"Ingane yokuqala iyidonsa yokugcina" - yilokho umama nomkhulu abasetshenziselwa ukukusho. Kodwa lo mbono uvele kuphela ngalabo bantu abangazange badlule konke ukuhlushwa esihogweni ngemuva kokuzalwa kwezibulo. Labo abanakho konke banikezwa kalula futhi bamane abangazange badlule izivivinyo ngezifo zemvuthuluka, ukuhlushwa nokuhlushwa. Uma ungakwazi ukulala, futhi uma uvuka, uthemba ukuthi kwakuyiphupho elibi kakhulu.
Ngami konke kwenzeka kanjalo: ingane ekulinde isikhathi eside mayelana nokuphupha konke-ugogo, ugogo, ngisho nakhulu-ugogo, kahle futhi, thina nomyeni. Indodana, iphupho likababa, lapho "ezamazama khona", wayezilungiselela futhi wayakwazisa, ngokuzumayo ngosuku lweshumi nanhlanu yokuphila kwakhe waqala ukwenza ama-rattles angacacile, cishe akekho owakwazi ukuwazwa ngaphandle kwami. Kodwa ngubani, njengokungathi wayengunina, uyazi zonke amangqamuzana emzimbeni wendalo yakhe, konke ukuphefumula nokukhala, okungafani nokungafani nanoma ubani kuleli zwe elikhulu. Uze ugwebe ngendlela ekhethekile, hhayi njengento yonke, enhle futhi enomusa kakhulu. Ekuqaleni ngithatha isimo sengqondo esibi kakhulu ekuzalweni kwengane, ngami wayengesiyodoli.
Sabiza udokotela wezingane endlini. Indoda yafika, ekhanda - i-cattley, egqoke izingubo ezigcoke. Ukuthembeka, lapho ngimhlangabeze emgwaqeni, ngabe ngicabanga ukuthi lokhu kuyi-plumber, umdwebi we-plaster, noma ubani, kodwa hhayi udokotela wezingane. Waphuma i-phonendoscope, walalela amaphaphu endodana yami, waqala ukuzulazula futhi .... Futhi yilokho. Esikhundleni salokho konke: waqala ukucasuka ukuthi ngangimkhathaze ngokungenangqondo, ukuthi ngingumama ongaziwayo, ngesaba ukuthi konke kuhle kumntwana, kwenzeka nje emva kokuzalwa, lapho isazi sezimbangi siphumelela kabi i-amniotic fluid. Konke kuzokwenzeka ngokushesha - ngakho wasiqinisekisa.
Kwaphela amasonto amabili. Kodwa, omunye angase asho, omkhulu UNKULUNKULU, njengoba nsuku zonke amasondo aqina futhi ahluke kakhulu. Manje bobabili nabazali bethu bezwa. Kusho ukuthi angizange ngiphakamise ngephutha i-alamu. Siphinde sabiza lo msebenzi ophezulu kakhulu (lokhu kungimi ngodokotela). Ukusabela, sizwa ukucasuka nokunye okufanayo "konke kuzodlula."
Ngakusasa ingane yami yaba nzima ukuphefumula. Ukubekezela kwethu sekuphelile, umyeni wami wathatha isikhathi emsebenzini futhi sithatha indodana yethu esibhedlela. Ngokwemvelo, asihambanga nodokotela wethu wendawo, kodwa ngokushesha "waphula" ehhovisi ekhanda. Ungacabangi, asibona abazali abahlambalaza, futhi siyawazisa futhi sibahlonipha umsebenzi odokotela, iningi lawo liyisimangaliso, abantu abazidela nabanakekile. Ngasendleleni eya polyclinic, kwenzeka okuthile okwakungenakucabangi ngisho nokucabanga. Endaweni ethile phakathi, inhliziyo yami ethandekayo emhlabeni, ingelosi yami yaqala ukuphazamisa, yaphenduka ibhakabhaka yonke indawo. Ngememeza, umyeni wami akayekanga isondo, kodwa wayeselungele ukuma futhi wayeka imoto. Siphuma emgwaqweni, saqala ukuphefumula, siphendule (njengoba isazi sezidakamizwa sangixwayisa, uma kungazelelwe ingane ishaya ubisi). Kwakuyizinyanga ngoMeyi, kodwa kusengcono, besesaba ukubamba umkhuhlane. Angazi ukuthi yini eyasiza, kodwa indodana yethu yayiphilisa futhi. Yingakho, lapho sifika emtholampilo, thina, ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka, sagijimela ngqo ehhovisi kuze kube yinhloko yomnyango wezingane.
Sasihlangana nomfazi omuhle cishe oneminyaka engaba ngu-45, futhi nje ngokubheka ingane futhi esilalele, waphetha ngokuthi ukuhlolwa esibhedlela kuyadingeka ngokuphuthumayo. Ngokwengxenye, udokotela owasihlolisisa kabili ekhaya, wayeseqinisile, uqobo lwama-amniotic fluid alukhiphi ngokuphelele. Kodwa ngenye indlela, kukho konke - kwakukhona iphutha lezokwelapha eliphelele. Njengoba odokotela basesibhedlela babachazela ukuthi, kulawa manzi ukuthi noma yikuphi ukutheleleka kwegciwane kungasungula futhi kuthuthuke ngokushesha.
Sashesha kakhulu ukubhaliswa ekamelweni lokuphuthumayo, okuphuthumayo. Ngangikhulunywa ngama-antibiotics, indodana yami yayinenyanga eyodwa kuphela ngaleso sikhathi (kule minyaka, lezi zidakamizwa zingalimaza kakhulu i-microflora yamathumbu). Kodwa ngemva kokuchitha amahora amabili okugcina, kwase kuyisikhathi eside. Ngathukuthele, ngoba kukhona ochwepheshe abasondelene nami, ukwelashwa kwakugcwele ngokuzulazula. Kwaba yingxenye yosuku nje kuphela, kodwa kubonakala kimi ukuthi indodana yayikhona.
Kusihlwa ngiya ekudleni okulandelayo, futhi ulala futhi wonke ohlaza okwesibhakabhaka futhi aphethwe amandla, ekuqaleni kwami, njengoba kuvela, ekhululekile. Emnyangweni ojwayelekile wabahlengikazi kakhulu-awubhekanga, kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi waphonswa ngaphandle. Futhi, uma ukudla kwakuyihora elizayo? Kuze kube manje, njengoba ngikhumbula, izinyembezi ziyaqhubekela phansi futhi zithatha ukuthuthumela. Ngokuvamile, ngakusasa ngatshelwa ngokudluliselwa kwethu ekamelweni lokunakekelwa okukhulu. Ngasukuma ngahlala phansi lapho. Umcabango wokuqala kwakuwukuthi igazi lami laba libi nakakhulu. Angimbonanga ubusuku bonke, angazi ukuthi ungubani noma yini engalungile naye. Kodwa udokotela uqinisekisile, ethi bahanjiswe kuphela ngoba ekamelweni lokunakekelwa okujulile njalo ingane isondelene nesisebenzi sezempilo nokunakekelwa, ngokulandelanayo, kuyoba ezingeni eliphakeme kunalesi sigceme esivamile.
Kusukela ngalolo suku, izinsuku ezinzima kakhulu nezinzima zihudula ku. Ngibhala ngakho manje, futhi ngizikhala. Wahlala lapho yedwa, ngaphandle kwami! Kanye kuphela ngosuku sivunyelwe ukuvakashela ilanga lethu. Emphefumulweni walungisa ukungabi nalutho, ilanga likhanya - futhi ngicabanga ukuthi konke kungu-grey, akukho ukunambitha kokudla, akukho ukunambitheka kokuphila, angizange ngizizwe. Ekhaya ngiyahamba ngivumelana namahobhe akhe, bahogela injabulo, kodwa injabulo yami ayinami manje. Angizange ngibavuselele futhi ukukhumbula iphunga lendodana yami yokuqala. Uma kwakungekho ukusekelwa komyeni wami nabazali bethu - Angazi, ngabe ngimi, nakuba ngangizibona nginamandla kakhulu futhi ngingenakunyakaziswa ngaphambili. Mhlawumbe, noma yimuphi umuntu angahle aphulwe, athathe kuye into eyigugu kakhulu ekuphileni.
Ngenye yezokusakaza, ngezwa indaba yomntwana ogula kakhulu, okwathi ngemuva kokubhapathizwa, wahlehliswa. Ngakusasa, Mina, umyeni wami namamawethu, ukusekelwa kwethu nokusekela okukhulu ekuphileni, wavuma nodokotela, waletha umpristi futhi ...
Kukhohliwe ukuthi udinga ukuthatha unkulunkulukazi nawe. Ngasikisela ukuthi sibe ngabafana bakaNkulunkulu nomyeni wami, kodwa kwenzeka ukuthi isonto alivumeli lokhu. Kodwa omunye wabagogo ufanelekile kakhulu indima ka-unina. Ngokwethembeka, akazange acabange: ukuthi okhulukazi bazovuma kanjani, ngoba bobabili babedula umzukulu. Bahlakaniphile, futhi banquma konke ngokwabo. Ngenxa yalokho, mina nomntanami sasiba nomama ovamile, wangibhalela, wabhapathizwa.
Yikholelwa noma cha, kodwa emva kwalokho isimo se-lapunchik sethu siphucule kangcono futhi siphuthumayo nsuku zonke. Futhi ngemva kwamasonto amathathu sakhishwa. I-Urrra!
Ngonyaka wakhe wokuqala wokuphila, wayevame ukulimaza, kodwa sonke sasihlula futhi savusa ingane ezinyaweni zakhe. Ngemuva kweminyaka eyi-1 nezinyanga ezingu-8, ingelosi yesibili yabonakala emndenini wethu. Sabeka iphupho kubaba - indodana yami, futhi ekugcineni iphupho lami lazalwa - indodakazi yami! Ngemuva kokuhlangenwe nakho, sabhekana nezinyanga ezintathu zokuqala zokuphila kwakhe ngegazi lokushisa. Akekho omunye ongasivakashela okokuqala, ukuze angeneli ukutheleleka. Ugogo nomkhulu babanikwe izingubo ezimhlophe ezingasuki kanye namaski wezokwelapha. Ngomntwana wesibili, konke kwahamba kahle, kokubili ngokoqobo nangokomfanekiso.
Okulandelayo, konke kufana nomunye umuntu, i-nursery, i-kindergarten, isikole ... Ngenxa yokuthi izingane zami zinemifushane emincane kakhulu, zithandana kakhulu. Uma othile ecasula udadewabo, mfowethu - khona lapha. Izinsuku ezinzima ezinjalo ekuphileni kwethu zazingasaphinde ziphindwe, futhi ngiyethemba kakhulu ukuthi ngeke kube khona. Kuyadabukisa lapho izingane zihlupheka.
Kusukela kuleso simo ngathola isifundo esihle futhi ngiphetha: ngaso sonke isikhathi udinga ukulwela impilo nenhlalakahle yegazi lakho. Ungalindeli ukuthi omunye uzokusiza, enze izinto, uzikhandle eminyango evaliwe, avikele amalungelo abantwana bakho, ngoba wena-awudingi muntu, akekho ozowavikela nokuwavikela, kangcono kunabantwana bawo. Le ndaba ithonywe kakhulu ngubaba wethu, okungukuthi, uyise wezingane zami. Usuvele ukhathazekile kakhulu ngami futhi uqinisekisiwe. Ezweni lethu lanamuhla akunakwenzeka ukuthola ubaba onakekela kakhulu futhi onothando ngaphezu kukababa wethu othandekayo!
Manje izingane ziye zaqala umama wazo, zizophuma maduze amapuleli azo, zifunde ngempumelelo esikoleni, zithathele ama-Olympiads nezinkomfa zocwaningo, zibhalwe ohlwini lwezingane ezinezintandokazi eRussia. Abantu abadala, abahlakaniphile, abazimele, kodwa inhliziyo kamama wami engangiphumuli ukuphumula, "ngithuthumela", njengabantwana. Lapha siyi-Mummy Strange!