Ake sibheke ukuthi yini umama ephuphayo
- ukulala ngomama kusho isixwayiso mayelana nengozi ezayo. Kuyafaneleka ukulalela izwi lakhe, ngokuvamile ngamaphupho, lapho ethi khona okuthile, kunencazelo. Uma engathuli, khona-ke ungalindela inkinga kunoma iyiphi indawo yokuphila;
- uma ephusheni, umama wakho ubukeka engenempilo, egula, bese uxwayiswa mayelana nokushiyeka okukhulu okuseduze. Ngokuyinhloko, lokhu kuhlotshaniswa nokuphila komuntu siqu, umndeni, izihlobo. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uqaphe futhi emsebenzini, njengokungathi ukuhluleka emkhakheni wezemisebenzi kuzoba okubalulekile, kuze kube ushintsho ekulahlekelweni kwendawo yokusebenzela;
- amaphupho omama owafa - naphezu kwalesi sithombe, lokhu kuyisibonakaliso esihle. Ulindele izindaba ezijabulisayo, ukuhlangana nabangane abadala. Ekuphileni komndeni, konke kuzoba kuhle, uma bekungekho izinkinga emndenini, khona-ke umshado uzoqiniswa. Kumantombazane, lokhu kusho uthando, okuzohlangana nabo ngokushesha;
- iphupho ngomama wakhe, lapho ehleka, ekhuluma ngezinto ezinomusa esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. Ungalindela ukwanda komsebenzi, isibonelo. Ekuphileni kwangasese, ngamantombazane angashadile, ngokushesha uzobe unikezwa isandla nenhliziyo, thola uthando lwakho;
- lapho ekubiza - kusho ukulahlekelwa yenkxaso evela kubangane nabangane abahle;
- Ngiphupha umama ekhala - okwesikhashana izinkinga ezincane emndenini nasendlini zizokukhathaza wena nabathandekayo bakho;
- uma uzibona njengomncane kunomama wakho - isibonakaliso sokuthi awunawo amandla anele okubhekana nezinkinga ezenzekile;
- Umama womuntu oseduze nawe waphupha ngesixwayiso sokuthi omunye wabahlobo bakho uzoba nenkinga. Uzocelwa ukuba usize ekuxazululeni ubunzima obuvelele. Uma wenqaba ukunikeza usizo, imiphumela engavamile ingalindelwa;
- ukuhamba naye ephusheni - esikhathini esizayo esiseduze kungaba khona izenzakalo ezinhle. Kukhona noma yini, ngokumangala okungalindelekile kubangani noma izihlobo futhi ukwandise umholo emsebenzini;
- umphuphi waphupha ngomama ophuzile - akusizi kahle noma yini, okokuqala kumzali ngokwakhe, uma umama ephila. Mhlawumbe udinga ukwesekwa, kodwa akafuni ukukukhathaza ngezinkinga zakhe. Uma efile - khona-ke ungalindela ukuxabana emndenini, ukuphikisana nomyeni wakhe noma umkakhe.
I-archetype yomama ingenye yezingxabano kakhulu. Ezincwadini zephupho ungathola izincazelo eziningi ezihlukahlukene zezehlakalo ezifanayo. Iqiniso liwukuthi isithombe esiza kithi ephusheni, ngaphezu kwebala elikhanyayo, sinezici ezimnyama. Lokhu kungumuntu ngamunye futhi kungenzeka ngenxa yobuhlobo obubi nabazali esikhathini esidlule. Isibonelo, wawuhlukunyezwa ngokweqile, noma kwakukhona ubudlova nokuhlukumeza emndenini. Uma kunjalo, khona-ke lesi sithombe ezimweni eziningi kufanele sihlotshwe ngecala elingalungile, elingahambi kahle. Futhi uma konke okuphambene nalokho, futhi umama usho amaqiniso amahle amasiko kuwe, khona-ke ungakwazi ukuphatha izithombe ezinjalo ngendlela ephephile.