Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kunzima kanjani ukukholelwa, kodwa izimpawu zokunaka nokuthanda akuzona amagama angenalutho ocansini oqinile. Wonke umuntu uthanda njalo lapho othandekayo wakhe ngokuthandana kwakhe konke evuselela futhi esebenzisa izenzo ezihlukahlukene zokuthandana. Ukuziqhenya komuntu kududuza ukucabanga ukuthi wakhethiwe ngesikhathi lapho engekho, ucabange ngaye! Noma kunjalo, izibonakaliso zomuntu ngamunye ezinikezwa owesifazane ngesikhathi esifanelekayo lokhu ngeke nje zenze owesilisa akwesabe, kodwa futhi aphule i-idyll yothando futhi amphoqe ukuba apheleke empilweni yakho. Ukuze ugweme lokhu ebuhlotsheni bakho, kufanele uthole ukuthi yiziphi izimpawu zokunakekelwa ongazenza, futhi ezingabonakaliswa kumuntu ngezikhathi zezinyathelo ezahlukene zobuhlobo.
Isigaba sokuqala: ukuzalwa kobuhlobo bothando
Ngalesi sigaba, hhayi kuphela wena, kodwa nxazonke uqonda ukuthi uhlanya ngalowo okhethile. Kodwa akufanele "ushayela amahhashi amaningi kakhulu!". Isiyingozi kakhulu esigabeni sokuqala sobudlelwane kubhekwa njengento ehlukile yowesifazane kumuntu. Izingcingo ezivamile futhi eziqhubekayo, imiyalezo ye-SMS nemilayezo ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi, izipho ezibizayo nezihle kakhulu, ukudla komndeni ekuhlonipheni kwakhe, lapho izinto ezinhle kakhulu zokupheka zikhona, kungabangela ukusola kulo muntu. Phela, ngalesi sikhathi ekuqaleni kobudlelwane, lo muntu, njengombuso, akalindeli okuningi kulona wesifazane. Ngokwemvelo yabo, ihlelwe kuphela ngocansi futhi ayikwazi ukuphupha nganoma yini enye. Ngokuqinisekile, kudingeka uyiqonde ukuthi uyakuthanda, kodwa lokhu kungcono kakhulu okwenziwe ngezimpawu ezibonakalayo zokunakwa. Isibonelo, ungathatha isandla ngesikhathi sokuhamba kwakho epaki, ukumemeza emcimbini mayelana nokuthi ungabhekana kanjani nalezi jeans ezintsha kanye nekhati lesitayela, njll. Ngendlela, uma ukhetha isipho sokuthembeka kwakho ngeholidi, kufanele ukhumbule ngomthetho owodwa othi: "Okuncane, kungcono." Ikhetho elifanele kakhulu libhekwa ukuthi lingasetshenziswa futhi. Isibonelo, wazi ukuthi isoka lakho lithanda ubhiya oluthile, ngakho kungani ungamniki amabhodlela ambalwa okuphuza. Kodwa nje unganiki noma yiziphi izinto ezincane ezinjengamathoyizi athambile noma amasongo ayisihluthulelo okhiye. Abamele ubulili obuqinile abakwazi ukuwazisa izipho ezinjalo. Lokhu kubangelwa ukungabi nokuzwa komuntu kumuntu, kodwa eqinisweni ukuthi akakwazi ukuwaqonda nhlobo.
Isigaba sesibili: usubhekwe njengamanje umbhangqwana
Esikhathini esibizwa ngokuthi isigaba sesibili, ubuhlobo bakho bomusa bunganikezwa isikhathi esithile. Yiqiniso, uhlala kahle kakhulu, kodwa esikhathini esizayo usenayo ikusasa elihlangene, okungenzeka ukuthi alikho. Ngalesi sikhathi, izibonakaliso zakho zothando kufanele zihloselwe ukuqinisekisa ukuthi uyazi kahle wena oweqiniso: unombhangqwana futhi ungathembela kuwe nganoma yisiphi isimo. Isibonelo, weza ekhaya evela emsebenzini esekhathele kakhulu ngenxa yokuthi wayenomsebenzi okhuni futhi ogcwele, kungani ungamniki ukuphunga okuphumuzayo, ukupheka ukudla okumnandi noma ukuphuza indebe ye-cappuccino ngobisi. Uma ungenayo isikhathi sokufika ekhaya ekufikeni kwakhe futhi wazi ngakho kusengaphambili, shiya incwadi kumuntu othandekayo u-nasam indawo evelele, lapho ubhala khona ngamazwi afudumele konke ocabanga ngakho nokuthi uyaphuthelwa kanjani. Lezi zibonakaliso zokunakwa zizokwazi ukumbonisa ukuthi ungomgwaqo.
Yini engekwenziwe? Konke okungabangela ukusola kwakho othandekayo ukuthi uzama ukuhlasela indawo yakhe. Ngokwesibonelo, ubiza umama wakhe ukuthola iresiphi yama-pancake akhe ayizintandokazi, ofuna ukupheka iholide elizayo (mhlawumbe akafuni ukuthi ukhulume nomama nhlobo). Ngendlela, zonke izipho zakho akufanele zibopheke kumuntu. I-Nboraudiodiskov neqembu lakhe ethandekayo lihle, kodwa umsakazo wemoto kubi. Dearparfum - kahle, isethi yemikhiqizo yokunakekelwa okubizayo - embi. Futhi, zama ukugwema zonke lezo zipho ezibiza ngokuqondile ukubonisa kwakho ekubonisweni komphakathi. Isibonelo, incwadi yothando inhle, futhi umbhalo womthando oqoshiwe ekomitini kubi. Udinga ukunikeza okudingayo manje, hhayi i-tepodarkas, eqondiswa ngokuzayo esikhathini esizayo.
Isigaba sesithathu: uthando oluhlolwe isikhathi
Wena ndawonye nakho konke kusho ukuthi lokhu kungunaphakade. Okungenani, uphupha ikusasa elihambisanayo. Usuvele ujwayelene nabazali, izihlobo nabangane abasondelene komunye nomunye futhi ngokuqinisekile uyabahalalisela ngazo zonke amaholide futhi ngisho nokunikeza izipho. Yiqiniso, kungenzeka ukuthi ngalesi sikhathi uyindoda nomkayo. Yilokho kanye nalesisigaba sobuhlobo obathandekayo obathandayo ukuthi ufuna ukufakazela ukuthi uyintandokazi yakho kuphela. Ngakho udinga ukukhombisa wonke umuntu wakho wokubonisa ukuthi imizwa yakho ayizange ihlile futhi inamandla njengezinsuku zokuqala zobudlelwano. Gweba imiyalezo yakhe ye-SMS, uhlele uhambo oluhlangene lwezimpelasonto noma amaholidi endaweni ethile endaweni eyimfihlo futhi yothando, lapho ngaphandle kwakho khona ngeke kube khona. Kungaba kuhle ukuhlaziya ubudlelwane ukuhlela ubusuku bokuzaliseka kwezifiso (tshela othandekayo wakho ukuthi namhlanje kunjalo ukuthi uyazibona zonke izifiso zakhe). Noma kunjalo indlela enhle yokubiza imizamo yakho yokwenza konke ngendlela yokuthi ikukhumbuze ngezinsuku zakho zokuqala. Futhi kungaba kuhle ukuhlala kwenye yalezi zinsuku ngothandekayo wakho kanye nebhodlela lewayini, ukukhumbula umhlangano wakho wokuqala: yini oyembetheyo, wenzeni, uthini, njll. unikeze i-disk yakho ethandekayo ngokukhethwa kwabathandekayo nabathandekayo kokubili izingoma zakho. Yenza i-albhamu ngezithombe zezikhathi ezijabulisayo zendaba yakho yothando. Kodwa ngokuqondene nesipho, ngalesi sigaba sobuhlobo, kufanele kube sína kakhulu kunanini ngaphambili. Mnike lokho ayekuphuphile isikhathi eside, kodwa nganoma yisiphi isizathu asikwazi ukuyikhokhela. Khumbula ukuthi izibonakaliso zokuthandana kakhulu yizo ezizokhumbuza njalo okhethiweyo wothando kanye nokuthi ungumlingani ovelele kakhulu emhlabeni wonke kanye naye, futhi akukho, i-inikto ayikwazi ukukuhlukanisa!