Ubudlelwane ngaphandle kwezibopho - yeka indlela okuthakazelisayo nokuthakazelisayo kuzwakala ngayo! Kodwa ake sihlole, ingabe lokhu, isibonelo, kufanelekile kuwe? Awucabangi ngalokhu? Mhlawumbe kufanelekile ukucabanga ngakho?
Ubulili ubungane. Ubulili okungahleliwe. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kubizwa yini, kubalulekile ukuthi abanye abantu bayisebenzise, futhi baphumelele ngokujwayelekile. Kodwa ingabe kuyinto evamile, uma impilo yomuntu siqu ingahambi ngaphezu kombhede? Futhi hhayi embonweni wombono womphakathi, kodwa unomduduzo. Kuyamukeleka kanjani owesifazane ohlakaniphile nesimanje ukuba abe nobuhlobo obuseduze nomuntu?
Ake siqale ngombuzo wokugcina. Ubulili ngenxa yocansi bukhona emvelweni, okusho ukuthi umuntu udinga yebo. Okubaluleke kakhulu, kubalulekile kakhulu kubantu abahlukene kakhulu ezimo ezihlukahlukene zokuphila. Kuye, abesifazane bayabathanda abesifazane, bagxile emisebenzini nasemisebenzini, abangenayo indawo yokuthatha isikhathi sokuya kuma-movie nama-dinners ngeSonto (okungukuthi, ubuhlobo). Ungakhathazeki, nalabo abaqiniseka ukuthi ubulili kuphela into enhle kumuntu othile. Amantombazane abakholelwa ukuthi ngaphambi kokuhlangana nomuntu oyiphupho, isizinda se-hormonal akusona isono sokusekela umuntu onombono ophansi, futhi ngokwabo. Futhi nakakhulu ukuze uqonde abesifazane abakholelwa ukuthi "ubuhlobo bakho obubi abukakimi." Wonke lawa madodakazi azuzwa ebusweni ngenxa yobuseduze (ngezinye izikhathi ukungcola, kodwa hhayi namuhla). Ubudlelwane kuphela ngocansi - into ejwayelekile kakhulu. Izidingo zobulili aziphansi kunoma yimuphi omunye, futhi ukuqaliswa kwazo kuyindaba engokwemvelo. Hisquequequequeque his hisqueque hisqueque followingque his hisquequeque produitsque following produitsque produitsque his his his his his following produits produitsque his hisque hisqueque his hisquequequequequeque his his his followingque produits followingque his following hisque his following his followingqueque his following following hisqueque his following his hisque hisque hisque his hisque produitsqueque his his his hisque produits his hisque following
Ukuphumula ngokocansi
Ezindabeni zabantu abenza ucansi ngaphandle kwezibopho, konke kubonakala kukhangayo kakhulu. Ngokuvamile, abesifazane abaxoxisana nabangani bayavuma ukuthi yilokho okudingayo.
"Cabanga ngendoda oyithandayo njengomyeni onayo yonke izibopho ezilandelwayo?" Enye intombazane yathi: "Cha, akuyona into engadingekile." Ngibheke umfana futhi ngilalele - ngiyifunani kuye? "Uma kuqondene nobulili futhi uma indoda ingacabangi, sibhekana Yilokhu kuphela, futhi akukho izinkinga! "
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Kwenziwe kanjani
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubulili benobungane bubukeka kanjani ezindabeni zabathengi, kunezinselelo, futhi ziningi. Ukuze uthole okuningi kule script, akwanele ukuthola nje umuntu olungile, kuzomele ulandele imithetho emithathu.
- Thembelana (ngakho akudingeki unikeze isitifiketi esivela ku-venereologist kumlingani wakho njalo).
- Ungalindeli kakhulu (futhi ungalili kamuva, uma ungakuzwa lutho ngaphandle kokukhathazeka, umuntu ngeke ngisho abize usuku lwakho lokuzalwa).
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1. Ingabe uzizwa unecala noma uhlazekile?
Ngezizathu zenkolo noma zamasiko, noma zokuziphatha, abanye besifazane bayazizwa ngoba banokuzijabulisa okunjalo "okungavumelani". Akudingeki uzibophezele futhi ubeke amalebula. Kodwa uma uziqinisekisa ukuthi lokhu kwenziwa kuphela ngabafebe, awusoze uthole lokho okufunayo ocansini ngaphandle kokuzibophezela.
2. Uthatha utshwala ukuze ukhululiwe? Uma usulungele ubulili obubungane, kuphela uma ulahlekelwe i-cocktail-enye futhi engekho enye into, kungenzeka ukuthi lesi simo sonke asibonakali engqondweni yakho njengoba kuyamukeleka njengoba uzama ukuziqinisekisa.
Z. Uyaziqamba amanga?
Ingabe udinga ngempela ubulili kuphela? Yisho ngokuzwakalayo okufunayo, kodwa uthembeke kuwe. Ngokuhlakanipha ukufaka amadoda ukusekela "ubulili ubungane" kuphela uma kwenzeka intombazane ivuma kuye ngokungazi. Ngokucophelela - kusho ngokuqonda okucacile ukuthi kuwe konke lokhu kunengqondo nje ngaye. Bobabili wena futhi kufanele aqonde ngokulinganayo uhlobo lokuxhumana kwakho.
4. Unayo yini imikhuba ehlobene nocansi?
Uma wenza ubulili obufanayo kuphela ezindaweni ezithile (njengendlela yokukhetha, indoda kuphela ekhaya, kodwa hhayi ekhaya, ukugqoka ngempela ngaphambi kosuku noma ukulungele ukuhlangabezana kuphela endaweni yomuzi lapho ungenawo abantu obajwayele) yizibonakaliso ozenzayo akuyona imvelo ngokuphelele ngokwayo. Ngokusobala udinga isembozo, i-mask, ukuze uqaphele izinhloso zakho.
5. Uyayithanda? Uyajabula?
Phela, lokhu kuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu: ingabe uyathokoza kulokho konke lokhu? Noma uyazitshela ukuthi kungcono kunanoma yini? Incazelo yocansi ukuyijabulela. Uma nje uqaphela ukuthi ulala nendoda, ngoba ubonakala uvumelene, umangaze futhi uhambe phakade.
"Ngiyakuthanda"
Ngisho nokuhle kakhulu, ngaphandle kwesibopho esisodwa, ubusuku obuhlangene bungaphetha nge-banal, imizwa yesethenda. I-Association of Sexologists yaseCanada ihlukanisa izibalo: abesifazane abangama-56% abacwaninga babheka ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi bangene ebuhlotsheni obunzulu nangomlingani wezocansi ngaphandle kwezibopho. Lokhu kuyaqondakala: ubuhlobo buyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu yokuphila, ngisho noma ungaxhomeki ekuqhubekeni kwabo. Ngakho yini okufanele uyenze ukuze ungenzi isinqumo esingalungile? Thatha isikhathi, hlaziya isimo. Futhi ungathembeki wena kuphela, kodwa futhi kumuntu: uma ufuna into engaphezu kocansi, yisho. Ingabe uphikisana nalo? Misa imihlangano yakho. Uma kungenjalo, konke okukulindele ukuhlukanisa okubuhlungu nakakhulu.