Injabulo yesilisa nenjabulo encane

Kubonakala sengathi injabulo ingumqondo ongcolile. Futhi-ke, ngomqondo womhlaba wonke wezwi, sonke sifuna into efanayo - ukuthi umuntu angalinda umuntu ekhaya, njengokuthi wonke umuntu uphilile nakho konke okulowo moya. Kodwa kufanele uvumelane, ngoba ngamunye wethu unenjabulo enkulu nenjabulo encane, esiyibiza ngezinye izikhathi ngokuthi "injabulo encane." Ngakho ake sibone ukuthi injabulo yalomuntu ikhona. Futhi yiyiphi indima yabesifazane ekwenzeni "injabulo".


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Inkulumo, yebo, izohamba ngemoto. Lokhu kungcwele kwezingcwele zomuntu okhethiweyo. Insimu yakhe, inzalo yakhe, othandekayo wakhe wesibili. Isibopho semoto emadodeni silinganiselwe nomthwalo womngane noma ingane. I-Ideal ayikho konke okubizayo, kodwa ngoba nje amadoda ethu angama-tacostroenes. Thenga umsakazo omusha "ubuhle" babo - lokhu kuyinjabulo. Futhi abadingi ijezi elisha kuze kuthengwe amathayi asebusika. Futhi imali akusizi isihawu uma kuziwa enjabulweni yabo yeselula.

Umama wakho ngumama wakho

Ama-anecdotes mayelana noninazala avela ngesizathu. Ngisho noma umthandi wakho enobudlelwano obuhle nomzali wakho, akusho ukuthi usekulungele ukuzindla nsuku zonke endlini yakho noma, nakakhulu, ukuhlanganyela ne-nihil. Uma ubuhlobo phakathi kwentombazane yakho nomama wakho, okukhulunywe kahle-ke, kuhlushwa, okwenza kube ujabule kuyoba lula nakakhulu - ukunciphisa izigameko okungenani. Omunye uzokuthi lokhu akulungile, kodwa empeleni, wena ngokwakho awufuni ukubona ubuso bakhe obunganelisekile noma ukumlalela elula. Awukwazi ukulungisa isimo, kodwa ungaphazamisi isimo sakho sengqondo futhi wenze ujabule wakho okhethiwe. Kwanele ukuhlangana ndawonye ngamaholidi.

Umsebenzi wesibili - ekhaya

Ngubani phakathi kwethu ongafuni umsebenzi onjalo, ongathanda ukuwubalekela ekuseni. Akungabazeki ukuthi umsebenzi engiwuthandayo uyinjabulo. Kungenye indaba lapho kuphakama izinkinga emsebenzini. Amantombazane angasuka kubo futhi akhohlwe ngokwabo ekuthandeni othandekayo, ngoba amadoda kunzima kakhulu. Bona kanye nezindlu bazobe behlela uhlelo lokulungisa isimo, futhi ukungapheli nokungafuni ukuqonda ukuthi kungani ligcwele kakhulu futhi kungagxila kuwe kuyoduma nje kuphela. Ezimweni ezinjalo, kubalulekile ukukhombisa ukuqonda. Funda ukubona uma indoda yakho idinga wena, futhi uma udinga ukumshiya yedwa.

Kukhona-kuhle, kodwa kuhle ukudla - kungcono nakakhulu

Indlela eya enhliziyweni yomuntu .... Wonke umuntu uyakhumbula ukuthi lesi saga siphelelani. Akekho ozophikisana neqiniso lokuthi uma intombazane ingakwazi ukupheka, lokhu kuyinhlanganisela enkulu emlandweni wakhe womfazi wesikhathi esizayo. Futhi uma intombazane ingaziqhayisa ngamakhono angavamile okupheka, ngakho-ke ayinayo intengo. Okokuqala, amadoda afana nokudla okumnandi, futhi ukudla okwenziwe ekhaya kuhlale kunomsoco kunokudla okulula okusekelwe esitolo noma zokudlela. Okwesibili, ziqhayise phakathi kwabahlobo ukuthi kusihlwa wadla iTabaka yenkukhu, ephekwe ngokuhlakanipha ngamaphupho akhe abathandayo, amaphupho wonke umuntu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, wena ngokwakho uzokujabula, ubheke ubuso obujabulisayo bomyeni wakho, lapho eyobamba amathambo.

Umgomo, umgomo, umgomo!

Akubona bonke abantu abalandeli bebhola, kepha kunjalo iningi. Futhi ngalokhu akukho lutho olungenziwa. Uma umdlalo obalulekile useTV, khona-ke wena, amantombazane, uzohamba ngemuva, futhi uma le nsizwa inethikithi futhi umdlalo ukhona, ungakwazi ukukhohlwa ngobusuku bokuthandana ngekhandlela. Yini okufanele uyenze? Kunezindlela ezimbili eziphuma: owokuqala ukwamukela nokuhamba, ngemuva kwakho konke, ibhola lingabonisi nsuku zonke; okwesibili ukujoyina, ukuhlanganyela izithakazelo zakhe. Yiqiniso, akuwona wonke amantombazane alungele ukhetho lwesibili. Uma nje lo mdlalo usuqedile, futhi wonke ama-nuances ayo azoxoxwa enkampanini yamadoda, umthandi wakho uzobuyela ezandleni zakho ezinamandla futhi futhi ujabule.

Isosha lonke

Izindlela zamadoda zokuziphatha komuntu wesifazane kanye nokuziphatha zingahlushwa, kodwa zonke zingabhalwa ohlelweni olulodwa: ekhishini - inkosikazi, embhedeni - ukuzitika ngokweqile, emphakathini - ngamahloni. Ngakho-ke kuvela ukuthi owesifazane kufanele abe cishe isosha lonke. Khona-ke uyojabula. Manje abesifazane banomuzwa wokuzihlonipha, bathi, kungani kufanele sonke sikwazi ukwenza lokhu. Ama-Rasslabljtes, amantombazane, sonke sifisa lokhu, ngaphandle kwemisebenzi yomuntu. Ngakho empeleni, ngamunye wethu uyinhlanhla yamathalenta, akukhona nje ukuthi sonke asivule noma asikho muntu ozowavulela. Ngakho kungenzeka ukuthi imfihlo yeqiniso yenjabulo yakho ethandekayo ikhona ngaphakathi kwakho.

Abangane bangcwele

Ukuba ngumsizi, umuntu usetshenziselwa ukuhlangana nabangane uma ecabanga. Futhi manje, lapho enani, kufanele ashintshe okuthile. Ngombono wami, lokhu kungalungile. Futhi ngezinga elithile uqinisile. Kusobala ukuthi izambatho zokulala zizokwehliswa noma zinciphise, kepha lokhu akusho ukuthi ubusuku beLwesihlanu obusika buzoqedwa. Khipha isikhwama, futhi indoda yakho izoba evela kubangani abajabula ukubuyela kuwe.

"Ngizobeletha iqhawe likayise kaTsar"

Ukuzalwa kwengane kumuntu kubaluleke kakhulu, futhi ukuzalwa kwendodana kuyisiholide sonke. Lokhu akusho ukuthi intombazane iyoyithanda kancane, kwenzeka nje kuphela ukuthi ukuzalwa kwabameli "abahlala emndenini" beqhosha elikhulu kunabo bonke. Yiqiniso, lapha awunakwenzeka ukuthi ungathonya umphumela ngandlela-thile, kodwa ungaba nemizamo eminingana.

Njengoba ungabona, amadoda nawo anezinjabulo zawo ezincane, ezakha isithombe sonke senjabulo. Futhi ukubamba iqhaza kwakho kule nqubo yiyona engabalulekile kakhulu.