Abaningi emadodeni abahlangana empilweni yowesifazane bangahlukaniswa "ngeyabo" "hhayi eyabo". Isigaba sokuqala yilokho esizizwa sishisa, naphezu kokuthi le ndoda ilala nokushisa, idla ukudlala nokugcoba emgodini ohlanzekile, idakiwe noma ilwa. Kuzo zonke lezi zimo, indoda iveza umuzwa wothando, ukunakekelwa, ububele, isifiso sokwamukela nokuzisola. "Akuzona ezakhe" - ngokuvamile abangaziwayo, iphunga labo liphindaphindiwe, ukuziphatha kuyamcasula, lapho owesifazane esiseduze nomuntu, akanalo isifiso sobulili, akukho mzwelo.
Kodwa, ukuhlukaniswa okuyinhloko kwamadoda abe yizinhlobo ezahlukene, kusekelwe ekhoneni lamakhadi. Ngeke ngibhale isikhathi eside ngokuthi "ama-ayisikhombisa", "ayisithupha" namanye amakhadi angenayo izithombe. Ungakwazi ukuwahlangabeza kalula emgwaqweni esitolo nge-can of beer, enkampanini yabangane abafanayo eduze nomnyango, esiteshini se-suburban, emakethe, ezitolo ezishibhile nokuningi. Abantu abanjalo abanalo "okuyisisekelo" ngaphakathi, abanalo injongo empilweni, bangekho lutho, bancane, banesibindi futhi abanandaba nabo. Ukuphila kwabo kuyisithukuthezi futhi kunomusa, ubusuku babo bugcwele ibhola kanye nebhodlela likabhiya. Ngomuntu onjalo uzomela phansi kakhulu empilweni yomphakathi bese uphenduka ube yi-klushu yasekhaya. Amadoda - "ayisithupha" awakwazi ukuzwa imizwa ejulile, ukuthandana okuhle, ukuxhasana nezipho. Amahlaya abo ahlambalaza, aphansi futhi anikezwa yindlu yangasese esiteshini. Awuthandi? Ngakho, sidlula ngalesi sigaba. Abesifazane baye basungula uhlobo lwamadoda, ngokusekelwe kokubheka njalo.
Okulandelayo kukhona ama-jacks. Lokhu, njengomthetho, osemncane eminyakeni noma emphefumulweni wabamele abesilisa abanesibindi esinamandla. Bashintsha, bashintsha imisebenzi, abesifazane, abangane, izinto zokuzilibazisa. Ngokuqinisekile akuyona isikhulu, futhi ekuziphatheni kwakhe, cha, futhi uhlobo oluthile lokubheka luzophuma: akuyona into evezwe ngayo lesi sigwebo, ukubonakala okubukeka. Kubonakala kunjalo, kodwa kukhona okungalungile. Ama-jacks - akuyona into engafanele kunazo zonke, ukuze kube lula ukuhamba kwesikhathi. Kungumqondo omuhle wokutshela inkaba emfushane eholidini, kodwa akufanelekile ukulinda noma yini ekhethekile. Zifana kakhulu ne-ayisikhilimu - zidliwe futhi zikhohliwe. UJack ngeke akuthwale ezandleni zakho, enkantolo enhle, uhlabelele izingcezu phansi kwefasitela, kodwa uma umthanda ngempela, uzokwenza umzamo wokukukhohlisa. Kodwa, uma umgomo ungafinyeleleki isikhathi eside, khona-ke ngokushesha uyashiya emkhawulweni. AmaJacks ayithandi kakhulu abahlakaniphile, abesifazane abahlukumezayo.
Amadoda - amakhosi ayedabuli, kodwa uhlobo oluthandekayo kakhulu. Ekubukeni, akunakwenzeka ukucacisa iNkosi, angabheka njengento. Isici esiyinhloko sokuphila komuntu onjalo kungukuphila kwakhe okuthakazelisayo nokucebile. Amandla akhe angaphakathi akhangisa abantu abahlukahlukene, uthola ezimweni ezingavamile. Ungumuntu ophelele owazi kahle ukuthi ufunani empilweni. Ngenxa yamandla akhe angaphakathi, ukukhathazeka, ukuhlakanipha kanye nokuhlekisa, unemali, uxhumano kanye nabantu ababaziyo ezindaweni ezihlukahlukene zokuphila komuntu. Le ndoda - inkosi iyathandeka kakhulu, ingafunda okuningi, ubone izindawo ezithakazelisayo, vakashela amaqembu angasese. Le ndlela yokuphila izuze izincwadi eziningi nemisebenzi. Ngemva kwesikhashana, uzobona ukuthi waqala ukuziphatha njengeNdlovukazi. Kodwa ingabe enye ingabe owesifazane wangempela kufanele aziphathe kanjani? Amakhosi amakhosi athambekele ekuziqapheleni, azikhathaleli ngezinto zasendlini. Owesifazane oseduze nomlingani onjalo, uzoyeka ukuba "mundane", uxoxe nentombi yakhe entsha, ubonise izinkanyezi zebhizinisi. Uhlelo lokuguqulwa kwesilinganiso luyashintsha, kufakazela okuqukethwe kwangaphakathi. Abesifazane baye bamisa uhlobo lomuntu olungele kukho konke.
Isisulu esiyigugu kakhulu owesifazane siyoba umuntu - i-ace. Ukuze uthole ummeleli onjalo wobulili obunamandla kumanethiwekhi abo, kuzomele azame kanzima. Ukuthandana naye kuyisibalo se-aerobatics, kodwa kuyafaneleka. Ngakho, i-Aqobo yangempela ibonakala kanjani? Ulinganisiwe kahle, uhlakaniphile ngokweqile, ucebile, unemikhuba emihle, ibhizinisi elibi. Njengomthetho, bangabanikazi bezinkampani ezinkulu, osomabhizinisi, osopolitiki. Umuntu - i-ace kuyo yonke into iyona engcono kakhulu, eyokuqala. Kunzima ukuhlangana nomuntu onjalo, ngoba eduze komuntu oyedwa kufanele abe ngowesifazane omkhulu.