Ngakho-ke zama ukufuna izimpendulo zombuzo okungangabazeki ukuthi ukhathazeka abaningi: ukuthi ukuvimbela ngokocansi kuthinta kanjani impilo yabesilisa nabesifazane. Noma kunjalo, ngisho namagama-imibono efaka kulo mbuzo idinga incazelo ehlukile.
Ososayensi base-Israel bathole ukuthi emva kokuziyeka kwezinsuku ezingu-10, ingxenye ebalulekile yamadoda abahlanganyele ekuhlolweni yancipha izinga le-spermatozoa, nakuba inombolo yabo yanda.
Isibindi eside esivela eHong Kong, owagubha usuku lwakhe lokuzalwa lwama-107, ukholelwa ukuthi ukuphila kwakhe isikhathi eside kungase kuhlotshaniswe nokuyeka ukulala ocansini.
I-skier yaseJalimane uRonnie Ackermann, onqoba umdanso wesiliva eSallow Lake City Olympic, uhlanganisa nemiphumela yakhe ngokuziyeka isikhathi eside. Ochwepheshe abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi kungcono ukuthi amadoda agweme ukuya ocansini ngaphambi kokuncintisana, nakwabesifazane, ngokuphambene nalokho, impilo ebudlelwane enobudlova insiza ukushaya amarekhodi. Noma kunjalo, le mbono inebaphikisi.
Sekuyiminyaka eminingana, izikole zaseMelika ziye zafundisa isihloko esithi "Ukuziqeda Ngokocansi" ukunciphisa inani lezifo ezithathelwana ngocansi nokukhulelwa phakathi kwentsha. Ukukhathazeka ukuthi le ndaba yasungulwa ngaphansi kukaMongameli uBill Clinton - isithunzi sezwe emhlabeni.
Impendulo yalo mbuzo empeleni ayilula, ngoba:
Ubumnene nomthethosisekelo wezocansi bahlukile kubo bonke abantu, ngakho-ke umuntu othize ngesonto ngaphandle kocansi abe yisilingo esibucayi, kanti omunye umuntu wenza kalula ngaphandle kwezinyanga ezimbalwa.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, indima ebalulekile idlalwe yizizathu zokuthi kungani umuntu ehloniphekile ngokobulili nokuthi ngabe uyamkhathazeka ngokwenyama noma engokomzimba, usemuva kokuntuleka kwesifiso noma ngokuphambene nalokho - kumele acindezelwe.
Ngakho-ke, akunakwenzeka ukusetha imingcele, uma ukuphumula sekuphenduka ukuziyeka, ochwepheshe bangakalungeli okwamanje. Noma kunjalo, bayaqiniseka ukuthi ukungabikho kobulili akudluli umzimba ngaphandle komkhondo. Izifo ze-sexopathologists zihlukanisa isimo isikhathi ngaphandle kocansi zibe izigaba ezimbili:
1. Ukuhambisana namaphupho ahlukumezayo nesifiso socansi;
2. Ukuphumula lapho ukuqothula kancane kancane / i-sublimation ye-libido iqala, futhi ukubuyisa akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Kwenzekani kumadoda?
Amadoda athile ngenxa yesinye isizathu noma abesenqatshelwe ukulala ocansini esemncane, nakuba bangase bazizwe bengakhululekile, kodwa bangabangeli umonakalo omkhulu, njengombuso, abawusenzi, futhi banethuba lokubuyela ezinjabulweni ezithandanayo ngaphandle kwemizamo. Kodwa-ke, lapho umuntu esekhulile, ukuyeka ukuzibophezela ngokucindezelayo kubeka impendulo enkulu empilo yabantu - ukubuyela ekuphileni kobulili, ikakhulukazi ngemva kokuphumula isikhathi eside, kungaba nzima, ngokumelene nesimo sokungabikho kwezocansi isikhathi eside, izinkinga ezihlukahlukene ezinokwenzeka zingenzeka. Futhi indoda endala, lezi zinkinga ziyingozi nakakhulu: uma eminyakeni engama-40 ukungabikho kocansi okuvamile kungena ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi futhi kube nesifo esibi kakhulu se-prostatitis, bese kuthi ngemva kweminyaka engu-50 singanezela ngisho nokuphelelwa amandla okuphelele, ngoba ukwehla okuhlobene nobudala kwesifiso socansi kufakwe ekuqothulweni kwe-libido ekuzigwemeni.
Ukuziqeda ukuphoqeleka kuthinta isimo sengqondo somuntu wesifazane futhi ngokuvamile kuholela ekuphenduleni kwe-neurotic. Ngalokho okuxhunyiwe: ngokuntuleka kocansi noma ngeqiniso lokuthi lona wesifazane uzizwa engasebenzisi lutho kunoma ubani - akaziwa. Ososayensi bakholelwa ukuthi ukukhononda kwalabo okuthiwa "amantombazane amadala" kuwukuthi, okokuqala, kugcizelela, futhi okwesibili, akuhlobene nokuzilahla kwabo konke ukuphila, ngoba ukungabi nobulili kubo kuyimvelo futhi akubonwa njengokulahlekelwa. Kunengqondo kakhulu ukucabanga ukuthi kwakuyizici zobunikazi obubekwe isizungu sabo besifazane. Ukuzigwema ngokomzimba akuhambisani nabesifazane abasebasha, abanobulili ekwenzeni. Kodwa uma esekhulile, owesifazane ovuthiwe ngokobulili uba nzima kakhulu ukwamukela ukunganeliseki ngokocansi. Kodwa-ke, okuningi lapha futhi kuxhomeke ekuziphatheni.
Ubuhlobo bobulili obuvumelanayo buyimvelo futhi, ngokungangabazeki, yingxenye emangalisayo yokuphila kwanoma yimuphi umuntu kanye nokuqeqesha okuhle kuzo zonke izinhlelo zomzimba. Ngakho-ke, ukwenqaba ucansi, yebo, akufanelekile. Ubulili empilweni yakho kufanele bube yilokho okufunayo - lokhu kuyisimo esingenakuphikiswa esisekelwa odokotela bama-currents ahlukene, izikole nezikhombisi-ndlela.