Into yokuqala udinga ukunaka impilo yakho. Ngokuvamile isifiso sobulili siyanyamalala, uma owesifazane enesimo esibi ngesistimu yokuzala, ngoba ngenkathi ezwa ubuhlungu obungathandekayo ngesikhathi socansi. Udinga ukuhlolelwa izifo ezihlukahlukene zokuvuvukala nokutheleleka kwama-bacterium. Ama-cysts, ukuvuvukala kwama-appendages, i-chlamydia, i-thrush akuzona abangane abangcono kakhulu zokwenza uthando. Okokuqala, udinga ukuba uphathe ukwelashwa, bese isifiso socansi sizobuya.
Owesifazane ulahlekelwa isifiso sobulili eminye imijikelezo yokukhulelwa, nangemva kokuzalwa kwengane. Ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, ukungabi nesifiso sokulala ocansini kungenxa yezinguquko emlandweni we-hormonal, futhi ku-trimester yokugcina-isifiso sokuvikela ingane esizayo. Owesifazane obelethile udinga ukuphumula. Umzimba wakhe ubuyiselwa emuva kokubeletha, futhi kaningi akalokothi ucabange ngocansi, ngakho impilo yakhe iyashintsha kakhulu ngokubonakala kwengane. Ngalesi sikhathi, indoda kufanele iphathe umfazi wayo ngokuqonda futhi ingagcizelelani ekusondeleni.
Ukuya ocansini emva kokukhipha isisu - futhi akuyona into eyifunayo kakhulu owesifazane, ngoba ngezinye izikhathi owesifazane oye wakhulelwa isisu uphelelwa ukubonakala komuntu. Ngemva kokukhipha isisu okwesikhashana, akukhuthazwa ukuba abe nobulili, ngakho-ke izinkinga zokudluliselwa "kokusebenza" aziveli.
Uma uthatha noma imuphi umuthi, isifiso sakho socansi singancishiswa kakhulu, futhi ngezinye izikhathi umxhwele omkhulu. Ikakhulukazi, iphathelene nokucindezeleka, izidakamizwa.
Hlaziya isizathu sokuba "ubanda" kobulili. Mhlawumbe ukhathele, mhlawumbe usengakwazi ukulala ngokwanele. Khona-ke udinga ukuphumula, uthathe ngempelasonto.
Yiqiniso, kwenzeka futhi ukuthi impilo yakho ihle, kodwa awufuni ukuya ocansini. Cabanga ngomlingani wakho ngaleso sikhathi. Kumele kube nezizathu zokuthi ukukhathazeka kwakho kuye kwaphela. Mhlawumbe awukhethanga ngenhliziyo yakho, kodwa ngekhanda lakho. Isibonelo, wena naye ngokuthula nangokuthembekile, kodwa ukulala naye akuhambisani nawe. Ezimweni ezinjalo, kungcono ukuqonda ubuhlobo bakho ngokushesha. Uma ungathandi neze ukulala nalomuntu, kungcono ukumtshela ngakho, kodwa uma ukuthembeka akunikezayo kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe, khona-ke kuzodingeka ukwaneliswe ukuphila kocansi onakho. Emandleni akho ukwenza konke okusemandleni impilo yakho yobulili sekuyehluka kakhulu futhi egcwele.
Kwenzeka ukuthi awudideki umuntu olala naye, kodwa indawo lapho imihlangano yakho esondelene nayo yenzeka khona. Ukuba nobulili ngaso sonke isikhathi endaweni efanayo kuyingozi kakhulu. Uma ungazange uzame ukwenza ucansi, ngaphandle kombhede wakho, khona-ke ulahlekelwe okuningi. Qala ukutadisha indlu yakho. Ikhishi, indlu yokugezela - izindawo ezinhle zobulili. Uma ungenalo ithuba elinjalo, isibonelo, uma ungahlali wedwa, ungakwazi ukuqasha igumbi lehhotela ebusuku - uhlele ubusuku bokuzijabulisa ngokobulili. Lokhu ngeke kukuholele kuphela, kodwa futhi nomlingani wakho. Ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, shintsha isimo sekamelo lakho lokulala. Uma umbhede wakho uncane futhi usungula, shintsha. Ukujabulisa kuyakufaneleka. Akukho okuqabula ubuhlobo bobulili, njengamashidi amasha. Thola ama-linens embhedeni wama-sexy.
Ngezinye izikhathi ukungabi nesifiso kubangelwa ukuthi bobabili abalingani bachitha isikhathi esiningi ndawonye, bakhathele omunye nomunye, futhi ebusuku baphenduke futhi balele. Zama ukuchitha kancane ndawonye. Ebusuku ngeke ube nombono omkhulu komunye nomunye.
Mhlawumbe ulahlekelwe isifiso sakho socansi ngoba awujabuli ukubukeka kwakho. Kumelwe ngitshele ukuthi kubaluleke kakhulu owesifazane. Uma ehlazeka ngumzimba wakhe, uhlale ecabanga ukuthi angeke athande umlingani wakhe, lokhu kuholela ekutheni unesimo sengqondo socansi futhi usebenza ngokobulili, ecabanga ukuthi ubukeka kahle noma kubi. Khumbula, indoda enothando ayiboni ukubonana amaphutha omthandekayo wakhe. Ukuhlanganyela ocansini, le ndoda iyayiqonda yonke into yakho, futhi ingacabangi ngamafutha akho noma imibimbi yakho ebusweni. Kodwa ukuze uthuthukise ubulili bakho nokuzethemba kwakho, kufanelekile ukunakekela ukubukeka kwakho. Uma ukhathazekile ngezinkinga zaso, faka ukufaneleka noma ukudansa. Ukuthi umzimba wakho ubheke kangcono, uzokwazi ukuzwa, futhi ngcono ubulili bakho.
Umgomo oyinhloko wobulili uhlukile kakhulu. Akukho lutho olucindezelayo njenge-monotony ekuphileni okusondelene. Manje kuningi lwezincwadi ekufinyeleleni mahhala endleleni yokulala nobulili nezinzuzo zezempilo, kanye nendlela yokuhlukanisa ubudlelwane babo bobulili. Phela, uma ulala ocansini ezinsukwini ezithile zesonto endaweni efanayo, uzolahlekelwa isifiso socansi ngokuzibandakanya. Zama ukuzibandakanya ngokocansi okuzenzekelayo, senga umngane wakho. Ngendlela, inqubo yokukhohlisa iyathandeka kakhulu kuwe.
Khumbula isimiso "uma ulala, uthanda kakhulu." Ubulili obuhlala njalo buhle empilweni yabesifazane, futhi ngokwayo kuvuselela isifiso socansi.