Ezweni lanamuhla kunezinguquko ezinjengezikhathi ezithile ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi silahlekelwa yiqiniso lokuthi indlela yokuphila engokwenyama iphela ukuthola ukuqonda phakathi kwabanye. Kakhulu kunzima lapho lezi zinguquko zithinta izindinganiso zokuphila eziyisisekelo.
Lezi zimiso zihlanganisa, isibonelo, ukuzalwa kwengane. Esikhathini sethu, isimo sengqondo sabaseRussia esiya kumfazi okhulelwe senze ushintsho olukhulu, njengoba, ngempela, emhlabeni wonke. Abesifazane abaningi kakhulu bakhetha imigomo ehlukene yokuphila kunokukhulisa izingane. Benza umsebenzi, bahlanganyele ezemidlalo eziyinkimbinkimbi ngenjabulo yabo, bazijabulise futhi bahambe. Izingane ezikulesi sithombe sezwe ngokuvamile ziwumthwalo ongadingekile, okuvimbela ukujabulela ukuphila.Izindinganiso zokuzikhohlisa, ukuzikhethela kanye nobugovu zaphela ukuphazamisa abanye. Ngokuphambene nalokho, isifiso sokuzijabulisa kanye nenjabulo yomuntu siqu, hhayi ukudala umndeni oqinile, uye waba nemfashini phakathi kwezizukulwane eziningana zabantu abasha. Ekunciphiseni ukubaluleka kwengane empilweni yowesifazane, ukwehlukana komkhaya omusha onesizukulwane esidala nakho kuyathinta. Okumangalisa ukuthi lokhu kungase kubonakale, kodwa amasiko lapho abantu asebekhulile behlonishwa khona futhi behlonipha imibono yabo, bahlale bexhumana nabo, ukuzalwa kwezingane kubalulekile. Kwanele ukuvula amehlo ethu eChina, lapho isibopho esiqinile sezizukulwane sikhuthaza ukukhula kwabantu.
Zonke lezi zimo zanikela ekutheni isimo sengqondo sabaseRussia ezindabeni zokukhulelwa nokubeletha kushintshiwe. Manje izimo lapho ingane yokuqala owesifazane ethatha ezandleni zakhe akuyona into engavamile engumntwana wayo. Akazange afunde ukukhuluma nge-swaddle noma ukukhulumisana nosana ngokusibonelo kwabadadewabo nabafowabo, ngakho-ke kufanele afunde okuyisisekelo sokuhlakanipha komama kusuka ezincwadini, kumagazini kanye nasezihlokweni ezise-Intanethi. Akuyona into emangalisa ukuthi omagazini abaluhlaza ngokuphathelene nezingane nokukhulelwa baye bathakazelisa kakhulu emantombazaneni abasha: bafunda kulokho ababekujwayele ukufunda ezihlotsheni noma kubazali.
Naphezu kwazo zonke izinguquko ezenzeka emphakathini mayelana nezinkinga zokuzala, amanye amazwe angaba nomona ubuhlobo babantu baseRashiya kumuntu okhulelwe. Imali ngayinye inezinhlangothi ezimbili, njengoba nje kungekho okubi ngaphandle kokuhle. Omama abancane, abafundela kakhulu futhi bekwazi ukuthola izincwadi ngokukhulelwa nokunakekela umntwana, sebeye baqina. Manje owesifazane okhulelwe akaphathwa njengomuntu ogulayo, njengoba kwakunjalo ngaphambili. Umama wesikhathi esizayo angenza umkhuba wokuzivocavoca cishe aze azalwe, afunde ukushayela i-helicopter njenge-supermodel Giselle Bundchen, noma ukuphatha izicathulo ezintsha ze-ballet, njengo-Anastasia Volochkova. Lokhu ngokuqinisekile kube ushintsho oluhle esimweni sengqondo kumfazi okhulelwe, kuvumela abesifazane ukuba bangaphumi emphakathini obalulekile ebomphakathi obalulekile kubo. Futhi ngaphezu kwalokho, abacwaningi mayelana nekhwalithi yezinkinga zokubeletha kanye nabantwana ukuthi umsebenzi osebenzayo nokuzijabulisa ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kungathinta kangcono isimo sengqondo nengokomzimba wengane engakazalwa kunokuhlala ngaphandle kokuhlala ekhaya. Yiqiniso, uma kwenzeka umama wesikhathi esizayo ekwazi ukuzitholela izinto ezithandayo ezithandekayo nokuzijabulisa futhi akahlupheki izifo zomzimba. Manje igama elithi "ukukhulelwa okuqakathekileko" kuye kwaba yindabuko, egcizelela iqiniso lokuthi owesifazane wanamuhla, nakuba aqala ukubeletha kancane, ngokuvamile ufika kulo mcimbi othakazelisayo ngokwengeziwe ngokuziphatha, ngokwezezimali nangokwengqondo.
Inkinga ehlukile, ebalulekile kunoma yimuphi umama wesikhathi esizayo nemvelo yakhe, kuyinkinga yokufundisa ingane ezayo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abantwana abasebenza kaningi kaningi baba "izingane zikagogo." Ngakolunye uhlangothi, izazi ze-psychologists zithi ukukhuliswa kwezikhungo ezibizwa ngokuthi i-socialalization izikhungo kunomphumela omuhle ekuthuthukiseni ingane. Mane nje, uma umama esebenza futhi engafuni ukuyeka ukuzithokozisa kwakhe ngemuva kokuzalwa kwengane, lo mntwana uvame ukuxhumana nenani elikhulu labantu kusukela esigabeni sokuqala sokuthuthukiswa. Umama, ubaba, ugogokazi, ama-nannies eminyakeni yokuqala yokuphila, ke amaqembu ahlukahlukene okuthuthukiswa kwentuthuko, ama-mugs kanye ne-kindergartens avumela ingane ukuba ibe ngcono kulolu suku olusheshayo lwempilo yanamuhla. Njengoba ufunde izindinganiso zokuphila okusebenzayo ngobisi lomama, ingane enjalo kusukela ngesikhathi sokuzalwa isetshenziselwa izinhlobo ezahlukene zokuxhumana nezinhlobo ezahlukene zemisebenzi, ivela emibuthanweni ehlukene yokuxhumana, futhi ngaleyo ndlela ithola izinhlobo eziningi zokuziphatha. Indlela yakhe yokuphila kanye namagugu omama ayavumelana, ngoba kusukela ebuntwaneni akayena kuphela isibonelo sokulingisa, kodwa futhi namakhono okuphila komphakathi okusebenzayo.
Kunzima ukusho ukuthi isimo sengqondo sabesifazane abakhulelwe kanye nokuzalwa kwezingane kuzokhula esikhathini esizayo. Umlando ucebile kwizibonelo ezibonisa ukuthi ukuthuthukiswa kwalesi sondlo kuvunguza. Izindinganiso zomndeni zivuselelwa, bese zibuyela emuva. Ngakho-ke asikwazi ukuyibeka eceleni le nkambo yezenzakalo, lapho abantwana bezobuchwepheshe, beqonda impilo yabo kanye nobuntwana babo, bazokwakha isizukulwane sabesifazane namadoda okugxile ekwakheni umndeni onamandla kunokuba abazali babo banesithakazelo esihluke ngokuphelele.