Indaba ukuthi amadoda afanelekayo akhona, futhi angena empilweni yakho hhayi uma ubheka futhi ulinde, kodwa uma isiphetho sinquma ukukunika isipho esifanelekile.
Ukuphila kwami kwakamuva kwakufana nempilo yabesifazane abaningi banamuhla, abahlakaniphile, abanhle futhi abanesizungu. Cishe umfundi ofanele kakhulu esikoleni (eyodwa-ezine), isitudiyo esine-diploma ebomvu (enye eyengeziwe), uthando olungenakuqhathaniswa ngonyaka wokuqala, ukushada ngemuva kwesikhungo futhi usebenze hhayi okukhethekile, ngoba imali iyadingeka.
Kuphela, ngokungafani nabangane bami abaningi abashadile, ngangingenaso isikhathi sokuba nezingane ezimbili noma ezintathu, ngakho kwakungekho isidingo sokunamathela kumyeni wami ohlulekayo. Eminyakeni emithathu, cishe ngokusho kukaBegbeder, yonke imizwa yami ejulile ngomyeni wami, ingqondo engaqondakali engaziwa, isomile ngokuphepha. Kwakungadingeki ukwabelana ngempahla etholakalayo, ngoba cishe yonke into, kuhlanganise nehembe lakhe-amasokisi-amabhulukwe, athengwe emholweni wami. Futhi indlu yaqhubeka iyingxenye kagogo, oye waya emzaneni wakhe othandekayo waya ku-strawberries ayithandayo.
Ekulingweni, u-ex wami wayezama ukufakazela okuthile, wathembisa ukuthi wayezothathwa ukuze asebenze, futhi ukuthuthukiswa kwakhe kwakuyokhipha, uma kungenjalo kuNobel, khona-ke kube umklomelo wombuso kanye nokuthi ngizozisola ngokujulile ngokuphila kwami konke ngesinqumo sami esisheshayo.
Kwadingeka ngizisole kuphela into eyodwa. Ukuthi emva kokuba umyeni wami eshiye impilo yami, nabangane bakhe baphinde bamnyama kuye, engingamcela ngezinye izikhathi ukulungisa okuthile endlini, uma ukubiza okuphuthumayo kwenkosi kwakungekho imali eyanele /
Ngesinye isikhathi, nganquma ukwenza ukulungiswa okuncane endlini ngedwa. Ngathengile iqoqo lamathuluzi, ngoba kwakungekho lutho olusele endlini ngaphandle kwesando somkhulu kanye nesikebhe esibukhali. Futhi kwakubonakala kimi ukuthi ekuqaleni kwe-pantry kwakukhona zonke izinhlobo zamantongomane, ama-bolts, izikrini.
Okokuqala, nganquma ukulungisa isobho sokugesi sikagogo omdala. Kwadingeka ngifunde okuthile, kodwa anginayo ikati. Kuyathakazelisa, kodwa iqiniso - ngilibhekene ne-kettle ngaphandle komzamo omkhulu. Ngiphefumlelwe yimpumelelo, nganquma ukushintsha iphepha lodonga emgodini. Ngokushesha waqeda iphepha lodonga elidala, wasula phansi ibhodi bese uqaphela ukuthi isikhathi eside siyoshintsha indawo yokushintsha nosokhethi. Owokuqala wayengenayo isikhathi sokushintsha okunjalo, futhi mina ngokwami, ngingeke ngikwenze konke ngokusemandleni nangokuphepha.
Njengoba inhlanhla ingaba nayo, i-mashchinka yokuhlanza, ikhukhumeze ukukhumbuza iminyaka yakhe ehloniphekile, yaphela ukufeza imisebenzi yakhe eqondile. Ukuyilungisa kwakungeyona into enenjongo, bekuzophela ngephutha emhlanganweni, ngaphandle kokuthola ulwazi. Futhi izingxenye zavuma ukuzamukela, nazo zikhokha imali encane. Ukwengeza ngaphezulu kweziphindwe eziyishumi emalini eyamukelwe, ngathengile isikhonkwane, engangikubuka isikhathi eside, kodwa angikwazi ukuyithenga, ngoba ngangingakhokhele imali kuphela mina nomyeni wami, kodwa kaningi ngunina.
Umhlangano wokuqala nendoda yami ekahle
Ngithole inombolo yocingo yensizakalo "Umyeni ngehora" futhi wenza ucingo ku-plumber nombane kagesi. U-dispatcher uthe ungathumela inkosi engakwazi ukufaka isikhala se-stylalki, nokushintsha izisekelo. Ngaphansi kwethonya lokungaboni kahle, wayekulindele ukuthi umalume oboshiwe u-half of age engacaciswanga uzofika emsebenzini owenziwe usawoti. Lapho indoda enhle, egqoke kahle, enezinwele ezimhlophe, enezintambo ezisesandleni sakhe ehlezi ngasemnyango, nganquma ukuthi kwakuyikheli elingalungile. Engqondweni yami, umninindlu omncane okwakulungiswa wayengabheki njengommeli ophumelelayo noma umphathi ophezulu wenkampani enkulu.
Umshini wokugeza "umyeni ngehora" exhunywe imizuzu embalwa. Futhi hhayi kuphela kumbhobho wamanzi, njengowokudala, kodwa nasemgqeni wokudonsa. Esikhathini esidlule, umshini wami usanda kukhipha amanzi endlini yokugezela. Owokuqala akazange afune ukukhathazeka ukuthenga i-adapter ku-siphon kusukela emanzini. Ngemva kokugijima ukugeza, ngaya ekhishini.
Ngesikhathi i-wizard yayikhetha ukukhishwa, ngenza ikhofi futhi ngavele ngibamba ngicabanga ukuthi ngangingacabangi ukuthi kungcono kangakanani kimi ukuthi ngisebenzise i-styaralka entsha, isishintshi esisha kanye nendawo eyengeziwe. Ngacabanga ukuthi le ndoda enhle ingakwazi kanjani ukukhonza ingubo yowesifazane, ivule umnyango wemoto yangaphandle kanye ne-uncork ibhodlela le-champagne. Futhi lapho ihora elizayo wangibonisa ukushintshwa kokusebenza, nganquma ukuzama i-kettle kagesi endaweni entsha. Ngesizathu esithile waziqhayisa ngokuthi wakwazi ukuzilungisa.
Inkosi yamangala ukuthi umsebenzi walo muntu wenziwa owesifazane ohlakaniphile nobuthakathaka. Ukufunda ukuthi mina noqobo saqala ukulungiswa, sanikeza usizo ekukhetheni i-glue lodonga evamile, sanconywa uhlobo lwephepha lodonga olulula ukulondoloza. Ngifunde konke kuyi-Intanethi, kodwa ukuhlangenwe nakho kokusetshenziswa okusebenzayo kwakungakhohlisa ngaphezu kokuqinisekiswa kwabadayisi.
Ukuhlangana kwesibili
Mhlawumbe ezinye zezakhi zamakhemikhali phakathi kwethu zavela ngalobo busuku bokuqala, ngoba inkosi yazinikela ukusebenzisa ikhadi layo isaphulelo esitolo sezinto zokwakha. Ngami, kungaba ubuwula ukungavumelani; njengowesifazane wangempela, ngiyazi ukuthi azikho izaphulelo eziningi.
Sakhetha iphepha lodonga lami elisha, i-glue, i-spatula, laletha zonke izinto nezinto zokusebenza emphemeni, waziswa emnyango wangaphambili. Kusukela ekunikezeni ukuphuza ikhofi, umsizi wami wenqabe, ecaphuna ama-oda wamanje, kodwa ngokubuyisela anikeze usizo ekuthandeni iphepha lodonga. Ngalokhu mina, ngimangala ngokwami, akazange nginqabe.
Kwaphela izinsuku ezintathu ngangihamba ngaya emakamelweni ngenqwaba yemiqulu, amaphakheji anezingxenye ezintsha zendawo yokulala emgodini, amabhokisi anezibani nezinye izinto. Ugcwalise ngobuqotho isithembiso sokungaqala noma yini. Kodwa ngoLwesihlanu kusihlwa umsebenzi waqala ukupheka ngesivinini esinjalo kangangokuthi anginaso isikhathi sokulungisa isikhathi, lapho ihholo lami liguqulwa khona. Esikhundleni seminyango ekhishiwe yekhabhinethi ngemiphumela yokuqothula ama-posters omyeni, izicabha zezibuko zaziqhenya, izikhwama ezibuyiselwayo kanye nezidwebi ezithintekile zahlelwa. Khona-ke inkosi yashintsha isibani esidala emgodini, yahloma i-closet ngezibani ezintsha zamaphuzu.
Ngaleso sikhathi, ngamthanda ngempela owesifazane othandekayo. Ukuthi ukhona, cishe ngangingabazi. Phela, ungazami ukuheha owesifazane womunye umuntu, mahhala futhi wedwa, futhi ngisho nokuba yedwa naye endlini yakhe, angamthanda ngobuqotho umuntu othile.
Lapho siqala ukunamathisela iphepha lodonga, ngisazama ukuqala ingxoxo mayelana nokuthi ngiyayithanda kanjani ikhono namakhono omsizi wami nokuthi indlela enhle ngayo umkakhe ngayo. Uthi uphendule ukuthi umfazi wakhe owayengumngane wakhe wayenombono ohluke kakhulu ngaye, waxoshwa futhi waxoshwa ngaphandle nangaphandle, egxeke ngazo zonke izono ezifayo nokuhluleka ukwenza ingane, nokuthi wayesehlukanisile ngokuphepha iminyaka engaphezu kwemihlanu.
Ngemuva kokuphothulwa komsebenzi ekwakhiweni, futhi igumbi lalikhanya ngokuhlanzeka nokududuza, saqala ukuphuza itiye. Ngemuva kokuxoxisana nokuncoma, angizange ngibone lapho esuka esihlalweni eya ekhishini elisha. Kodwa angizange ngihambe, njengoba ngangenza njalo lapho omunye wamadoda eseduze kakhulu nomngcele wendawo engondelene naye. Ngangifuna ukuthi angibambe ngezandla zakhe ezinamandla ngezipikili ezihlotshiswe kahle, wayefuna okungaphezu kokumangalela. Njengokuthi ufunda imicabango yami, wanganganga e-earlobe, wabe esifinyelela izindebe zami. Uthando olude olulandelayo lulandelwe, lukhula ngokushisa ngomzuzu wonke.
Sasihlukana omunye nomunye kakade ekamelweni lokulala. Kwenzekani kamuva, kuyadabukisa ukutshela nokukhumbula ngokujabulisayo.
Ngingathanda ukubhala ngomhlangano wesithathu, nowesine. Kodwa bamane bebengekho lapho. Ekuseni, "umyeni ngehora," wathuthela yonke imiyalo yakhe, isibusiso sabo sasingamabili kuphela. Futhi yonke impelasonto sasijabulela inkampani yomunye nomunye. Kwakukhona ukuthi sasinombono ofanayo ngokumangalisayo ngezinto ezibalulekile, sifunda ezinye izincwadi futhi silalela ezinye izingoma.
Ngenkathi ngeSonto kusihlwa wayezohlangana, ngangihlambalaza ngathi angiyikumuvumela ukuba ahambe ekhaya. Uphinde waphoqa ukuthi ngeke ashiye, udinga nje ukondla inhlanzi.
Sondla inhlanzi ndawonye, ngakho-ke wangondla ukudla kwasekuseni, ngase nginquma ukuthi njengoba engakwazi ukuba nezingane, nami-ke angidingi ukuvikelwa. Ngenxa yalesi sinqumo, ngaqala ukuthanda ikhukhamba enosawoti.
Namuhla ngisendlini yami kusukela e-oda langaphambili elihle kunamaphuzu amnandi kuphela. Kodwa nginendoda ekahle namawele amabili aphelele, ngamehlo aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka nombala wombala wempuphu, njengamaconsi amabili amanzi afana nobaba. Ziyakhambela kuzo zonke izingxenyana zefulethi, futhi ngokushesha ziqala ukugijimela ngakho ngezinyawo ezintathu zemilenze. Kuhle ukuthi i-styaralka entsha inamandla kakhulu, inesikhathi sokugeza konke. Iphephadonga elisegumbini lalihle kakhulu, ukuqala abadwebi bezangaphakathi sebevele bafinyelele kuzo. Ukulungiswa okusha akude kakhulu, ikakhulukazi kusukela esiqandisini futhi saqala ukukhetha ukhukhamba.