Indlela yokufundisa ingane embizeni, izeluleko zengqondo

Ukuqiniseka ngokusetshenziswa kwamanzi ibaluleke kakhulu ekuthuthukiseni imvuthu. Ngakho, ubonisa abazali bakhe ukuthi: "Ngaqala ukuba ngumdala!" Indlela yokufundisa ingane embizeni, iseluleko somqondo wezengqondo yisifundo senkulumo yethu yanamuhla.

Naphezu kokuthi inqubo yokujwayela embizeni - isayensi ilula, akuvamile ukuba omama nabazali bakwazi ukufeza lokhu ngaphandle kwezinyembezi kanye nabahlaziyi ngengxenye yengane. Futhi konke ngoba ngokuvamile ukuqeqesha "akusikho ezingeni elifanele" - okungalungile, okufisa, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - hhayi ngesikhathi esifanele! Ukulungisa lesi simo kuzosiza ukuzijwayeza ngemicabango emibi engabazali abavimbela ukusungulwa "kobudlelwane" phakathi kwemifucumfucu nommbiza.


Inkolelo yenombolo 1. Kodwa kuthiwani uma singenaso isikhathi?

Ukuphila kusheshisa, siphuthuma, futhi kuvame ukugijima ukuthi sigijime ngaphambi komkhiqizo. Ingane ayesazi ukuthi kufanele ihambe kanjani, kodwa sesivele sizama ukumfundisa ukuthi afunde kanjani futhi abhale, akayikulawula ngempela umzimba wakhe, kodwa thina simile ngesikhumba esilungile, sithi yisikhathi. Sikupholaphi? Ososayensi bathi ukubunjwa kokugcina kokulawula okusemandleni emathunjini emntwaneni kwenzeka cishe izinyanga ezingu-18.

Ngakho-ke, kuze kube sekupheleni kweminyaka eyodwa nengxenye, yonke imizamo yethu yokufundisa ingane ukuthi ibhekane namacala akhe amakhulu nezincane endaweni ekhonjiswe ngabazali imane nje ingenangqondo.

Akaqondi nje ukuthi yini abayifunayo kuye. Ngenxa yalokho, ukuqeqeshwa ekusebenziseni imbiza kuphenduka ukuqeqeshwa kwentando nokuthuthukiswa kokuqapha kumama. Yilokho konke! Lokhu akuhlangene ngalokhu nengane. Futhi ukuthi lapho useneminyaka eyishumi ubudala kuthatha izinyanga ezimbalwa, kuhambisane nezinhlanhla zomntwana futhi ngezikhathi ezithile ukuphelelwa yithemba lomama, emva kweminyaka engamashumi nesigamu yokuphila imvuthuluka ihamba yodwa esikhathini sezinsuku namasonto.


Inkolelo yenombolo yesi-2. Ngeke sithathwe enkulisa!

Ngempela, lapho bebhalisa enkulisa, othisha bafakazela ukuthi ingane inamakhono okuzimela okuyinhloko - ukuze umntwana agqoke, asebenzise ibhodlela futhi adle yena ngokwakhe. Kodwa ake sibuke isimo ngesibindi.

Ingabe uhlela ukunikeza ingane emtholampilo kwasebuntwaneni? Kulula. Izazi ze-Psychologists zikukwazisa ukuthi uzibambezele ngokufakelwa kwezinsana ezingxenyeni zezingane okungenani iminyaka emibili, futhi mhlawumbe ku-3-3.5. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi kuze kube yilesi sikhathi ingane ayilungele ngokwengqondo ukuhlukaniswa nomama futhi isikhathi eside emhlambini wakhe. Akakabi nesidingo sokuba nomphakathi, ukuxhumana nabangane bakhe, udinga umama, kahle, okungenani, ugogo noma unina. Ngakho kungani uqala ukulungiselela ingane enkulisa iminyaka embalwa ngaphambi kokuba lokhu kwenzeka okwenzekayo? Futhi ngisho nosizi olunjalo. Yebo-ke, kunezimo lapho abazali kufanele banqume khona izingane ezisezingeni eliphezulu ngaphambi kwesikhathi esaboniswa ngabachwepheshe bezengqondo, kodwa ungamniki ingane eqenjini eliphakeme, uzoya endaweni lapho abanakekeli nabanakekeli kufanele bamnakekele, futhi banakekele abantwana abanikezwa ebalulekile indima. Ekugcineni, lo msebenzi wabo, okuyinto abafuna ukuzikhulula wona. Akukho lutho.


Inkolelo yenombolo yesithathu. UMasha (Dasha, Lena ...) ingane yakwazi ukusebenzisa ibhodlela ezinyangeni ezingu-6, 8, ezingu-9 ...

Lezi zindaba, njengezimoto zamabhayisikili, ziphila izimpilo zazo futhi zidluliselwa emlonyeni kuya emlonyeni, kusukela komama kuya kwesinye. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, akekho owaziyo umama omusha owaziwayo, kodwa wonke umuntu ukholelwa ukuthi ukhona, bese kuphakama umbuzo wemvelo: "Kungani, uma abanye bewuthola, angikwenzi? Ngingakwenza futhi!" Futhi uqala umzabalazo onzima wokubamba kanye nomxholo womama ongcono. Umzabalazo kunzima, ukhathele futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, akusizi ngalutho. Akusizi ngalutho nje ngoba kuphikisana nezinqubo zokuvuthwa komzimba wengane yomntwana, njengoba kushiwo ngenhla, kodwa futhi ngenxa yokuthi awukwazi ukufakazela umbono wakho kuwo wonke umuntu. Kungani umuntu kufanele ahlole uma ulungile ngokwanele ingane yakho? Ikakhulukazi uma kuziwa ekubandlululweni okungahambisani nendawo yangempela yezindaba. Kusasa kuyotholakala ukuthi kwezinye uMasha ingane usuvele ukhulume ngezilimi ezintathu ngonyaka, futhi lokho, nawe uzoqala ukuphazamisa izenzo zakho ezingalungile? Izinga lemikhuba yamakhono akho omama lingaxhomeke kumuntu owodwa: ukuthi ulungele kahle kanjani, uphilile futhi ujabule impilo yomntanakho.

Ngakho-ke, awukwazi ukufundisa ingane yakho ukusebenzisa ibhodlela ezinyangeni ezingu-6? Cha, awukwazi. Into kuphela esuselwe empumelelweni kule ndaba iwukuqeqesha umama. Ngokuvamile, indlela yokuqeqeshwa kokuqala kwamaphesenti ixhomeke eqinisweni lokuthi ngezikhathi ezithile, isibonelo, kanye njalo ngemva kwemizuzu engu-20-30, umama unikeza i-crumb ukuya endlini yangasese. Lokhu kufinyelelwa ngezindlela eziningi, isibonelo, ingane ibanjwe phezu komcengezi, ngenkathi ithempipu ivuleka, futhi ngaphansi kokukhononda kwamanzi ingane igubha isidingo. Futhi yilokho konke! Umama wami ukhohliwe ukubamba umntwana phezu komcengezi, wafaka amacici akhe. Ngakho ngubani esiqeqesha kulokhu?


Inkolelo yenombolo 4.

Ama-diapers alahlekile alimaza ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi

Yithi, ezinsikeni ingane ayizizwa ingakhululekile, futhi ayikho ama-panties anamanzi - ayikho isifiso sokufunda ukusebenzisa imbiza. I-Institute of Pediatrics, I-Obstetrics ne-Gynecology ye-Academy yezokwelapha ze-Ukraine iqinisekisa ukuthi ukusetshenziswa kwama-diapers okulahlayo kuze kube yizinyanga ezingu-18 akubanga imbangela yokuba ingane ibe umlutha futhi ingasondeli isikhathi sokuqeqeshwa kwengane ngokuhle ngemva kwalokho. Izinga lokujwayela ebhodweni alincike ekutheni ingane ithwala amavayili ahlaselweyo, ifakwa kuma-sliders noma efakwe ezinsikeni. Ekusekeleni lokhu, singaphinde sitshele imiphumela yocwaningo olwenziwa ngaba ososayensi baseNtshonalanga, lapho amaqembu amabili ama-twin aqoqwe khona. Enye ekunakekeleni izingane ezisetshenziselwa i-gauze diapers, nasezinsikeni ezilahla okwesibili. Futhi kwavela ukuthi kuzo zombili izimo, isidingo sabathayi kanye nama-diapers sanyamalala ngesikhathi esifanayo - isilinganiso sezinyanga ezingu-27.


Inkolelo yenkolelo engu-5.

Abafana abalungile kuma-diapers atholakalayo

Kukhona umbono ongeyena wokuthi izinyathelo ezilahlayo zingathinteki kakhulu imisebenzi yokuzala yabafana, okuyinto, ngokwemvelo, ebangele ukukhathazeka phakathi kwabanina bezintombi ezincane. Kukhona inkolelo yonke mayelana "nomphumela wokushisa obuncithakalo" ngaphansi kwalesi sici - ngokusobala kuyi-diaper ifudumele kakhulu, futhi njengoba wazi, ukushisa ngokweqile kuthinta ikhwalithi ye-spermatozoa kabi, futhi esikhathini esizayo kungabangela ukungabi namandla. Eqinisweni, kuyafana nokukholwa ukuthi uma ingane idlala namadonki esemncane, iyokhula ibe yindoda engenazo izinto ezihlukile. Kodwa sizobuyela emaqinisweni.Ngokwezifundo ezenziwa, izinga lokushisa ngaphansi kwe-diaper elilahlayo lihambisana nokushisa ngaphansi kwama-diapers avamile. I-Enku isomile, futhi emathanini umswakama kaningi izikhathi eziphakeme, okwenza nje "izimo zokushisa" kubhaktheriya namagciwane, isibonelo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, inqubo ye-spermatogenesis kubafana iqala akukho ngaphambi kweminyaka engama-7-8, ngamanye amazwi, ingane ayinayo i-diaper ngaphezu kwalokho okushisa okungathinteka khona.


Ngakho-ke, angeke kube khona ukukhuluma ngemiphumela eyingozi emvuleni, umsebenzi kanye nekhwalithi ye-spermatozoa.

Isikhathi sini?

Kuze kube manje, odokotela bezingane emhlabeni jikelele bavumelana ngokuvumelana nalo mbuzo. Qala ukufundisa izingane ebhodweni kunconywa hhayi ngaphambi kwezinyanga ezingu-18, noma iminyaka eyodwa nengxenye. Kule minyaka, ingane iqala ukulawula ngokucophelela umsebenzi wamathumbu nesisu. Ngaphambi kwalokhu, imisipha ye-sphincter ayitholanga ngokuphelele, ingane ayikwazi ukubekezelela, njengabantu abadala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngekhulu leyodwa nengxenye, ukulungela kwengqondo kwengane ekufundeni ukusebenzisa imbiza kubonakala. I-crumb ayitholi nje kuphela ukuqonda ukuthi kwenzekani kuye, kodwa ingabonisa nokuthinta noma ithi ufuna ukuya endlini yangasese. Ngakho-ke, ukuqonda "isayensi yobumba" kwenzeka ngokwemvelo, ngokushesha futhi ngaphandle kwezinkinga. Esihlokweni sethu: indlela yokufundisa ingane ebhodweni, iseluleko somchwepheshe wezengqondo, ufunde okuningi futhi ufunde ulwazi oluningi oluwusizo nolusha.