Ubungani besifazane kanye nezimbangela zayo

Kancane kancane uqale uqaphele ukuthi waba nesizungu, udabukile enhliziyweni, akekho ozokhuluma ngisho nokwabelana ngemibono yakho. Kodwa kuyini inkinga? Kungani lokhu kwenzeka? Ngemuva kwalokho, kwakubonakala sengathi konke kuhamba ngendlela okufanele kube ngayo. Masibambane sithole izizathu ezenzekayo zesizungu sakho. Maye, abesifazane abaningi bajwayele inkinga yedwa. Babengakaze bashade noma bahlukanise futhi bakhulise ingane ngaphandle kobaba futhi bangatholi ngisho nesikhathi sokuhlangana namadoda ... Lawa angamaqiniso adidayo, njengowesifazane oye walahlwe ukwesekwa nokuthandana kwamadoda kunzima kokubili ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Ngokusho kokubona kwamagciwane, abesifazane abangenayo impilo esondelene nabo bahlushwa izifo ze-hormonal, ama-hormonal disorders, ama-hormonal formation noma ama-formation angenangqondo endaweni yangasese. Futhi mayelana nokuthukuthela nokukhuluma akudingekile, kubonakala ekuziphatheni kwakho - kuba nokwesaba nokulimaza, ususa abantu kude nawe.

Kungani kukhona inani elikhulayo labesifazane abangashadile abangazange bakwazi ukuhlangabezana nomngane wabo womshado? Abanye bakholelwa ukuthi amadoda amancane kakhulu, nalawo angakufaneleki ngenxa yemikhuba emibi. Ngakho-ke kuvela ukuthi ufuna umuntu ofanelekayo, ukuze akwazi ukulungiselela isidlo sakusihlwa, futhi ahlangane nomsebenzi, aze anikeze nezimbali ngaphandle kwesizathu. Akudingeki ukuba ube ne-naive kangaka, ususe ama-glasses enemibala, ngoba ayikho abantu abahle. Ungasesha yonke impilo yakho, kodwa awukwazi ukuyithola, bese usukhulile uzisola ngokulahlekelwa yisikhathi.

Awuqondi ukuthi kungani konke kuyingxenye eyodwa, futhi akukho okunye, ngoba unakho konke: ubuhle, ukuhlakanipha, imfundo ephakeme, umsebenzi omuhle kakhulu, kodwa awunayo inhlanhla nabanikazi bamahhashi? Futhi ubheka abanye besifazane, njengoba bethi, "akukho ubuso, akukho isikhumba," akukho ukuhlakanipha okhethekile nemali, futhi isixuku siphelile. "Kancane kancane, umona nokungaqondi kahle kuqala ukukugwinya:" Yini engalungile nami? "

Ngokuvamile, abesifazane abangashadile banamakhasimende avame kakhulu abanenhlanhla nemilingo. Kodwa uma lokho akuzange kusize? Yini-ke okufanele yenziwe? Okokuqala, udinga ukuqonda izizathu zobunesi sakho.

Isizathu sokuqala nesibaluleke kakhulu ukwesaba owesifazane, onamandla futhi ongaqapheli ukuthi uyesaba ubuhlobo obuseduze nomuntu. Kuyinto ukwesaba okungenalutho okuvela ebuntwaneni. Uma umama wakho eqhubeka ephindaphinda kuwe ukuthi bonke abalimi bayalingana futhi bevela ezinkingeni zabo kuphela, bese esemncane intombazane enjalo izokwesaba-eyabanjwe yindoda, ngoba ihlanganiswa njengengozi futhi kungcono ukuhlala kude naye. Ngakho-ke, lo wesifazane wenza konke, futhi engazi lutho, hhayi ukuhlangana nendoda, ukuphula konke ubuhlobo naye futhi ahlale yedwa. Ngemuva kwakho konke, kubonakala kuwe ukuthi kuthulile ...

Isizathu sesibili yimibono ephezulu yokuphila komndeni kanye nezidingo eziphakeme kakhulu kumuntu okhethiweyo. Njengomthetho, lokhu kuhluka kuvamile kakhulu kwabesifazane abakhuliswe emndenini ngaphandle kobaba. Inguqulo yabo ekahle yendoda iphuma kumafilimu noma amanoveli ngothando. Yingakho indoda ejwayelekile ibonakala owesifazane njengendoda enezinsizakuhluleka. Abesifazane abanjalo baqhathanisa abantu babo ngokungazi kumlingisi oqanjiwe, futhi ekugcineni badumazeke.

Kunabesifazane abathi, ngokuphambene nalokho, babheka ngempela isigamu sabo sesibili, bathatha zonke izinzuzo nezinkinga zabo. Bakhetha ngokucophelela indoda enjalo, kodwa abafuni ukudela noma yini ngenxa yenjabulo yomndeni. Kubo, ukuzimela, umsebenzi nokuchuma kwemali kuqala.

Ukuhlaziya ngokucophelela ukuhluleka kwakho, thola zonke izimbangela ezikhona bese uzama ukuzigwema. Shintsha isimo sakho sengqondo kukho konke okwenzekayo - ungakhathazeki nesizungu sakho, kodwa ujabulele! Zitshele ukuthi: "Awu, ngisakwazi nini ukwenza okufanayo njengamanje, ujabule kuze kube yilobusuku ku-nightclub, nganoma yisiphi isikhathi sokungena ohambweni oluthambile lwebhizinisi noma ukuphumula futhi ngokujwayelekile ngizitholele ngandlela-thile?". Umndeni uzovela ngempela kamuva, bese uzoba nezinto eziza kuqala kakhulu ekuphileni, ngakho-ke ngenkathi isiphetho sikunikeza isikhathi esiyigugu kakhulu senkululeko - sisebenzise ngokugcwele, siphile ngokugcwele. Khona-ke injabulo izofika.