Omunye umehluko omkhulu phakathi komuntu kanye nabanye abamele umhlaba wezilwane yikhono lokukhuluma. Ngokwezinga lokuthuthukiswa kwenkulumo, umuntu angakwazi ngisho nokwahlulela ukuthuthukiswa kobuchopho bomuntu wonke. Ngakho-ke, abazali abaningi banesithakazelo lapho ingane kufanele iqale ukukhuluma. Okusho ukuthi, lapho imisindo nokuhlanganiswa okukhulunywe yingane kungase kubhekwe njengenkulumo. Ingane esanda kuzalwa, lapho elambile, lapho engakhululekile noma enokuthile okulimazayo, iqala ukumemeza, kodwa lokhu akuyona inkulumo. Phela, lokhu kuziphatha kujwayelekile, isibonelo, nenja, uma ingondli noma ingavali ekamelweni elingajwayelekile.
Ngakho iyini iminyaka evamile yezingane, lapho ungakhuluma ngokuqala komsebenzi wokukhuluma? Ngezansi kunezinqubo ezijwayelekile ezisetshenziswa ochwepheshe bezingane ukuhlola ikhono lomlomo lomntwana.
Ekupheleni kwezinyanga eziyisikhombisa, ingane iqala ukuveza amagama: yebo, yebo, yebo, nge-pa-pa-pa, njll. Uma ingane iphenduka unyaka, uqala ukubiza amagama amancane okuqala. Njengomthetho, lawa magama aqukethe isilawuli esisodwa. Ezinyangeni eziyisithupha kamuva, abazali bangazwa iziphakamiso ezivela kumntanakho ozoba namazwi amabili noma amathathu alula. Kuze kube yiminyaka emithathu yokuphila kukhona ukuthuthukiswa enkulumweni yengane, kanti nangeminyaka emithathu, njengombuso, ingane ingakwazi ukuchaza imishwana elula. Eminyakeni emine ingane ingakwazi ukwakha izinhlinzeko eziyinkimbinkimbi.
Kodwa-ke, kuningi "abantu abathulile" abafuni ukuqala ukukhuluma eminyakeni emithathu, nakuba laba bantu bengenayo izinkinga ngokuhlakanipha, noma ngezwi, noma ngosizo lokuzwa. Kungani lokhu kwenzeka? Yiziphi izimbangela ezivimbela ukubiza amagama? Kungaba nesizathu kubazali abaqonda ingane ngezwi lesigamu?
Umuntu uyisimo senhlalakahle. Inqubo yokufunda yenzeka ngokulingisa. Ngakho-ke, ingane isidinga ukuzwa njalo inkulumo futhi ihileleke kule nqubo. Lona iqiniso eliyaziwa kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, kwenzeka ukuthi ngisho nangenkhulumomphendvulwano njalo nengane, umntwana unenkani uyathula futhi akazami ngisho nanoma yimaphi amagama. Abaningi bangase bamangele, kodwa lokhu kwenzeka ngoba ingane ayikwazi ukwenza kanjani: isignali ayifuni ebuchosheni bayo emshinini wakhe wokukhuluma. Ingane izoqala ukukhuluma kuphela lapho indawo yokukhuluma inkulumo iqala ukwakha ekhanda lakhe. Isiphetho siyaziveza: ukuze umntwana akhulume, kubalulekile ukuthuthukisa le ndawo. Kodwa lokhu kungenziwa kanjani?
Uma ufunda ngokuningiliziwe izingxenye zobuchopho, ungabona ukuthi indawo yesithakazelo itholakala eduze nesayithi ehlinzeka ukuhamba komuntu. Eqinisweni, indawo ezithakazelisayo yingxenye yale sayithi. Ngakho-ke, ikhono lokukhuluma lixhomeke ekuthuthukiseni kahle amakhono emoto wengane.
Ososayensi baqhuba izifundo lapho kutholakala khona ukuthi kukhona ubudlelwane phakathi kwejubane lokukhuluma nokusebenza kwezingane, ngokunembile, ukuthuthukiswa kweminwe nezandla.
Ezinyangeni ezinhlanu, ingane iqala ukuphikisa isithupha kulo lonke. Into ayithatha kusukela manje, hhayi ngesandla sandla, kodwa ngeminwe yakhe. Ngemva kokuphelelwa yisikhathi kwezinyanga ezimbili, i-crumb iqala ukubiza ama-syllables wokuqala. Ezinyangeni eziyisishiyagalombili noma eziyisishiyagalolunye, ingane iqala ukuthatha izinto ngosizo lweminwe emibili, futhi ngonyaka angakwazi ukubiza amagama okuqala. Iminyaka yokuqala yokuphila komuntu ibonakala ngokuqondile ngokujwayelekile: ukuthuthukiswa ngeminwe, bese uthuthuka ekwenzeni inkulumo. Futhi akukaze kube ngenye indlela nxazonke.
Yini abazali okufanele bayenze ukuthi ingane ingakhulumi nhlobo noma iqala ukuyenza sekwephuzile? Impendulo iyaziveza - kubalulekile ukuthuthukisa amakhono amancane emoto wengane. Ngalokhu kudingekile ukwenza massage yeminwe, ukuba usebenze ngokubunjwa kusuka eplasini, ukudlala imidlalo yeminwe, ukudweba, ukuhlunga ama-groats, ukwenza ubuhlalu, ukugqoka izicathulo. Ungafundisa ingane ukuthi ibonise iminwe yakhe ukuthi ingakanani ubudala.
Kukhona ukuvivinywa okukuvumela ukuba unqume ngokunembile ukuthi ingane ikhuluma noma cha. Ukuhlolwa kuqukethe okulandelayo: isazi kufanele sibuze ingane ukuthi imbonise eyodwa, amabili, bese iminwe emithathu (ephindaphinda emva kwayo). Uma ukunyakaza kwengane kucacile futhi kuqiniseka, khona-ke ingane ikhuluma kahle.