Amandla wengane iyamangalisa. Iningi lezingane ngalesi sizukulwane selivele liqala ukuhamba futhi lihlole zonke izingxenye zendlu. Ukuqaphela ikakhulukazi ekhishini, futhi njengoba kunezinto eziningi eziyingozi, qaphela ngokucophelela ukuthi i-karapuz ayithathi ummese noma into ekwazi ukulimaza.
Uma ingane ineminyaka engu-1 ubudala, uyamukela futhi uthanda ukulalela ukufunda. Ngisho noma engathandi ukuhlala ngomsindo ngenkathi ufunda inganekwane oyikhonzile, ungenza lokhu ngokuphepha ngenkathi ingane idlala ngentshiseko. Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi indodana noma indodakazi cishe ayibheki, izwa wonke amazwi kanye nokukhuluma.
Lungisa umbuso wosuku futhi uthuthuke
- Izingane nsuku zonke zizozimela ngokwengeziwe. Ungathukutheli uma engakabi nesikhathi sokudla ngobunono i-spoon epulangwe. Konke ngesikhathi esifanele, kodwa kusadingeka ukuthi afake ulwazi oluqala lokuzinakekela. Ngakho-ke, kancane kancane ujwayeze umntwana ukuba asule umlomo wakhe, uhlanze ipuleti ngemuva kwakhe uphinde ulahle udoti.
- Siqhubeka nokufundisa ingane embizeni. Izingane aziyikuzibuza ngaso sonke isikhathi, kodwa lokhu akusona isizathu sokuyeka izifundo zabo. Tshala ingane embizeni emva kwesikhathi esithile emva kokudla kanye nayo yonke ihora lehora. Ngakho uzojwayele lokho uma efuna ukusebenzisa indlu yangasese, kufanelekile ukukucela noma ukuzama ukunamathela kumbumbi.
- Izinwele nezipikili zidinga ukunakekelwa okukhethekile. Ama-curls akufanele afinyelele emehlweni akho, futhi izipikili zakho zidinga ukunqunywa ukuze ingane inganaki ngesikhathi semdlalo.
- Qinisekisa ukuthi ufundisa ingane ukuba ihlanze ngemuva kwayo. Ngakho-ke ukuthi akubukeli umsebenzi obunzima noma umyalelo, qala ukufundisa ingane kule fomu ifomu, ukuze yena ngokwakhe abe nesithakazelo ekususeni wonke amabhola akhe, i-cube kanye nezimoto ebhokisini elikhethekile.
- Kuneminyaka yobudala eyodwa ukuthi kubalulekile ukuthuthukisa umbuso ocacile wosuku. Njengoba ingane yakho ikwazi konke okwenzekayo nxazonke, kubalulekile ukuthi unamasiko omndeni othile. Manje yisikhathi sokwenza izinqubo ezifanayo (ukugeza, ukugeza, ukushaja, ukudla) ngesikhathi esithile. Lokhu akugcini nje ukuhlela umntwana futhi kukunike isikhathi esengeziwe samahhala, kodwa futhi kunciphisa isimiso sezinzwa zemvuthu.
- Ukudla kufanele kunakekelwe kakhulu. Kusukela ngalesi sikhathi umntwana angadla cishe yonke imikhiqizo evela ekudleni komuntu omdala, kodwa isisu sakhe sisesezincane, zama ukukhetha ukudla okuzomnika amandla amaningi.
Thuthukisa imidlalo yezinyane
- Njengoba izingane zizama njalo ukulingisa abantu abadala, zingakuvumeli ukukusiza ekuhlanzeni noma ekuphekeni (Yebo, emva kokuqinisekisa ukuthi ngeke kube yimuphi umonakalo)
- Amama nobaba akufanele bacasulwe ngoba ingane iphinda isenzo esifanayo. Isibonelo, vula bese uvala ukukhanya. Ngakho izingane zihlaziya ukuhlelwa kwezenzo zezinto ezithile futhi zifunde isimiso sabo sokusebenza
- Nika isikhathi esiningi ngangokunokwenzeka ekujwayeleni kwengane nezwe. Ngalesi sikhathi, izingane ziguquguquka futhi zikwazi ukuthola yonke imininingwane. Yingakho ubudala bonyaka owodwa kubhekwa njengesikhathi esihle sokufundisa umntwana ukuba azimele. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, qiniseka ukumtshela ngezingozi, ukuchaza okulimaza lokhu noma leyo nto ingabangela.