Wake wake wazizwa ukuthi ulahlekelwe umuntu ongakaze uhlangane naye? Kwenzeka lapho inhliziyo iphupha ukuba igcwale uthando. Ngifuna ukuhlala ngilindele injabulo yomuntu, uthando kanye nezintandanekazi esiswini sami. Kunezibonakaliso ezibikezela umhlangano oseduze wothando. Hlola ngokucophelela! Mhlawumbe ezinye zazo ziye zenzeke kuwe noma zenzeka okwamanje, zibonisa ukuthi uthando lusondelene kakhulu.
AmaRoma othando
"Izimangalo eziqhamukayo" kuthiwa ungomunye wababikezeli abanothando kakhulu. Ngokushesha uthando luzofika enhliziyweni yakho uma:
- uzizwe iphunga elimnandi ngokungazelelwe, hhayi ejwayelekile yendawo, isimo, inkathi;
- iphunga alikho izinhlangano eziqondakalayo ezizwakalayo;
- akasazizwa nanoma ubani.
Isibonelo, ngaphandle kwefasitela kuyashisa ehlobo, futhi esikhaleni sakho siqu kukhona iphunga lomnyaka omusha wama-mandarins, izinaliti zephayini kanye nobusika. Ngosuku lwamaqhwa, ngokuphambene nalokho, lihlaba iphunga lensimu yezithelo zomswakama kanye notshani obotshiwe. Noma, ngokwesibonelo, ekhemisi, lapho kufanele uholele khona njengesibhedlela futhi oyinyumba, ungase uholele ushokoledi. Uma unomfutho omkhulu wephunga, iphunga ngokucophelela. Lokhu kuyisibonelo. Mhlawumbe, uthando luzokwenzeka kuwe ngaleso sikhathi, kule ndawo noma ngaleso sikhathi sonyaka, okubhekwa ngephunga elikukhohlisayo.
Thanda ngephupho
Ngokuvamile ingqondo engaqondakaliyo, ekwazi ukuthola ulwazi oluyimfihlo yendawo yonke, idalula kumuntu izimfihlo mayelana nekusasa lakhe ngamaphupho. Ulwazi mayelana nothando olusondela lungaphinde lufike ephusheni. Izimpawu ezilandelayo zisho ngokuhle kakhulu ngothando oluzayo: Indandatho yomshado. Akukhathaleki ukuthi kubonakala kanjani ngaphambi komphuphi - ngesimo sesipho, ukuthola, ukuthenga, njll. Kunoma yikuphi, le ndoda ibonisa uthando olusheshayo. Imicimbi ehambisanayo ephusheni ingabonisa izimo lapho kuzokwenzeka khona, ngubani ozokhethwa, ngabe uthando luyojabula yini. Izimbali ezibomvu. Inikeza uthando olugcwele uthando kanye nemizwelo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bazoba nomphumela omuhle, nokuthi ngabe uthando lwehhovisi lokubhalisa lizoholela, kuxhomeke esimweni sokulala. Kodwa iqiniso lokuthi kuyoba mhlophe, imizwa engakhohlwa, iziqinisekiso ezibomvu. Izimbali ezimhlophe. Ama-camomiles, iminduze yesigodi, iminduze, i-chrysanthemums, i-gladioli nanoma yiziphi ezinye izitshalo ezimhlophe ezimhlophe ezixwayisa ngokufika kothando. Njengomthetho, umbala omhlophe ubonisa ukwethembeka, ukwethembeka, ukuhlanzeka kwemizwa. Uma ubona izimbali ezimhlophe ngephupho, ungathembela ebuhlotsheni obuholela emshadweni, noma ekuthandweni kwe-platonic. Konke kuncike kubahlanganyeli kulophupho. Izimbali eziphuzi. Zivame ukuba izithunywa zokuhlukaniswa othandweni, okwakungakaze kwenzeke kalula. Futhi, lo mbala ungaxwayisa ngomhlangano ongenalutho noma umhawu, intukuthelo, ukungazethembi okuzokwenza ukuthi ukwehluleka kothando kube khona.
Inyanga. Inyanga egcwele, enkulu nekhazimulayo ithembisa uthando olungenakulibaleka kumphuphi. Inhlanhla ikakhulukazi othandweni kulabo abaphupha yenyanga esibhakabhakeni esicacile ubusuku obulandelayo ngokulandelana. Uma inyanga iqhuma noma iwela ezingxenyeni ezincane, kuyisibonakaliso esiqinisekile sothando olungathandeki. Ukukhanyisa ikhandlela. Ikhandlela lamakhandlela amaphupho ezenzakalo ezehlukene. Ubikezela uthando lapho egcinwe indoda futhi umema ukuba ahambe naye. Ngemuva kokulala nekhandlela, lalela imizwa yakho. Imizwa ejabulisayo nomfudumalo ofudumala kuwo wonke umzimba ufakazela ngenhloso enhle yokulala. Shintsha indawo yokuhlala. Ukuya endlini entsha, efulethini noma ezweni, kanye nokushintsha imisebenzi, ukulungisa, ukuthutha ifenisha kungafakazela izinguquko empilweni yakho siqu. Kusukela ekuhlangenwe nakho okuhlangenwe nakho ephusheni, kuncike ukuthi uthando luyojabula yini.
Izimpawu ezidumile mayelana nothando oluzayo
Sekuyisikhathi eside abantu abahlakaniphile beqaphele ukuthi ukuhlangana okuthile kwezimo kungasebenza njengesibonakaliso kanye nesandulela sezenzakalo. Izinto eziningi zisho ngothando olusondelayo. Kuyafaneleka ukulalela ukunakekelwa okukhulu kakhulu. Lungiselela ukuzwa imizwa yothando uma:
- bonke abangane, njengokungathi udibanisa, ukululeka ukuba uthole izinwele, ukulungiswa, ukuguqula izinwele zakho, nakuba babekuthanda ngaphambili. Lesi sibonakaliso sinesikhathi esidlule. Ibuyela emasikweni asendulo, lapho umakoti eshintsha ngokushesha izinwele zakhe ukuze aqiniseke futhi abe ngumfazi ngemva komshado;
- abantu abakuzungezile baqala ukukusola ngokukhulelwa okungekho. Konke ngoba bacabanga ukuthi ususwe kakhulu, omuhle, wesifazane, ngokuzikhandla uqondiswe kuwe. Lezi zimfanelo zivame ukuvelela abesifazane abakhulelwe. Ngakho-ke, abantu bafunda kuwe ulwazi mayelana 'nokuthwala' uthando oluzayo;
- hhayi inhlanhla ekugembula, ngakho-ke inhlanhla othandweni. Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ngoba uthando nokuthandana kusondelene kakhulu, futhi uma inhlanhla ishintshe emdlalweni, umuntu kufanele akulindele ngomzwelo omkhulu nokugqamile;
- Kukhona izihlobiso ezilahlekile. Lesi isibonakaliso esiqinisekile sendlela yokuhlangenwe nakho okunamandla kothando. Uma le ndoda-uthando ithatha ngomshado, amacici, kulonchiki, amaketanga athembise i-adventure engenakulibaleka yothando;
- kukhona uchungechunge lokuhluleka. Isibonelo: ekuseni ekuseni iwashi le-alamu alizange likhawule, ushise i-blouse yakho oyintandokazi nge-pantyhose ensimbi, ephukile, yaqhekeza isithende, waqhuma imoto ngodaka oluvela emgodini, njll. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuba ngokoqobo lapho owesifazane engekho enomusa kakhulu;
- i-apula iyanqamuka etafuleni noma iwa phansi ebhasikisini - uphawu oluphawulekayo kulabo abalinde uthando. Uphawu luka-Adamu no-Eva lubonisa uthando olusondelayo;
- kukhona ama-gypsies ahlabela emgwaqeni, i-cortege yomshado, amawele amahle. Yiqiniso, lezi zibonakaliso zisebenza futhi zixwayise mayelana neveli ezayo, uma isimo esivamile singenaso;
- itholakala ehhashi lomgwaqo. Ukutholakala okunjalo kuwuphawu lokuthola inhlanhla yemali kuphela, kodwa kubonisa uthando olujabulisayo.
- izinto ezisendleleni ezihlobene nothando noma umshado zisendleleni. Ungaqala ukubheka ukuhlambalaza, uma uthola ngengozi isimemo somshado somunye umuntu noma i-accessory elahlekelwa yashadile. Ukuxhumana okuthandanayo kuyohlatshwa futhi iphini noma izinwele ezitholakala emgwaqweni. Ukwenza uphawu ligcwaliseke, ungawaphakamisi futhi uwadle;
- wabamba isiqephu somshado somlobokazi - isibonakaliso esiqinisekisiwe seminyaka, intombazane engashadile ethanda umshado, ozokwenza umshado ube umqhele.