Kuhle ukuthi konke kwasizwa umama. Ufundele, wasebenza noma kuphi nanoma ubani, zonke izimpelasonto ezinikezwe indodakazi yakhe, futhi lapho kukhona imali engenayo enomsebenzi onomsebenzi kuphela nendodakazi. Awunaki impilo yakho, ukulindele ukuthi indodakazi yakho ikhule.
Lesi yisimo esivamile kubesifazane abaningi abangashadile futhi sekunciphise. Futhi lapho indodakazi eneminyaka engu-14 uhlangana nomfana. Ekuqaleni sahlangana ngasese, wabe usuqedile ukutshela indodakazi yakho. Awukwazi ngisho nokucabanga ukuthi inkinga enkulu ngendodakazi ekhulile yayiyoba yisinqumo. Indodakazi ayihambisani, futhi washada, umyeni wathuthela ukuhlala nawe. Indodakazi idabukisayo yabe isabela emshadweni wakho nasebukhosini bomuntu ohlala naye endlini yakho. Wajabula ngokuthi indodakazi ekhulile ikuqonda futhi ayikho inkinga enkulu, njengoba umngane wakhe ecabanga. Isikhathi sokuqala empilweni yakho, wazizwa ujabule ngempela. Kodwa-ke ubuhlobo emndenini buba nzima.
Indodakazi ibonakala sengathi iqhudelana ngamabomu , yaqala ukukhuluma ngezwi elingenakwenzeka. Ukuphawula kwakho mayelana nezifundo kwabonwa ngenzondo, ukubuyela ekhaya kwasekupheleni kwesikhathi kwaba yinto evamile. Waqala ukugqoka ngokungcolile, walungisa izinwele zakhe futhi wayekuhlukumeza ngaso sonke isikhathi. Wazama ngokukhethekile ukwehlisa ukungacabangi kwakhe phambi kobaba wakhe omncane. Manje waqonda ukuthi inkinga enkulu ngendodakazi ekhulile ayikwazi ukugwema. Kodwa awuzange uqonde ukuthi yiyiphi inkinga enkulu ongayiyo nayo nendodakazi yakho esekhulile.
Phakathi nokucaciswa okulandelayo kobudlelwane, indodakazi yanikezela ukuthi yathandana noyise wakhe wesifazane nokuthi wayithande kusukela ekuqaleni, ngokushesha nje lapho evele. Usolakala ukuthi naye ubonise isithakazelo kuye, futhi uphazamisa yena kuphela. Ngamanye amazwi, banaloveli yesibili. Ngemva kokukhipha konke lokhu, indodakazi yabalekela ekhaya, futhi wena, emva kokuningi kwe-sobs, wanquma ukukhuluma nomyeni wakhe. Ingxoxo yayinzima: umyeni wenqaba yonke into, wathi wayezobeka indlebe yakhe indodakazi yakhe ngenxa yamahlaya anjalo. Wamukela futhi wafungela wonke umuntu emhlabeni ukuthi akazange anikeze intombazane isizathu. Awazi ukuthi ucabangani nokuthi ubani ongakholelwa. Uma indodakazi ekhulile iyakuthandana noyise wakhe wesifazane, ngabe indlela yokuziphatha ngayo?
Indlela yokuphila ngaphansi kophahla olulodwa nendodakazi eyanzondayo, ngoba ungumfazi womuntu ayithandayo? Futhi manje umyeni wakho waqala ukwethemba kancane, ukungabaza okuhlukunyezwayo, ngoba ukumelana nobuhle nenhle yentombazane encane ethintekayo kunzima ...
Manje awuhlali nje nenkinga enkulu, manje uhlala esihogweni. Uzenza sengathi akukho lutho olwenzekile, indodakazi nayo yamukela imithetho yomdlalo: ayikukhulumi nawe, ibuya ekhaya isheshe futhi ilala ngokushesha. Uyakuqonda kahle ukuthi lesi simo ngeke sixazululwe ngokwazo. Indodakazi ingasungula konke lokhu ngenxa yomhawu, futhi, mhlawumbe, ngokungazi kahle. Kunoma yikuphi, ukuzenza sengathi akukho okwenzekile yindlela yokuphumelela. Ngakho akuyisikhathi eside futhi esibhedlela ukujabulisa ngokuphazamiseka kwemizwa.
Akekho odinga lo mphumela . "Ukuphila esihogweni" kungamiswa masinyane uma ucela usizo kwesazi sengqondo sokusebenza nemindeni. Ochwepheshe onolwazi uzokusiza uqonde isimo esinzima. Kodwa ukuhlela "ukubheja ubuso nobuso" kuphela akufanelekile. Ukuzama ukuletha "unecala" ekuhlanzeni amanzi ngeke kuphele kahle. Ukusebenza okunjalo kwe-amateur kuzoholela ekuxabaneni okukhulu, futhi kungenzeka, ukuwa komndeni. Izikhathi zokulungiswa kwengqondo zidinga ukuhamba ndawonye. Ukumemezela le nkinga futhi ngokuhlanganyela ukucinga isisombululo saso ngokuqinisekile kuyosinika imiphumela emihle. Emihlanganweni enjalo, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sigwema ukunikeza iseluleko futhi asiyithathi indima yejaji. Ukhuthaza wonke umuntu ukuba axoxisane ngokusebenzayo futhi athole ukuyekethisa okuzuzisayo.