Okokuqala, sinquma ukuthi ubani ongabhekwa njengomuntu olahlekile. Akuwona wonke umuntu ongenakufinyelela ezintweni eziphakeme, akakwazi ukwenza imali, angabizwa ngokuthi ulahlekile. Kukhona abantu abahlukene labo imali nemisebenzi emphakathini okungasho lutho. Banokuphila emsebenzini abawenzayo, abangane ababahloniphayo. Nginebhangqwana elilodwa elishadile, basekela iqembu lokuthuthukiswa ngokomoya kwezingane zabo. Banemiholo encane, ngoba esikhathini sethu abantu abambalwa abanandaba nokuthuthukiswa ngokomoya kwezingane zabo - iningi labantu lifuna ingane ukuba ihlanganyele ekudwebeni, umculo, izilimi zakwamanye amazwe nokunye. Kodwa, nokho, lo mbhangqwana oshadile ujabulela igunya elithile, baneqembu labo labantu abafana nalokho, lapho bazizwa behlonishwa khona futhi abantu abadingekile. Futhi ngandlela-thile umuntu akayikuguqula ulimi ukuba abize labo abalahlekile.
Njengomthetho, abalahlekelwa kwangempela abajabuli ngokuphila futhi bavame ukukhononda ngakho. Ngake ngifumana nendoda eyayikhala njalo ngokuntuleka kwemali. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, akenzanga lutho lokuthuthukisa izinga lakhe lemfundo ukuze athole umsebenzi ohloniphekile. Futhi ukukhulumisana kwethu kancane kancane kwamiswa.
Esinye isibonakaliso somuntu olahlekile, yilokho okungeke kwenzeke lo muntu, akaphumelelanga. Umngane wami wayevame ukuzama isandla sakhe kwi-journalism, bese ekuthengiseni inethiwekhi, kodwa akukho ndawo ayengayithola idumela lochwepheshe omuhle nesisebenzi. Kwakulokhu kubonakala sengathi wayengeke ahlonishwe. Futhi akukho okumangazayo ukuthi umholo wakhe wawuncane, futhi wayevame ukushintsha imisebenzi.
Olahlekile ngumuntu ongenzi lutho lwakhe futhi akenzi lutho ukuze enze impilo ibe ngcono, uhamba ngendlela engafanele, ngenkathi ekholelwa ukuthi ezinkingeni zakhe, abanye abantu bayecala.
Omunye wabomakhelwane bami kwakudingeka abe yindlalifa. Izifiso zakhe zobuchwepheshe zazibonakala zide kakhulu namathuba akhe angempela. Cha, ukuze athole umsebenzi ojwayelekile, wachitha iminyaka eminingana ukuze afake izifundo zokuphothula iziqu, wayesebenza esayini, ayengenaso isifiso. Ngesikhathi abafundi ababengabafundi ababa ngabaqondisi jikelele, waphazamiseka ngemali ethile yemali eyingozi. Konke lokhu kwaqhubeka isikhathi esithile. Usuke ushiye nabangane abashiye. Inkathazo yaphela lapho, ngokungazelelwe avume ukuthi usosayensi wangempela owakwazi ukusebenzela, futhi waqala ukusebenza emsebenzini wakhe oyinhloko.
Kungani ungadingi ukuxhumana nomuntu olahlekile?
Udonsa phansi
Sonke silwela okuthile okuhle, futhi olahlekile uzama ukusibuyisela ezingeni lakhe. Inkulumo yakhe ayithandayo - "akazange aphile kahle - akukho lutho oluzoqala! "Uma uzoya endaweni ethile nomuntu olahlekile, khona-ke ulungele ukuthi uzokhononda ngokuthi konke kuyabiza kangakanani, futhi kufanele ukhokhe konke, noma uhambe naye esitimeleni esiphezulu, kunokungena etekisi , noma ukudla kwabanye abadla esikhundleni se-cafe.
Ngenhloso yakhe usebenzise umuntu ophumelele kakhulu
Osilahlekile uzocwilisa ngokuthi ungumuntu ongenalutho kangakanani empilweni, futhi unenhlanhla. Futhi ngomzuzwana onjalo uyozizwa ukuthi uyomangalela, yilokho okudingayo. Uyosebenzisa ngokunenzuzo ubuthakathaka bakho bese ekugcineni ehlezi entanyeni yakho - akwenze ugcwalise okuncane kakhulu kwezinto zakhe, uthathe imali eningi angasoze abuyele kuyo, uhlale endlini yakho. Ingabe kufanelekile ukuxhumana nomuntu onjalo ekuphileni?
Umona umona onenhlanhla
Osilahlekayo angakujabulela ukuphumelela kwakho emehlweni akho, ukuhlabelelela ngezindumiso, futhi uthi ngamehlo akho ukuthi awutholanga ngendlela engafanele zonke izinzuzo zokuphila, ukubiza ngokuthi i-upstart. Kodwa yena ufanelwe kakhulu kubo. Lungiselela ukuthi angakunciphisa ngaphambi komthandi wakho, abangane, abaphathi. Futhi isizathu esiwukuphela kwesibindi.
Ukuhluleka kuyasakazeka
Konke akuqondakali, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo kuyiqiniso. Kwakungifanele ukuxhumana nomuntu olahlekile, ukuthi nginezinkinga ngemali, emsebenzini, njalonjalo. Ekuqaleni ngacabanga ukuthi yingozi, kodwa lapho izinkinga ezinjalo ziphinde zibuyele, ngicabanga ukuthi kungani. Ukuphazamiseka konke ukuthi sizwela ngobuqotho kumuntu olahlekile, ngoba usekutholile empilweni, yilokho esikhuluma naye.
Yini okufanele uyenze uma 'unamathele' kumuntu onjalo? Okokuqala, zama "ukuphinde ufundise", ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka. Mphakamise ukuba ahambe ezifundweni, afune umsebenzi, ukuze yena, ngandlela-thile noma enye, azixazulule ngokuzimela izinkinga zakhe. Uma ezama ukukhipha konke lokhu, akafuni, bese esusa zonke izinhlobo zobuhlobo naye. Wonke umuntu ungumklami wenhlanhla yakhe siqu.
Manje siyazi ukuthi kufanele sikhulume nomuntu olahlekile ekuphileni. Landela lawa macebiso futhi uzoqonda ukufeza impumelelo empilweni, akusizi ngalutho ekuphileni ukuxhumana nomuntu olahlekile.