Inkinga yokwesaba.
Inkinga yokwesaba kufanele ixazululwe futhi akukho mbuzo kufanele ingane ishiywe yedwa ngokwesaba. Imizwa yezingane iyingqayizivele futhi ayifuni, iyashintsha kalula. Ngesikhathi esifanayo angathanda ngothando ukukhombisa ithalenta lakhe esiteji noma phambi kwababukeli abambalwa futhi wesabe ukubonisa ukuthi uvulekile, uzwakala ubuhlungu, uzizwa uhlekwa usulu noma ukungaqondi kahle. Lokhu kwesaba okuqhubekayo kuthinta ingqondo yengane, kucindezela isimo. Esikhathini esizayo, ukubhekwa okuncane kunazo zonke kusuka kubantu abadala kuholela ekubeni ingane ivala ngaphakathi kwayo, ifihla impumelelo yayo, iyeke ukuqeqeshwa, uma nje ingabangeli ukungazitholi. Izingane ezamahloni ziphikelela kancane, cishe zingaphumelela, zizwela kakhulu kumazwana. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukusiza ingane ukuba ibhekane nale nkinga futhi uyeke ukwesaba ukukhuluma nezilaleli.
Amathiphu.
Okokuqala, kudingeka wenze konke okusemandleni ukushintsha ukusabela kwengane kwisimo sengqondo sabanye abaseduze naye, ukwandise ukuzethemba kwakhe. Ngokuvamile abazali baqaphela kuphela izici ezimbi zezingane, bamshayela yonke iphutha. Futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo abasoze badunyiswa ngalokho akwenza ngokuphumelelayo, kuthatha njengokuziphatha okuhle. Lena iphutha elikhulu engxenyeni yabazali. Kubalulekile ukunikeza ingane ukuthi iyakwazi ukuhlonishwa, kumele izwe uthando lwabazali, kungakhathaliseki ukuziphatha kwayo. Kumelwe aqiniseke ukuthi impumelelo yakhe iyabonakala futhi abazali bayayibona, ukuthi umzamo awusizi.
Izingane ezamahloni ziyesaba konke okusha, isibonelo, phambi kwezilaleli ukwenza - lokhu kuyilingo olunzima kubo.
Ukuze kunqobe ukwesaba okukhonkolo kokukhuluma phambi komphakathi, kubalulekile ukuzama okuningi nokunamandla ekhaya. Vumela ababukeli bayo kuqala babe yizingane ezisondelene kakhulu, bese kubazali nezihlobo. Kumele basekele ingane, bamnike ithuba lokuqonda ukuthi wenza konke okulungile, ukumdumisa. Futhi amazwi akhona angcono ekuqaleni ukuba agqugquzelwe futhi afakwe ngokuthi "izinguquko ezincane ohlelweni lodaba". Uma ingane isesaba - iba yingxenye yenkulumo. Masizwe ohlangothini lwakho lokusekela eceleni, hhayi endaweni ethile ukusuka ohlangothini. Izingane, njengoba ziyaziwa, njenge-sponge zithatha izinyathelo zokuziphatha kwabazali bazo. Ukubheka njengomhlanganyeli enkulumweni, uzothatha isibonelo kuwe, akulingise.
Ukungabi nokuxhumana.
Izingane ngokuvamile ziba namahloni ngenxa yokuntuleka kokuxhumana, kokubili nabantu abadala nabangane. Abanezi nje ukuthi baziphathe kanjani kulokhu. Umsebenti wakho ukufanisa izimo ezifanayo, ukufundisa ingane ukuthi ihambe ngendlela efanele futhi ikhiphe indlela efanele yokuziphatha. Uma umndeni wakho noma abangani bakho banezingane ezineminyaka efanayo, bazise ezemidlalo ehlangene. Bavumele baqhube phambi komunye nomunye, bedlala imidlalweni ehlukene, isibonelo, enkulisa, lapho ingane izoba uthisha, isikole nabafundi kanye nothisha nabanye. Kubalulekile ukuthi le midlalo ineqhaza elisho ukukhuluma komphakathi. Uma kungenjalo ingane yakho iyoba nehloni futhi ngenxa yalokho isaba abantu abadala ukuthi bakhulume noma baxoxe nabo.
Uma lesi sithiyo sinqotshwa, ungaqhubeka. Ngemuva kokusebenza okuphumelelayo ngaphambi kokuba umama angasho ukuthi ingane ngeke ilahleke emehlweni abantu abaningi abangajwayelekile-ababukeli.
Izimbangela zokwesaba.
Zama ukukhuluma nengane bese uthola isizathu sokwesaba kwakhe. Mhlawumbe akesabi inkulumo ngokwayo, ngokukhohlwa umbhalo noma amazwi wengoma noma yokusabela kwakho ekuhlulekeni okungenzeka. Kulesi simo, vumela ingane ukuthi isimo sakho sengqondo ngeke sishintshe nganoma yimuphi umphumela wenkulumo. Futhi amaphutha ayenzeka nhlobo, ngisho nasezifundweni zezinga eliphezulu. Hlela kabusha inkulumo ngokucophelela ngangokunokwenzeka, ukuze umntwana enze yonke imisebenzi ngaphandle kokungabaza, khona-ke uzokwazi ukunikeza amandla amaningi emibonweni nasekukhulumisaneni nezilaleli. Chaza ingane ukuthi iziphatha kanjani endaweni lapho kwenzeka isimo esingalindelekile. Isibonelo, uma ukhohlwe amagama noma ayeka umculo. Ungagxila kulokhu, ukuze ukwazi ukuvusa ukwesaba nakakhulu. Mane unqume amacebo ajwayelekile wokuziphatha, isibonelo, ukhohliwe amagama, khumbula okulandelayo bese uqhubeka ukufunda noma ukucula. Lokhu kuzokwenza ingane izwe ukuzethemba okungeziwe futhi izinikezele ngokuphelele ekusebenzeni, ingakhathaleli ukuthi yini engenzeka. Tshela ingane ukuthi awukwazi ukuthanda wonke umuntu ngesikhathi esisodwa. Ehholo kuyoba nalabo abaqaphela kakhulu ukusebenza kwakhe futhi kuzohlala kukhona labo abangawuthandi (ingane yakho inezintandokazi zayo). Lokhu akufanele ukudideka noma ukuyeka izingane. Lesi isimo esijwayelekile kunoma yimuphi umculi, oqalayo, akukho lutho olwethusa ngalokhu.
Amabhodi we-artists.
Abanye, mhlawumbe, bazosiza izeluleko zabaculi abanolwazi. Bavame ukusho ukuthi ukuze kusetshenzwe ngempumelelo kudingekile ukuthola umbukeli ehholo, bese ukhuluma naye ngesikhathi senkulumo. Kubantwana kungaba umama, ubaba noma abangane. Ngemva kokuzibona ehholo, ingane ingase izwe ukuzethemba okwengeziwe, ukwesekwa, kuyozuza umuzwa wokuzinza. Kukhona futhi kungenzeka ukuthi ingane ngokuphambene idinga ukuba nabangane abambalwa ngangokunokwenzeka ehholo, ngezinye izikhathi ithazela amahloni futhi ivimbele ukukhombisa konke umculi omncane okwazi ukukwenza. Umsebenzi wakho ukucacisa ukuthi yisiphi isimo esizokhululeka kakhulu ekusebenzeni kwengane bese uzama ukuyihlinzeka.
Ungadangali uma usuphumelele kahle. Ngaso sonke isikhathi uma uhlaziya isimo nengane, zama ukuthola ukuthi yini evimbele ngempela isethulo esiphumelele. Hlaziya, jabule, zama ukungenzi amaphutha endala. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - thanda futhi usekele ingane yakho. Ukuqeqeshwa okuqhubekayo, ukubekezela okuphansi kuyothela izithelo.