I-Primosta yokuqala : Ukuze ujabule, umakoti ngosuku lomshado kufanele akhale izinyembezi.
Njengoba wazi, umshado awulethe injabulo kuphela, kodwa futhi ukucindezeleka okujulile, ukuqeda lokho kuzosiza ukukhala, kodwa ukuphoqa ukuba usebenzise indlela yokuvikela umzimba ukucindezeleka akudingekile. Ngakho-ke, izinyembezi zezinyembezi zihlala nje isibonakaliso ... Ngempela, wonke umuntu unendlela yakhe yokubhekana nokucindezeleka, hhayi ngokukhala.
Isibonakaliso sesibili : Intsha ayikwazi ukuthwebula izithombe ngaphandle komunye nomunye, kungenjalo bayoba yingxenye.
Izinto kunalokho zihlukile. Uma ulandela othandekayo wakho yonke indawo, khona-ke uzokhathala kakhulu ngokushesha, okungaholela ngokushesha ekuhlukaneni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lapho ubone khona i-albhamu yomshado lapho kungekho isithombe sakho nabazali bakho nabangane bakho, yebo. I-albhamu enjalo iyanqamuka ibe nenani futhi iba yisithukuthezi futhi iyinhlonipho.
Isibonakaliso sesithathu : Ukunikeza omunye umuntu ukuba azame ngendandatho yabo yomshado - ukunikeza isiphetho sakhe kwesinye.
Kukhona abantu abanjengabacwaningqondo bezengqondo abachaza ngalendlela ngale ndlela: oshade naye ozayo uzobona intombazane enendandatho yakhe yomshado futhi uyaqonda ngokucacile ukuthi: "Angiyedwa kuphela, noma iyiphi intombazane engakwazi ukubamba le ndoda", futhi iqala ukuhawukela umyeni wayo kubangane bayo . Akukho lutho olubi kulokhu, into eyinhloko uthando futhi uthembele umyeni wakho.
Isibonakaliso sesine : Ungabeki phansi indandatho ngenkathi ubhalisa nasebandleni!
Lona uphawu oludumile kunazo zonke nasezintabeni ngaphambi komshado. Futhi nakuba izizathu zokuthi kungani le nkinga ingawela kakhulu, ukucwaninga ngabacwaningi bezenhlalo kubonisa ukuthi ezimweni eziningi umlobokazi ubeka umqondo wokuthi "uma indandatho iwile - konke kuzophela kabi," futhi ekugcineni kuyingxenye. Lapha umphumela wokusikisela okuzenzakalelayo usebenza, izazi zengqondo zithi.
Isibonakaliso sesihlanu : Ungashadi ngo-May, uma kungenjalo uzoba nekhulu "ukukhandleka."
Yiqiniso, ungashada ngenye inyanga, ukuze ugweme lokhu, kodwa yena ngokwakhe: isimo sezulu esifudumele, ukukhanya kwelanga nokukhanya okungcono kukaMeyi kuningi izikhathi ezingcono kunamaqhwa ebusika. Futhi, ngenxa yalokho, nezinkumbulo, emva komshado kaMeyi uzohlala efudumele futhi ekhanyayo. Ngakho-ke fakazela ukuthi le myane imane nje inganekwane, ushade ngoMeyi uphile impilo ende futhi ejabulisayo!
Isignesha Six : Ngobusuku ngaphambi kokugubha umkhosi, umakoti nomkhwenyana kufanele babanjwe ngokwehlukana.
Kubonakala sengathi lesi sibonakaliso sidalwe ukuze labo abasanda kushada babe nesithukuthezi, futhi ubusuku bokuqala bomshado badluliswa ngendlela efanele.
Isahluko Sesi-7 : Izipho ezinkulu zemali - uhambo lomshado.
Lapha ngakho konke kucacile. Ngokwezibalo, imibhangqwana eminingi isebenzisa izipho ezinkulu zemali ekuhambeni!
Isibonakaliso sesishiyagalombili : Uma ngesikhathi somshado ubheka amehlo esigamu sakhe sesibili, akathandi umzuzwana owodwa noma omunye wabo uqala ukushintsha.
Ungabheki kanjani emehlweni omuntu othandekayo, hhayi ukubukeka ubuhle bakhe? Ikakhulukazi ngesikhathi somshado?
Inothi 9 : Awukwazi ukugqoka ingubo ngokuvuleka. Futhi futhi ingubo emfushane ngaphezu kwamadolo.
Into yukuthi izimpawu zomshado zidalwa ngamakhulu eminyaka kulabo ababenobandlululo futhi besaba ukuhlangabezana nokuhluleka kulolu suku oluhle. Mhlawumbe ema-60s e-USSR kwakungeyona ngempela ukugqoka izingubo ezifana nalezi, kodwa manje isikhathi sesishintshile futhi inganekwane yafa, engafinyeleli emibonweni yabashadikazi bamanje.