1. Ngesikhathi sokulala ngokocansi ungakhulelwa.
Lona umbono omkhulu ongalungile. Kungenzeka ukuba ukhulelwe futhi kalula - kusukela ekuqaleni kokuya esikhathini. Ngakho-ke, ukuvikelwa kuyadingeka kusukela ekuqaleni, kungenjalo ukumangazeka okungavamile kungabi nje kuphela ukukhulelwa okungadingeki, kodwa futhi nezifo ezithathelwana ngocansi.
2. Wonke umuntu uqala ukwenza ucansi ngaphambi kwakho.
Ikakhulukazi lezinganekwane zokuthi ubulili bokuqala - okujwayelekile kubantu abaneminyaka engu-14 kuya ku-15 ubudala, bayathandwa ezikoleni. Kufanele wazi ukuthi intsha ivame ukukhuluma ngalokho abangathanda ukukuthola, hhayi ngalokho abakhona ngempela. Njengoba izibalo zibonisa, ingane ekhululekile kakhulu, kamuva iqala ukuphila kocansi. Isilinganiso seminyaka yokuqala kokusebenza ngokocansi iminyaka engu-16. Kodwa ezindabeni ezinjalo, akufanele uthembele kuzibalo, kodwa kuphela ngemizwa yakho kanye nokuqonda okuvamile.
3. Ikhondomu iyisithiyo.
Lena inkolelo evamile kakhulu ukuthi intsha engenalwazi oncibilikisiwe. Kukholelwa ukuthi ikhondomu izokwenza ukuthi ubulili bokuqala bube nzima. Eqinisweni, ikhondomu ingenza lula ukungenelela kwe-penis emgodini, njengoba kuhlanganiswa ne-lubricant ekhethekile.
4. Kuyoba buhlungu kakhulu!
Abaningi khumbula kahle izindaba ezibuhlungu ukuthi ukuhlaziywa kuyisihlungu kakhulu. Kuyinto nje inganekwane. Eqinisweni, ukuzwa okungajabulisi akubalulekile futhi ngokushesha kudlula inqubo yokulala ngokobulili, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi angeke kube negazi nhlobo, ikakhulukazi uma kungekho sitsha esonakalisiwe. Ukuthokozisa kakhulu intombazane, okungabonakali kuyoba yimiphumela emibi.
5. Phakathi neminyaka, i-hymen iba yimbi kakhulu.
Amanye amantombazane ashesha ukuhlukanisa nobuntombi, ngoba bakholelwa ngephutha ukuthi i-hymen iyancipha ngeminyaka. Ukwesaba ukuba intombi kungenasisekelo ngokuphelele. I-hymen ayiyona i-septum yensimbi, inezimbobo kanye nesakhiwo esiyingozi, isisindwe kakhulu futhi ayilahlekelwa yizici ezineminyaka yobudala.
6. Ngokushesha, kubi kakhulu.
Abaningi sebezwile ukuthi impilo yokuqala yocansi iyingozi emzimbeni, futhi lokhu akuyona inganekwane. Kodwa nini isikhathi? Umzimba wethu uvuthwa eminyakeni engu-18, kodwa ukulungele impilo yobulili, singaba khona kancane noma kamuva, kuncike ezicini zomuntu ngamunye. Into eyodwa kuyiqiniso - ubulili bokuqala, uma ungakakulungeli, akukho ukuziphatha noma ngokomzimba njalo kuyingozi kakhulu.
7. Kamuva, kubi kakhulu.
Kukholelwa ukuthi izintombi ezineminyaka eminingi ziqala ukuhlushwa izifo ezihlukahlukene zesimiso sokuzala, umsebenzi we-hormonal and immune systems uphazamiseka. Eqinisweni, ukungabikho koxhumana nabo ngokocansi akuthinti ukusebenza kwalezi zinhlelo nganoma iyiphi indlela. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uneminyaka emingaki owesifazane onqatshelwe ubuntombi, angakwazi ukukhuthazela futhi abelethe ingane uma enempilo. Futhi impilo ayixhomekile ekubeni khona noma ukungabikho kwe-hymen.
8. Izazi zegazi - kuphela kulabo abanolwazi.
Kukholelwa ukuthi udinga ukuya kumgogeni wezifo kuphela kulabo abalala nabo. Kodwa umjozi wesifo somzimba awuphatheki nje kuphela labo ababhekene nezifo ezithathelwana ngocansi noma abaqapha impilo yabesifazane abakhulelwe. Ngesinye isikhathi ukwehlukana emsebenzini wezitho ezithile kutholakala ezintombi, kumele baphathwe ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Ungathola ukuthi uphilile noma udinga ukwelashwa ngendlela eyodwa kuphela - ngokuvakashela umjozi wezifo. Lokhu kufanele kwenziwe okungenani kanye ngonyaka kusukela ekuqaleni kokuya esikhathini, khona-ke izinkinga eziningi esikhathini esizayo zizogwetshwa.
9. Indoda kumele ibe mdala.
Yiqiniso, kuhle uma omunye wenu esenayo isipiliyoni sobulili, eqonda kabanzi ngalokho okwenzekayo enkambweni yobungqingili bobulili, uyazi ukuthi angayinakekela kanjani ukuvikela kanye nomlingani. Kodwa noma ngabe uneminyaka yobudala obufanayo futhi bobabili abanalo lolu phiko, ngendlela enengqondo futhi ephelele ngokugcwele, umphumela ngeke ube mbi nakakhulu uma ngabe unomlingani ohlangenwe nakho obuseduze nawe.
10. I-Orgasm ihlala njalo.
Abaningi bakholelwa ngephutha ukuthi ukuba ne-orgasm kuyinkomba yekhwalithi. Abanye abantu abangeke bakwazi ukubhekana ne-orgasm, abanye bawubona njalo ngezikhathi ezithile, kodwa bangajabula futhi bajabulele impilo ebuseduze. Okokuqala kungenzeka ukuthi ngeke uthole i-orgasm - ukhathazekile kakhulu, awuzi wena nomzimba wakho, awukwazi ukuthi yini ongayilindela. Ngemuva kwesikhashana, uma ungakhululeka, uzothola ukuzijabulisa ngocansi.