Mayelana nesibalo esikhulu sokuthandana, ngezinye izikhathi, wonke amantombazane amaphupho, futhi ngezikhathi ezithile amadoda afuna okuthile ukuthi kwenzeke ebuhlotsheni. Futhi kuyiqiniso, ngaphandle kobuhlungu obunothando ngendlela yokuhamba ngesikebhe, ukuhamba ngesitimela noma ukugeza ngamakhandlela kanye nama-rose petals, ngisho nobuhlobo obukhulu kakhulu obungenasipiliyoni buyathola isikhathi esingakalungi. Uma ufuna futhi ukuhlaziya isimiso sakho nsuku zonke ngothando oluncane ngezikhathi ezithile - konke kusezandleni zakho, udinga isibindi esincane nokucabanga.
Ngeshwa, esikhathini sethu, i-candlelight dinner nebhodlela lewayini elihle kanye nesethi ethile yokudla, bambalwa kakhulu abantu abazoveza izimfanelo zothando. Abantu baye bachitha ngaphezulu, banamathuba amaningi, okuvamile ukuthi akubi kakhulu ngakwesinye isandla, kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, umuntu kufanele azame kanzima ukuphefumula ngothando oluncane. Ungathengi izingubo ezibizayo futhi ukhanyise umbhangqwana Amakhandlela, ngesigqi samanje sokuphila ukuze ufeze umphumela oyifunayo udinga ukumangala ukumthandayo. Ngokwesibonelo, esikhundleni se-lacy negligee elandelayo ukuthenga esitokisini esikhethekile se-suit sexy umsikazi noma abahlengikazi abashisayo, ngemuva kokuguquka kwe-lace-like Ngokuqinisekile ngeke ushiye umuntu wakho enganandaba. Noma zama okuthile okushisayo, isibonelo, i-latex encane nezinsimbi ezisebusweni, kodwa zama ukuzithengisa ngokukhanya, ngaphandle kwalokho umlingani wakho uzoyesaba kunokuba aphefumulelwe ukubukeka kwakho.
Esinye sezikhathi zothando kakhulu phakathi kobuthandani ababili kukhona imihlangano nokuhlukanisa. Cabanga ukuthi umyeni wakho noma insizwa kumele eze emva kohambo olude futhi oluyinkimbinkimbi yebhizinisi, ulinde isikhathi lapho ekubona esiteshini sesitimela noma esiteshini sezindiza ngemuva kokuhlukaniswa isikhathi eside. Yiqiniso, silindele lo mzuzu nonke, ngakho-ke kungani ungenise into entsha kulo. Mhlangabeze ngokumomotheka, ukumbumbana kahle, isibonelo, ngebhaloli enemibala embalwa, noma ngebhola letafula elihle, ezandleni zakho, kholwa kimi, umphumela ozokhiqizwa uzokhunjulwa isikhathi eside yi-vaamoboi, futhi wenze umhlangano osalinde isikhathi eside ube mnandi.
Into eyinhloko ukuqaphela ukuthi ukuthandana okudalwe nguwe, ngemizamo yakho, ngeke kuphakame kunoma iyiphi indawo, ngeke kuvele njengemvula yasehlobo, kuphela uma ungakatholi nothandekayo wakho ngesikhathi se-bouquet-candy. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ngisho nobuhlobo obunothando kakhulu buya enkampanini enokuthula. Ngakho-ke, akudingeki ukwesaba ukunciphisa ukuthula okude isikhathi eside ngenjabulo encane. Isibonelo, ukulungiselela isidlo sakusihlwa, ngokuhlonipha usuku olulandelayo "lwakho", faka isaladi esitsheni ngesimo senhliziyo, noma uhlele amaqebelengwane ngezinhliziyo kanye nama-initials akho. Noma ngandlela-thile fry amaqanda ekuseni, usebenzisa isikhunta esikhethekile. Akusiyo yonke imihla futhi yonke indawo lapho umuntu wakho ekhubeka khona phezu kwezimfanelo zothando, konke kulungile ekulinganiseni, iromontics izoba yinto ewusizo uma ivuliwe.
Thenga ibhasikidi yama-picnics, makabe khona endlini yakho into okuthi ngezikhathi ezithile izokwazi ukukuqondisa emicabangweni enhle, futhi uvuselele isenzo. Ngenye yezinsuku ezinhle zasehlobo, yenza isisindo, ugeze izithelo ezintsha nemifino bese umeme umthandi wakho epikinikini. Kungani uhlala zonke izinsuku ezinhle zasehlobo ekhaya, lapho ungaba yedwa ndawonye emvelweni?
Ungakhohlwa ngezinto ezincane ezimnandi. Nikeza abanye izipho, vumela kube nje ikhadi leposi noma umfanekiso omuhle owethulwe njengaleyo, ngaphandle kwesizathu. Bhala phansi inothi lakho ozithandayo, hhayi i-sms, okungukuthi inothi, shiya izinkomba ngamazwi othando esiqandisini, noma ufake iphasiwedi ephaketheni lakho, igajethi ye-electronic ayikwazi ukuveza ukufudumala kwezandla zakho, ngokungafani nombhalo oqoshiwe.
Kukholelwa ukuthi indoda iyathanda uma owesifazane enembatho encane. Mhlawumbe, ngakho-ke, kuphi lapho ungabalekela khona. Kodwa ngisho nasesimweni esinikeziwe, kubalulekile ukuthi le nto encane ibonakala kanjani emgqeni wokugcoba, izambatho ezinamabhande kanye nelineni elicolekileyo ziyoba nomthelela omkhulu, ihembe elidala elingenakulungiswa, futhi likwethulwe ama-shorts.
Konke okushiwo ngenhla akuyona into entsha, futhi abaningi bayazi, kodwa ngokuvamile ngenxa yokukhathala nokukhathala, asifuni ukwenza umzamo okhethekile wokwenza ngisho nesinyathelo esincane sokuhlangabezana nomlingani. Ngemuva kwalokho, kuxhomeke kithi ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ubuhlobo abucimi, abukethwanga yi-routine, futhi konke kusinikeze isikhathi esimnandi ngangokunokwenzeka.