Ungazitholi komqondo owodwa noma isu elithile lokuhlangana nabantu abasha. Ukwenza abangane abaningi akulula njengokungathi kubonakala ekuqaleni. Ngakho ungenza kanjani abangane abaningi? Zama izindlela ezahlukene zokuthandana ngesikhathi esifanayo:
- Yiya emicimbi yezemidlalo ehlukahlukene, iya emathempelini, imibukiso, amakhonsathi, uye emakamelweni okufunda, izinhlangano zomphakathi, ubhalisele izifundo ezithakazelisayo.
- Yiba nesivolontiya enhlanganweni yabantu abasha. Ngokuvamile, ubudlelwane obusondelene nabo buqala enkambweni yokusebenzisana. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uzoba nethuba langempela lokukwazi abantu abanentshisekelo efanayo.
- Yiba yilungu leqembu elilodwa (uma lifiswa, liningana) oyithandayo. Ngakho-ke, uzoba nabangani abaningi abasha.
- Thola umngane noma intombi, bese uyothola ithuba lokukwazi abangane babo, ngakho-ke umbuthano wabangani bakho uzokwandisa kakhulu
- Ngezikhathi ezithile uya emaphathini, kukhona ithuba langempela lokwenza abangane.
- Yiba namaqembu ahlukene ngokwakho.
- Uma ufunda eyunivesithi, yiba ngu-headman weqembu lakho noma ekhanda loMkhandlu Wentsha.
- Unganaki i-intanethi.
Futhi khumbula ukuthi uhlangane kuphi ngaphambili, bheka iphephandaba bese uthola ukuthi yiziphi izenzakalo ezihleliwe edolobheni lakho, futhi uhlanganyele ezithakazelisayo kakhulu kuwe! Lapho ungenza abangane abaningi.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi abanye abantu abanenjabulo enkulu emahoreni amaningi "bahlala" engxoxweni, ngakho-ke ngokugcwele indlela engokoqobo futhi ephumelelayo yokujwayele noma, okungenani, isikhashana ukuqeda isizungu esicindezelayo. Uzothola nethuba lokukhetha izinkundla ezithakazelisayo, wabelane ngombono wakho, futhi ekugcineni, wazi kangcono futhi wenze abangane abaningi!
Yini oyidingayo ukuze uqale ingxoxo? Yebo, yikuphi okufiselekayo ukuqala ingxoxo:
1. Okokuqala, ukumomotheka kanye nomoya omuhle. Uma usomomotheka ebusweni bakho, abantu bacabanga ukuthi kulula ukuxhumana nomuntu onobungane.
2. Indlela eyinhloko yokuqala ukuxhumana nomuntu ukusho okuthile okuthakazelisayo ekhelini lakhe noma nje ukwenza ukuncoma.
3. Buza abantu obaziyo abasha mayelana nokuphila kwabo, izinto zokuzilibazisa, izifiso, izinto zokuzilibazisa, lapho zisebenza / zihlala khona, njll.
4. Phakathi nengxoxo nawe akudingeki ukuba uthule. Uma othile esebenza kuwe, qiniseka ukuthi uphendula, mhlawumbe ngezwi le-jocular, ukuze umbeke umngane wakho kuye.
5. Uma uhlezi endaweni yokudlela encane, zama ukujoyina iqembu labantu abasha (ngokwemvelo, becela imvume yabo kusengaphambili). Noma uma usuvele uhlangane nomunye umuntu, ungamcela ukuthi akujoyine ku-cafe (noma uya kumabhayisikobho, njll)
6. Thumela umyalezo omncane kubangani bakho abasha nge-e-mail, bese ubona ukuthi bayayiphendula noma cha.
7. Qhubeka ukuxhumana nabangane abasha engxoxweni noma ku-ICQ. Ngendlela, ungenza nabangane abaningi lapho.
8. Uma kunethuba elinjalo, nikeza abangani bakho abasha usizo lwabo kunoma yiluphi udaba.
9. Kungcono hhayi ukulayisha ngaphezulu abangane bakho ngezingcingo zakho njalo nemiyalezo. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi akekho othandayo lapho eqala "ukuthola" njalo ngezingcingo.
Mema abajwayele ukuhamba kancane emgwaqweni, bheka amafasitela esitolo noma ezinye izinto!
Ngikholelwa, ukwenza abangane abaningi empeleni kulula kakhulu. Into esemqoka ukuthi ube nobungane nomuntu ovulekile, bese abantu bezokufinyelela.