Indlela yokwenza ikati ihambisane nenja

Unenkathi ehlala isikhathi eside, ozwa njengenkosi egcwele yonke indawo. Ucabanga ukuthi wonke amakamelo ayakhe futhi aphumule kahle, lapho ethanda kakhulu. Uyazi ukuthi nguye kuphela owenza izilwane ezifuywayo "emfuceni" emndenini, futhi ukubekezelela omunye umuntu, ngaphandle kwakhe, ensimini yakhe, akayikuya. Kodwa-ke wanquma ukuba nomunye umngane onemilenze emine futhi kungaba mnandi ukuba nekati noma ikati, ngakho-ke cha, wanquma ukuletha ipayipi encane ekhuphuka endlini. Yilokho inkinga, ukuqinisekisa ukuthi izilwane zihlangana ndawonye. Phela, lokhu kuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu futhi inesikhathi eside yokujwayela, ikakhulukazi uma kuziwa ezilwaneni eziphikisana ngokuphelele. Ngakho-ke, ungenza kanjani ikati ihambisane nenja noma indlela yokugwema ukungqubuzana phakathi kwezilwane ezifuywayo?

Le nkulumo: "ukuhlala njengenja enenja" yasungulwa ngengozi. Emva kwakho konke, ngokusho kwabantu abaningi, yilokho phakathi kwalezi zilwane ukuthi akukho nhlobo isihawu esingenasimo somunye nomunye. Kodwa izazi zezilwane azikholelwa ngalokhu futhi zithi akukho ukungafani phakathi kwekati nenja njengenjalo. Isibonelo salokhu kungaba indaba ye-banal mayelana nokuthi i-kitten ne-puppy bakhule kanjani ndawonye futhi abazange bathole amanzi. Futhi, okuthakazelisayo kakhulu, indaba enjalo ayitholakali esimweni esisodwa. Ngakho-ke, yebo, kungcono ukuthi ikati lihambisane ne-puppy, ukuyikhuphula ndawonye kusukela ebuntwaneni. Kodwa, futhi uma i-puppy yaba yilungu elisha lomndeni, lapho ikati "libuse" endlini isikhathi eside. Yini-ke? Masihlanganise nawe wenze ikati ihambisane nenja.

Ngokusho kuzo zonke izazi zezilwane, uma unqume ukuletha i-puppy endlini, kakade unayo ikati elidala, akudingeki ukhathazeke ngakho. Yiyo ngqo ikati elidala elikwazi kakhulu ukwamukela "umqashi" omusha. Ikati elisesemncane kakhulu lingakwazi ukuhamba kalula nenja elethwe nguwe. Ngakho-ke, ungazama ngokuphepha "indawo yokuhlala" yakho. Indlela engcono kunazo zonke kule nkinga uma unayo ikati. Kuyinto ikati elingathuthukisa imizwa "yomama" ngomntwana futhi uzokhathalela ukukhulelwa kwakhe, ukubekezelela zonke izilinganiso zakhe kanye nemishumo esebenzayo yomdlalo.

Ngosuku lokuqala, lapho izilwane zizanazana, i-puppy ingcono kakhulu igcinwe nge-leash noma ingavumi ukuhamba. Lokhu kufanele kwenziwe ukuze inja ingagxumi ekati, kodwa noma ingabe ingaphambani. Kuncike ekutheni isimo sekati, okuyinto, ngendlela, kufanele sicatshangelwe. Ngempela, wonke amakati, njengabantu, ayingozi kakhulu, ezolile noma ngokuphambene nalokho, ehamba phambili noma ethandeka kakhulu futhi ethandekayo. Ngakho ukuze ikati lihambisane ne-puppy, zama ukukhetha i-puppy ngomlingisi wekati. Uma izilwane ziyogcizelelana, qiniseka ukuthi ababaziyo bazoba ngamaphesenti angamakhulu ngomqondo omuhle wezinga lokuziphatha.

Khumbula ukuthi iphesenti eliqakathekileko ekujwayeleni nenja kufanele livele ngokuqondile ekati. Ikati kufanele izame ukuxhumana nomngane omusha. Ngakho-ke, yiphakamise imbongolo ibe ngumnsalo wekati noma ngokuphambene nalokho, akudingekile nhlobo. Ukuphoqelela ngeke ukwazi ukufeza noma yini, kodwa kukhulisa yonke inqubo yezilwane ezivuthiwe. Ekugcineni, bazovele baqale ukwesaba omunye nomunye, futhi empeleni akunjalo neze. Ngendlela, ungalokothi uvumele "umqashi omusha", okungukuthi inja, engaphezu kwemingcele yonke futhi aphule imithetho ngisho nekati lakho elihloniphayo. Wena, mhlawumbe, manje ucabanga ngendlela efanayo ukuthi yini okufanele ukwenze ukuze izilwane zihlangane - kuyinto engenakwenzeka ngempela. Kodwa sizokuqeda ukungabaza kwakho, uthi akukho lutho olungenakubekezelela lapha. Into esemqoka, ungakhathazeki! Zama okokuqala, okungukuthi cishe amasonto amabili nakakhulu, ungashiyi ikati inja yodwa ngaphandle kokuqondisa. Uya esitolo - thatha ipilisi kuwe ukuhamba, uya ebhizinisini - shiya umuntu ekhaya ukuze anakekele izilwane. Lokhu konke kwenziwa ngenxa yokuthi ngeke ukwazi ukubikezela ukuxabana okukhulu phakathi kwekati nenja, okuzopholisa ubuhlobo babo esikhathini esizayo. Ngendlela, ebalulekile ekuqondeni phakathi kwezilwane, kungukuthi awudingi ukunikeza ikati noma inja njenge "isilwane". Phela, ukulalela omunye, wena ngokwakho ngaphandle kokuqaphela, kuzosusa enye, engabangela nokuzonda phakathi kwezilwane komunye nomunye. Khumbula ukuthi izilwane azifani kakhulu nabantu, ngakho-ke izimfanelo zabantu ezifana nomhawu nokufutheka zihambisana nalokho okushiwo la magama. Ngakho-ke, unakekele i-puppy kanye nekati ngokulingana okulinganayo, ngaphandle kokukhipha okungcono kakhulu futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, ungaphinda ukhuthaze noma yimaphi abangane abanezintambo ezine. I-puppy yakho kufanele ibe njalo ensimini yakho. Qaphela ukuthi akayidli esitsheni sekati, akazange alale endaweni yakhe ethandekayo noma eyakhelwe ngokukhethekile lokhu futhi akaphuzanga amanzi akhe.

Inzuzo enkulu futhi ebalulekile kuleso simo ukuthi i-puppy encane ihlale izwa sengathi iyamahloni phambi kwekati elidala. Yini engathinta kakhulu inqubo "yokuphila" indawo yabo efulethini. Ngendleleni, mayelana nendawo, uma i-puppy ingavumi kakhulu futhi ingafaki ikati kunoma yiluphi uhlaka, bonisa ukuthi ngubani endlini futhi ungumnikazi futhi ukhombe ingane yakhe endaweni yakhe. Kuze kube ikati lakho lenze lokho.

Ukuze i-puppy ihambisane nophawu, kudingeka futhi ucabange ngokudla okuhlukene "okuhlukile". Khumbula ukuthi inja akufanele idle nekati evela kwelinye isitsha. Lokhu kungaholela ekungqubuzaneni okungenakugwemeka. Zama ukuqinisekisa ukuthi imfuyo yakho ngayinye inesitsha sayo somuntu siqu samanzi namanzi. Kungcono ukubeka lezi zitsha zingasondelene kakhulu. Ngendlela, njalo uphakele izilwane zombili ngesikhathi esisodwa. Ngaphezu kwakho konke lokhu, udinga ukuthatha izindawo zokulala ezifuywayo bese uzihlomisa. Phela, akusizi ngalutho uma i-puppy ilala njalo ebhasikisini likakati. Nakuba-ke, akekho owakhiphela ukhetho ukuthi izilwane, ezifudumele, zizolala ndawonye.

Yilokho amathiphu ayisisekelo abukeka sengathi ikati lihambisana nenja. Ngendlela, la macebiso angalandelwa futhi uma, enenja ekhaya, ulethe ikati. Khumbula, isilwane sakho esiyingozi kakhulu, kulula ukuhambisana nomngane omusha. Inhlanhla kuwe!