Ukwakha ubuhlobo phakathi kwendoda nentombazane akunakube isikhathi sonke ngesikhathi esisodwa.
Ukuphikisana okuphindaphindiwe phezu kwezintathu kufakazela ukucasuka okuvela ngemuva kokuthandwa abathandi ukufunda kabanzi ngomunye nomunye bese besondela, kungukuthi kungukukhanya kuphela, kodwa futhi izinhlangothi zomnyama zekhethi yakho zivele.
Izinkinga ebuhlotsheni zivame kakhulu futhi akudingeki ngizifihle ngemuva kweziqalekiso ezingenangqondo, zidinga ukuxazululwa. Kuyaziwa ukuthi kulula kakhulu ukubhubhisa ubuhlobo kunokuba ulondoloze.
Ngenxa yalokho okukhona ukungqubuzana? Kulula nje, kusukela ebuntwaneni sinemithwalo eminingi yemikhuba nemithetho yethu, evame ukukhishwa emndenini, futhi kaningi angeke ihambisane nemikhuba yomlingani.
Yazi ukuthi bonke abantu bahlukile, futhi othandekayo wakho akuyona ikhophi yakho, ngakho ungalindeli imizwelo efanayo, ukuhlolwa nokuziphatha okuvela kuye, ungazami ukuzibuyisela. Ngokuvamile kungenxa yalokhu kuphakama izingxabano ngezibili.
Kodwa futhi ukugcina ukunganeliseki, futhi, akufanelekile, ngoba kuzokhula futhi kanye nje kuyokwazi ukubulala uthando lwakho. Kubalulekile kulesi simo ukuhlehlisa izinhlangothi zombili, ukuzama ukuxazulula konke ngokuthula, ngaphandle kokufunga. Ukukhuluma nomfana futhi uxoxe ngenkinga, ungakwazi ukugwema imiphumela ebuhlungu yokuhlukanisa.
Ingabe usazibuza ukuthi ungaxabani kanjani nensizwa? Okokuqala, hlaziya izizathu ozifungelayo, cabanga ukuthi kungani ziyisisekelo senkinga. Ungamangaleli lowo okhethiwe ngokungaqondi kahle kwakhe, ngoba mhlawumbe nguwe ongeke ufune ukumlalela.
Kungcono izwe elincanyana kunokuxabana okuhle. Uma ungakwazi ukugwema izingxabano, zama ukwenza kanjalo.
Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi kuzodingeka uvumelane njalo naye, lokhu kuzokucasula futhi kubangele ukuxabana okulandelayo. Uma kukhona ukungqubuzana, uhlobo oluthile lwenkinga, kufanele luxazululwe, kodwa lungashiywanga kuso
Uma usenquma ukukhuluma ngokungathí sina, ke ungahambi ngokumemeza. Ukukhala okwamanje ngeke kufezeke lutho, abafana abakubekezeli lapho intombazane ikhala futhi iqala ukukhala. Amantombazane acasulayo.
Futhi ungamkhumbuzi zonke izono zakhe neziphambeko zakhe. Ngakho awuxazululi inkinga.
Enye yezinhlobonhlobo zezimpikiswano ezinjalo ziyikhaya, ngokuvamile zibangelwa ikhanda elilodwa eliqhubekayo. Yiqiniso ufuna ukuba nobuhlobo obuhle, kodwa ukuhlala nomunye umuntu, awugwemeki kulokho okubizwa ngokuthi "bytovuhi", okungase kuphazamise ngisho nobuhlobo obuqine kakhulu. Kufanele nje ubekezelele, ngoba ungowesifazane, futhi njengoba wazi, ebuhlotsheni besifazane, kumele kube khona indoda ehlakaniphile. Ngokwemvelo, uma okhethiweyo enempela imizwa ngawe, khona-ke noma yikuphi ukuphikisana, okushiwo ngokuqondile, ngeke kudlule ize.
Izingxubevange ezingaphezu kwezinyathelo - lokhu ngokuvamile kuyindaba yesikhashana, uze uqaphele ukuthi kuyisiphukuphuku ukuchitha isikhathi ngalolu hlobo lwezinto, futhi uzokujabulela ukuxhumana nomunye.
Kuzo zonke lezi zinqubo kukhona nomzuzu omuhle, lesi yisikhathi sokubuyisana. Yeka indlela emangalisayo emva kokucaciswa kwesiphepho sobudlelwane nje kuphela okugumbana bese kukhwela phezulu esifubeni sakho, uqaphela ukuthi ungakanani othandekayo komunye nomunye. Lesi sikhathi sokubuyisana sihle kakhulu uma ufuna ukutshela wonke umuntu ukuthi ulungile kangakanani. Okunye ukuxabana ngamabomu, ukuze kufike isikhathi sokubuyisana. Nakuba lokhu kuyisiphukuphuku, udinga ukuqonda yonke imizuzu esetshenziswa ndawonye, kungani uchitha isikhathi ngeze.
Uma nje ungenayo imizwelo eyanele, bese wenza okuthile okwedlulele ndawonye, kuyoba usizo kakhulu kunezingxabano. Futhi akeke usazibuza ukuthi ungaxabani kanjani nomfana!
Uthando futhi uthandeke!