Mhlawumbe, wonke umuntu angazakhela isithombe somuntu ofanelekayo wesifazane, kodwa cishe bonke abantu bayathandwa owesifazane obhekwa njengengenakulinganiswa, onolwazi, ohlakaniphile.
Okubaluleke kakhulu, umfanekiso wesifazane ongcono angathatha owesifazane onothando kuphela. Kusukela uma owesifazane engathandi umuntu, akanandaba nokuphila, ngoba konke okubukeka kumaconsi ama-grey nakho konke okuvela kulokhu kwenziwa kubi kakhulu. Futhi owesifazane othanda, okhanyisa amehlo, uthando lwenza lube mnandi, luthando, uthando lunikeza owesifazane ukuzethemba namandla.
Ngaphezu kwalokhu, lezi zidingo ezilandelayo zihanjiswe emfanekisweni wesifazane onomqondo omuhle: umnotho, ikhono lokupheka kahle, ukugeza, ukudala uzwela, ukunakekela izingane futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ungakhohlwa ngomfazi.
Owesifazane ongcono kufanele ajabule ukupheka ukudla okunomsoco ukujabulisa indoda yakhe. Ukufanisa isithombe sowesifazane ongcono womuntu wakho, udinga, ngaphandle komndeni, ukuzithandayo. Owesifazane kufanele agcine isibalo, ngaso sonke isikhathi athole isikhathi sokuzinakekela yena ngokwakhe. Ungahambi kumadoda ezinwele zezinwele, emasikini, egqoke izingubo zokugqoka ukotini futhi ungagqoki ilineni nhlobo, okungabangela ukuba kube nesifiso.
Ngokuqinisekile bonke abantu bafisa ukuthi owesifazane wabo wayekhohlisa, ubulili, ubulili, ngaleyo ndlela angaqeda impilo evamile. Owesifazane kufanele azethembe yena ngokwakhe, kufanele azibheke njengento ekhangayo, futhi ngokuqinisekile uzobukeka ekhangayo emehlweni abantu.
Wonke umuntu unelungelo lakhe lomuntu wesifazane, abanye banesithombe esithandekayo, esibucayi, esibukhali, ukuntuleka kwemikhuba emibi, ukunambitheka okuhle. Kwamanye amadoda, owesifazane ohloniphekile uba yinhlanhla engamkhawuli inkululeko, njalo enhle, enesithakazelo, emele, ehlakaniphile. Futhi, akudingi indoda yokuzinikela, ukwethembeka, kodwa ifuna ukuthandana, ukuvakashelwa, izimbali, izipho, ukuya ezindaweni zokudlela, amathiyetha, njll Njengoba bethi: yilowo nalowo uqobo lwakhe!
Kodwa namanje uveza futhi ugcizelele izici ezivamile zowesifazane okahle emehlweni endoda. Ungowesifazane omuhle, umama omuhle, umama-bhizinisi, inkosikazi enhle, inkosikazi enhle, umfazi othembekile.
Noma yimuphi owesifazane angakwazi ukuthuthukisa lezi zimfanelo. Noma yiliphi owesifazane lisho yonke into, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingcebo yomnotho, imfundo noma ukukhuliswa. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuqala ngokungathí sina futhi nsuku zonke ukugubha izinyathelo eziphambili ekuthuthukiseni, ukufingqa ngesonto lonke, ukucabangela isithombe sakho kumaphuzu amahle. Bonke abesifazane bayakwazi lokhu ... Yenza futhi uzophumelela!