini ye-asidi yezilaleli, noma ihlaya endaweni engcolile.
Khumbula abalingiswa bakaClara Novikova, u-Elena Stepanenko, uFaina Ranevskaya, uTatyana Lazareva. Amahlaya wesifazane agcwele izithombe - ezigxotshiwe neziwula, abesifazane abayiziphukuphuku, abesifazane abakhethekile nabangaphezu kwamanga. Ukuhlekisa owesifazane kuyinto embi kakhulu. Kubi nakakhulu kunokuba kubi noma ubuwula. Kodwa kuphela lesi sithombe singavusa ukusabela kusuka kumbukeli.
Amahlaya wesifazane ahluke kanjani kumadoda? Mhlawumbe ubumpofu. Ngoba kuyabuhlungu ukuxosha i-backhand, uphonsa ikhala lakho emaphutheni omunye, ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa isithunzi sakho, kunzima kakhulu.