Futhi kunemibono eminingi mayelana nokuthi ungakhetha kanjani igama lomntwana nge-patronymic.
Ngaphambili, igama lomntwana lakhethwa ngokuvumelana namakhalenda esonto. Futhi konke kwakuyinto elula: nsuku zonke kwakunomuntu ongcwele. Ngaloluphi usuku umntwana azalwa ngalo, leli gama laphinde litholwa. Futhi umphathi - kanye negama. Ngosuku lwamashumi amane emva kokuzalwa kwengane, babhapathiza, balungise igama elitholiwe.
Yiqiniso, kaningi emindenini kuze kube neminyaka eyi-17 ibizwa ngokuthi yisidlaliso noma elinye igama, ukuze "imimoya emibi ikhohliswe". Lezi zinkolelo zinomlando ngisho nangokwedlula ubuKristu. Futhi eziningi zazo ziqhubeka kuze kube namuhla.
Isibonelo, kunconywa ukuthi ungamniki ingane igama lomuntu oshonile. Ikakhulukazi uma efa kusenesikhathi, futhi ngisho nokudabukisayo. Kukholelwa ukuthi kanye negama igama lomntwana lizozuza ifa lokubili nezinkinga nokuphila okufushane.
Kodwa-ke, ukunikeza umntwana osanda kuzalwa amagama ezihlobo eziphilayo, ikakhulukazi abazali, futhi awazi ukweluleka. Okokuqala, izibonakaliso ziqinisekisa ukuthi umntwana osanda kuzalwa uzobamba ngokungahambisani amandla akhe ebusweni bakhe. Kukholelwa ukuthi ingelosi yokulondoloza etholakalayo egameni ngalinye ayikwazi ukubhekana nokuvikelwa kwamagceke amabili endlini eyodwa.
Izazi zengqondo zanamuhla ziqinisekisa ukuthi akunjalo. Nokho, bashukumisa izincomo zabo ngezinye izizathu. Ngakho-ke, kukholelwa ukuthi abafana abanamagama "kabili" njengoSergei Sergeevich, uMikhail Mikhailovich, u-Ivan Ivanovich bakhule bengenangqondo futhi banganeliseki. Futhi amantombazane asebebizwa ngokuthi amagama omama, akatholakali ukuthola ulimi oluvamile nabo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, amasiko amasiko aneluleka owesifazane, ebeletha kuphela kumadodakazi, ukubiza omncane ngegama lakhe. Baqinisekisa ukuthi kuleli cala indodana ezayo izozalwa.
Ngezinye izikhathi, lapho bekhetha igama, abazali balandela izinguquko zezombangazwe. Kubonakala ngokucacile "indalo entsha" ngokwemagama esikhathini sokuthunyelwa kwesikhathi. Abantu, bekhululekile esidingo sokubiza izingane ngokulandela imiyalelo yabapristi, baqala ukubanika amagama abhaliwe - izifinyezo: Vilor (a) - "UVladimir Ilyich Lenin Okthoba Revolution", uDazdraperma (Kuphile isikhathi eside kuMeyi 1), Oktyabrin (a). Kwabe sekufika uStalin, amaAfrika, uCangi.
Izingane zinzima ngamagama anjalo. Ngokuvamile igama elinjalo lifihla ngemuva kokuphila komunye, okungenakuzithoba. Futhi ngegama lesilisa "ifa" elinzima ngezinye izikhathi lidluliselwa esizukulwaneni esilandelayo. Zama ucabange ukuthi hlobo luni lwe-patronymic olutholakala kubantwana bakaTshintshi. Son - Changovic. Futhi indodakazi? Ungathanda ukuba ne-patronymic enjalo?
Yiqiniso, abazali bafuna njalo ingane ukuba igqoke igama elingavamile, noma elingavamile. Ikakhulukazi, uma bobabili isibongo kanye nomuntu ozobamba iqhaza befika encane enhle. Kodwa, lapho ukhetha igama elingavamile kwengane, ungathathwa yi-exoticism. Cabanga ngalokho okuzoba ngumntwana phakathi kontanga yakhe. Futhi abazukulu bakho - unenhlanhla?
Kukhona isimo esihlukile, lapho ukhetha igama lomntwana osalinde isikhathi eside, abazali balandela imikhuba yefashini. Futhi uma eminyakeni embalwa edlule iVoletta, uSnezhany, uKristina, uKarina babonakala ngaso sonke isikhathi, manje uZakharov, Akimov, Terentyev noMatveyev beza.
Le ndlela igcwele izinkinga zayo. Ingane enegama lingase ilizwe kabi, izithole lizungezwe ezinye izingane eziningi ezinegama elifanayo. Futhi uzobe, uma ucingo lakho egcekeni lizovula izingane eziyishumi?
Mhlawumbe indlela engcono kakhulu yokukhetha igama elifanele yengane ingqondo ejwayelekile. Okukhethwa kukho okuvelayo akuyona nje indaba yokucabanga, kodwa ukukhuluma. "Yiphule." Qondanisa ngegama eliphakathi, nesibongo. Yazisa igama eligcwele, nezinketho ezifingqiwe, namafomu othandekayo.
Umzuzwana obalulekile ezweni lanamuhla ukupela isipelingi igama egameni lamazwe ngamazwe. Cabanga ngekusasa lendodana yakho, ukuthi igama lakhe lizobuka kanjani ipasipoti yakhe. Izinkinga ezihlukahlukene zokubhala imisindo ethile yaseRussia zingandisa amathuba okuba amaphutha esikhathini esizayo ekulungiseleleni amadokhumende. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala sengathi igama elihle kakhulu lesiRussia igama elithi Sergei linganika inguqulo engathandeki yeSer gay ekubhaliseni kwamazwe ngamazwe.
Cabanga ngalokho okuhlangene onakho ngegama elithile. Uhlobo luni lomuntu owakhumbula uma uluzwa? Khumbula ukuthi izithombe ezivame ukuqonda kwakho emacinini egama lomntwana zizocelwa ekugcineni kwakhe. Ngakho, isibonelo, uma igama likaMarina lihlotshaniswa nesithombe sikaMarina Tsvetaeva, ungasheshi ukubiza indodakazi yakho kubo. Yiqiniso, le ntombazane inganikezwa isipho sezinkondlo sama-namesake. Kodwa ngokuvamile i-negative iyadluliselwa kalula. Kulesi simo, kungaba yinkinga yomuntu siqu, ubuhlobo obunzima nomama, nezingane zabo.
Ngisho noma ungakholelwa kuzinkanyezi nokubikezela, kufanele ufunde izincwadi mayelana nezincazelo zamagama. Sifuna noma cha, kodwa igama elikhethiwe lithonya ukwakheka komlingiswa wengane. Yeka ukuthi kuzoba kanjani - okulula futhi okuhlala noma okunamandla futhi okunamandla - kuxhomeke ikakhulu kwisinqumo sakho samanje. Ithonya lalo yilokho okushiwo nguwe ongufushane. Isibonelo, kuphawulwe ukuthi uVova noLaura bazinzima kakhulu futhi banenjongo kunabo ababizwa ngokuthi uVolodya noLely (noma uLyalya) ebuntwaneni babo.
Akunakucatshangwa ukuthi kunengqondo ukukhetha igama ngendlela yokukhipha izinketho, okuthiwa wonke amalungu omndeni. Isibonelo esicacile somphumela ongenakwenzeka singabhekwa njengesiqephu se-cartoon "Three kusuka Prostokvashino", lapho ithole lalizobizwa ngokuthi iTapot.
Ukunakekela kufanele kuthathwe ukusebenzisa amagama angabizwa ngokuthi abafana namantombazane. Ikakhulukazi ngokuhambisana nama-surnames angenayo. Isibonelo, uSasha Nechitailo noma uValya Petkun ngabafana noma amantombazane?
Uma ucabanga ukuthi ungakhetha kanjani igama elifanele lomntwana ku-patronymic, uzohlangana namathiphu amaningi nemibono. Konke kufanele kucatshangelwe. Ngemva kokunika igama igama, usuqaphele ngokuyinhloko isiphetho sakhe. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka ukuthi zonke izinketho ezicatshangelwe ngokucophelela ziwa shazi kusana olusanda kuzalwa. Kubonakala sengathi igama kufanele lihluke kakhulu. Uma kunjalo, methemba ingane yakho. Ungasheshi ukukhipha amadokhumenti: kuzothatha isikhathi esithile, futhi uzokutshela ukuthi ungayiqamba kanjani.