Ngokuvamile abazali abasha baxwayiswa: bathi, nawe uphephelwa kakhulu, fundisa ingane yakho ukuthola izikhali. Kodwa ngempela, ingabe kungaba khona ukunakekelwa okukhulu nokunaka? Kungenzeka yini "ukuphazamisa" ingane ngale ndlela?
Kunemibono eminingi ehlukene ekukhuliseni kwezingane. Ngokusemthethweni bangahlukaniswa zibe yisimiso sezinkinga kanye nesistimu yokwanelisa izidingo zemvuthu. Uhlobo lokuqala luthi ingane kufanele ivinjelwe ukuze ingasetshenziselwa ukuthola konke ayithandayo. Owesibili yilokho okufanele akwanelise zonke izidingo zakhe, ngaphandle kwalokho uzolahlekelwa uthando oluncane.
Iqiniso, njengokujwayelekile, endaweni ethile phakathi
Usana olusanda kuzalwa lungakalungi: uyamazi nje umhlaba. Ivula indlela izwe elibhekana ngayo nezidingo zakhe, ukuthi uyamphatha kanjani. Ukwanelisa izicelo zemvuthu ngalesi sigaba, simtshela ukuthi into ebaluleke kakhulu, into ebaluleke kakhulu ayenazo futhi azoba nayo. Ukukhawulela, siletha izimfanelo zokulwa, sihlale siphapheme futhi siqaphile.
Mayelana nokuthi indlela yokusuka ekuntwaneni isisa nothando lomntwana omncane ithinta kanjani ukwakheka kobuntu, ngokusho kwabacwaningi abafundela amasiko ezizwe ezihlukahlukene zaseNdiya. Ngakho-ke, ososayensi asekuyisikhathi eside bebona impilo yalezi zizwe, bhala ukuthi isiko lokuzanelisa zonke izidingo zengane yisici salozo zizwe ezingazange zihlanganyele empini, ziphila ngokuvumelana nemvelo. Izithibelo ekudleni, ukuxhumana nomama kwakuyisici sezizwe ezinzima kakhulu eziphakamisa amasosha.
Yini engenzeki kakhulu?
Ngakho-ke, ingqondo yesimanje yesikhathi eside ithi ukugcwalisa izidingo zengane ebuntwaneni kusiza ukukhulisa umuntu ovulekile, onobungane futhi onomthelela othembekile futhi othanda ukuxazulula izinkinga ngokufuna ukuyekethisa. Kunombono wokuthi izingane ezinjalo esikhathini esizayo zihambisana kangcono nokuxhumana okunobungane, ukukhathazeka kwezihlobo kanye nemvelo.
Ngakho-ke yiziphi izidingo zezingane, ezanelisayo ukuthi, sichazela ingane yethu ukuthi izwe linomusa, liphephile futhi livulekile? Kuthiwani ngenkukhu engenzeki kakhulu?
Izandla zikaMama
Ngamanye amazwi, ukuxhumana ngokomzimba nomama. Bathi umntwana angadalwa: uma uqhubeka, umntwana uzobe efuna ukuba nesisa nokuthanda ingane encane. Empeleni, ingane idinga ukuba isondelene nonina ngendlela ethanda ngayo. Kulokhu kukhona amadivaysi anjalo alula njengengxantathu kanye ne-kangaroo yamasaka. I-crumb ithulile lapho umama eseduze, ukhula ngokulinganisela, lapho engakhathazeki ukuthi unina angamshiya. Futhi akudingeki ukhathazeke ngokuthi akalokothi athathe izandla zakhe. Ukuzethemba yena nomama wakhe, umntwana uvulekile konke okuthakazelisayo, futhi uzozimela uma ekulungele.
Ukuncenga kunconywa kakhulu kubantwana ababuthakathaka, abanikezwa isikhathi esibi kakhulu emva kokuzalwa. Kukhona ngisho nenqubo yokwelapha izingane zangaphambi kokubeletha ezithwalweni ezikhethekile, hhayi ku-incubator. Ngokushesha nje lapho odokotela beyeka ukwesaba umsebenzi wokuphefumula imvuthuluka, idluliselwa kumama. Ukuxhumana nomzimba nokuncelisa ibele kuvikela i-hypothermia nokugula, kusize ukuqinisa isimiso sayo sezinzwa.
Ukuxhumana ngokomzimba kusiza izingane zisinde ekuhlukunyezweni kokuhlukana nomama wazo, uma emva kokubeletha abakwazanga ukuhlangana ndawonye: umama wayezohamba ne-anesthesia, ingane izodinga ukunakekelwa emkhathini noma ekhaya lokubeletha. Ngokuba imvuthu - lokhu kuyinkinga enkulu, futhi kulula kakhulu ukuthi alulame ncamashi lapho umama eseduze.
Ukunakwa
Ngokuvamile banikeze iseluleko sokuthi bangagijimeli emntwaneni ku-squeak yokuqala, bathi, kufanele ajwayele ukuba yedwa, kungenjalo ngokushesha noma kamuva uzoqala ukuxhaphaza abazali bakhe! Eqinisweni, i-crumb isasencane kakhulu ukuthi ingasebenzisa ngamabomu othile. Uvele udwebe iziphetho mayelana nokuthi izenzo zakhe ziholela kuphi. Kuyaziwa ukuthi izingane ezishiywe omama eziphilayo ngokushesha ngemva kokuzalwa zifuna kakhulu futhi azibikezeli kancane ngosizo lokukhala. Babukeka bekhululekile futhi "bekhululekile." Noma kunjalo, lokhu kulula kuhambisane nokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo kanye nokuthuthukiswa komzimba, kanye nokuthuthukiswa komkhuba wokungalaleli izimpawu ezesabekayo zesimo somzimba nomzimba wakho.AbakwaKids abathola ukunakwa okukhulu ngokushesha bayeke "ukudlala" uma kubo hhayi nje ukulingana ne-squeak yokuqala, kodwa futhi uqaphele uma benganiki izimpawu ze-alamu. Kungaphansi kwalesi simo ingane ifunda ukuthi ingabambeli ngaphandle kwesizathu.
Ukulala okuhlangene
Isizukulwane esidala asiqondi umqondo wokulala nomntwana. Kodwa-ke, kulula kakhulu ngokudla kokudla ebusuku, ngaphezu kwalokho, nomama, futhi umntwana uhlezi ndawonye. Iqiniso lokuthi "ingane ngeke ikhishwe embhedeni emva kombhede" iyinkolelo, lapho umntwana ethola amandla, lapho engadingi ukuthola ubisi ebusuku, uzothatha isikhathi eside ukujwayela ukuba esitokisini sakhe. Izingane aziqondi ukuhlukanisa nomama, kodwa uma zikhona lokhu sekulungele.
Ubisi lwebele
Kuze kube manje, kunombono wokuthi ukondla ingane ngokufunwa kuyingozi. Eqinisweni, akunakwenzeka ukunqotshwa ubisi lwebele, futhi ukubaluleka kobisi lomama impilo yemvuthu ngeke kuqinisekiswe nakakhulu. Ngakho-ke, kunengqondo ukondla umntwana ngokufunwa, wazi ukuthi ezikhathini ezinzima uzodla kaningi, kodwa ngaphansi. Isibonelo, uma amazinyo ehlukana, uma igciwane lihlaselwe, njll. Kodwa ingxube ingaba yiningi kakhulu. I-caloric engaphezulu, futhi omama abaxubani ngaso sonke isikhathi kahle ingxube, befuna ukondla okungcono kakhulu. Yingakho abantu abavame ukuvota behlushwa ngokweqile.
Ukuhamba
Izingane ezinzima kakhulu ngezinye izikhathi zivusa ukwesaba: Abazali, besaba, ukuthi i-crumb izokhathala, zama ukuyikhawulela nge-diapers, i-curbs ye-crib, njll. Empeleni, uma ingane ikhathele, uzolala. Yebo, ngaphambi kokuba lezi zinhlelo zesifo se-nervous immature zingashelile, kodwa injabulo yokukhathazeka lapha ayibangelwa umsebenzi wokusebenza, kodwa ngokuphambene, omncane uzama "ukukhulula" ukucindezeleka ngosizo "isiko lomzimba". Izingane ezikhathazayo ngezinye izikhathi zinganciphisa ukunyakaza ngesikhathi sokulala "ngesikhwama sokulala" esinomsizi, lapho imikhono, uma ikhona, ingcono kuqala ingene ngaphakathi. Ngesikhwama esinjalo i-crumb izwa njengesibelethweni: iyancenga, futhi kulula iyancipha.
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Uma ingane izwa njalo inkulumo ebhekiswe kuye, isethelwe ukuxhumana, futhi ukuzwa kwakhe kokukhuluma nge-phonosemantic (okubambe iqhaza ekukhulumeni inkulumo) kuqhubeka kahle. Udinga ukuzwa inkulumo esitokisini. Okokuqala, ubona ukuthi ukhuluma naye, bese efunda ukuhlukanisa phakathi kwamagama ngamunye noma inkulumo yonke, khona-ke kuyoba lula ngaye ukuthi afunde kahle uhlelo lolimi futhi agcwalise amagama akhe.
Ungesabi ukunika ingane yakho uthando olukhulu kakhulu! Ngokushesha, uzoqala ukuhlukaniswa kancane kancane nonina futhi ahlanganyele emisebenzini ethakazelisayo. Vumela ngalesi sikhathi ukuthi uyoqina futhi aqiniseke ekukhulumisaneni kwakho.