Umama nganoma yiliphi i kid liyindleko, ethandekayo futhi ethandekayo kakhulu. Ngisho nasesibelethweni sikamama ukuxhumana okuqinile kuphakama phakathi kwezingane ezizayo kanye nomama. Uvele ezwa imizwa kaMama, uphendukela esimweni sakhe sengqondo. Izwi lokuqala ayalizwa ngenkathi ekhanda unina. Eminyakeni embalwa yokuqala emva kokubeletha, umntwana uqhubeka engafuni ngokungathandabuzeki umama wakhe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyini. Ukubeka uthando lomama emntwaneni kusho ukugxilisa kuye isimo somama noma ubuhlobo esikhathini esizayo. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ingane yakho ngeke nje ibe yindodana noma indodakazi enothando, kodwa indoda noma umfazi onothando.
Izizathu eziyinhloko zokushabalalisa imizwa yengane yothando lomama
Ingane ingamphatha umama ngokuzikhukhumeza uma umama ekhombisa ngokuqondile ingane, noma angakwazi ukuhlala ematasa futhi enganakekeli ngaso sonke isikhathi ingane. Ukuziphatha kwakhe okubi kumama wakhe, ingane izama ukuheha ukunakekelwa okufanele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma omama bechitha usuku lonke nabantwana, izingane zijabulisa kakhulu ukudlala nopapa, abambona kuphela kusihlwa noma nogogo nomkhulu oza kanye ngesonto, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo banesikhathi sokubamba imvuthu njengoba umama nobaba bengakwazi kuthathwe ndawonye. Futhi umama uyisitolo sokugcina esivinjelwe: "ungahambi lapho", "ungathinti," "ungenzi lokho" nokunye.
Ukubeletha enganeni yothando ngomama
Umbuzo: "Indlela yokukhulisa uthando lomntanakho kumama?" Abanye omama bayazibuza kancane. Kubalulekile ukuqala kusukela ngesikhathi sokuzalwa kwakhe, futhi kungcono ngisho nezinyanga ezingu-9 ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwakhe. Izingane zizwa uthando lwakho ngaye. Kubalulekile ukuba abone umama wakhe olinganiselayo, omomothekayo, onothando nokuzola. Uma umzwelo omubi uvela kumama, akukhathaleki ukuthi ubani noma yini, ingane ingawaqonda ekuqondeni kwabo. Kusukela endleleni ingane iphatha ngayo unina, impilo yakhe yonke yesikhathi esizayo ixhomeke. Ukukhuliswa kwengane emndenini kwenzeka endaweni ethile yomphakathi. Ngezindlela eziningi, lesi simo sincike kowesifazane. Ungumama ofundisa ingane ukuba izithanda yena ngesibonelo sakhe. Ingane izwa konke ukunakekelwa kwayo. Ukukhuliswa kwengane yothando ngomama, akudingeki nje uthando lomama oludingekayo. Umama kumele abe nokubekezela okukhulu nokudinga. Noma yimuphi umntwana ubamba ubuqotho besimo sakho sengqondo kuye. Kubalulekile ukuba abe nomuzwa wokuthi awugcini nje ukuxosha naye, ngoba lokhu kuyimfanelo yakho, kodwa ukhathalela ngempela ingane yakho. Ukukhulisa i-crumb akulula njengokuthi ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala. Zonke amaphutha ozenza ekukhuliseni ingane zingathinta isimo sakhe sengqondo kokubili umama nabo bonke abantu ngokujwayelekile. Ingane kumele izwe ukuthi iyathandwa futhi iyathandwa. Khona-ke uzonikeza uthando lwakhe ngokuphindaphindiwe kunina, zama ukujabula ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Ukuba ngumama kuyinjabulo yangempela. Ngokuyinhloko uyaqonda lokhu lapho ingane yakho enesihawu ithi: "Mama, ngiyakuthanda!". Kodwa, ngeshwa, akubona njalo omama bezwa kubantwana le nkulumo. Kubonakala sengathi uyayithanda lesi sidalwa esingaphezu kokuphila, futhi usulungele ukudela konke okusemhlabeni ngenxa yakhe, futhi umphathe ngothando olukhethekile ngisho nangaphambi kokuzalwa kwakhe, futhi ngenxa yalokho uzwa: "Angikuthandi!" "Ungumama omubi ! ", Nokunye okukhaliphile nokushaya enhliziyweni yombhalo. Lokhu kungazwakala cishe bonke abazali. Umama uqala ukuphelelwa ithemba, ukubheka isizathu sezitatimende ezinjalo. Ngokuvamile, le migomo ayisho neze ukuthi ingane ayithandi unina. Kungaba umphumela wokuvinjelwa, ukujeziswa, ukufeza izifiso kanye nezidingo zomntwana. Ngakho-ke, omncinyane ubonisa ukuthi akajabuli ngento ethile, uphonseke. Ngempumelelo efanayo, akakwazi ukukhuluma nawe, uya ukukhala futhi usakaze amapheya akhe. Kulesi simo, umama kufanele aziphathe ngendlela efanele. Akunjalo uma kufanele ugxeke ingane ngezinkulumo ezinjalo, ungasebenzisi ithonya lomzimba ngokuphathelene nemvuthu, ungabi nandaba futhi ungenzi ukuvuma, wenze noma yini ayifunayo.
Umntwana ukhuliswe kanjani ngothando lomama? Konke okudingekile ukuba ahluke ngesikhathi esisezingeni lakhe uthando nokuqonda kubantu abasondelene naye, ikakhulukazi omama. Phatha ingane yakho ngokufudumala nokubekezela, futhi uzozwa uthando lwakhe oluhle.