Unyaka wesikhombisa wokuphila komntwana ukuqhubeka kwesikhathi esibaluleke kakhulu sokuthuthukiswa kwengane, okuhlala iminyaka emihlanu kuya kweyisikhombisa. Unyaka odlule ubonakala ngokuqhubeka nokwakhiwa kwezinhlangano ezingokwengqondo ezavela enganeni eminyakeni emihlanu. Noma kunjalo, ukuthunyelwa okulandelayo kwalokhu kukhishwa okusha kuyisisekelo sokwakha izimo zengqondo ezizosiza ekukhuleni kweziqondiso ezintsha kanye nemigqa yentuthuko.
Ukuze izingane ezincane zasenkulisa (iminyaka engu-6-7), zikhona izinguquko eziphawulekayo emzimbeni wengane. Lesi yisigaba esithile sokuvuthwa. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, izimo zenhliziyo nezishukela-ezithuthumayo zezinto eziphilayo zithuthuka ngokuqinile futhi ziqinisa, imisipha encane ithuthuka, izingxenye ezihlukahlukene zesimiso sezinzwa eziphakathi zithuthukisa futhi zihlukanise.
Futhi kubantwana balesi sizukulwane, ezinye izici zengqondo zentuthuko ziyisici. Zitholakala ekuthuthukiseni izinqubo ezihlukahlukene zengqondo nezengqondo, njengokucabanga, ukunakwa, ukukhuluma, ukucabanga, inkumbulo.
Ukunakwa sicela. Ingane yengane yasenkulisa ilawulwa ukunakwa okungenasidingo. Futhi ekupheleni kwalesi sikhathi, kunenkathi yokuthuthukiswa kokuzikhethela, lapho ingane ifunda ukuyiqondisa ngokucophelela nokugcina isikhathi ezintweni ezithile nezinto.
Imemori. Ekupheleni kwesikhathi sokuqala esikoleni, ingane iqala ukukhumbuza inkumbulo yokuhlola nokubonwayo. Enye yezindima eziyinhloko enhlanganweni yezinqubo ezihlukahlukene zengqondo iqala ukudlala imemori.
Ukuthuthukiswa kokucabanga. Ekupheleni kwesigaba sesenkulisa, ukukhula kokucabanga okubonakalayo kuyashesha futhi inqubo yentuthuko yokucabanga okunengqondo iqala. Lokhu kuholela ekusungulweni kwengane enekhono lokukhiqiza, ukuqhathanisa nokuhlukanisa, kanye nekhono lokunquma izici ezibalulekile kanye nezakhiwo zezinto ezisezweni elizungezile.
Ukuthuthukiswa komcabango. Umcabango wokudala uqala ekupheleni kwesikhathi sokuqala esikoleni ngenxa yemidlalo ehlukahlukene, ukuphelelisa nokukhanya kwezinto ezivezwe kanye nezithombe ezinikezwe, izinhlangano ezingalindelekile.
Inkulumo. Ekupheleni kwesikhathi sokuqala esikoleni, isilulumagama sabantwana sanda kakhulu futhi kukhona ikhono lokusebenzisa amakhono ahlukahlukene-okunzima kwegrama ekukhulumeni okusebenzayo.
Lapho uneminyaka eyisithupha noma eyisikhombisa yomsebenzi wengane kunomzwelo futhi ukubaluleka kokuphendula ngokomzwelo kwanda.
Ukwakhiwa kobuntu, njengengqondo yengane, ekupheleni kwesikhathi sokuqala esikoleni kuhlobene nokuthuthukiswa kokuzizwa komuntu siqu. Izingane ezineminyaka engama-6-7 kancane kancane zenza ukuzihlola, okuxhomeke ekuqaliseni ukuthi uphumelela kanjani umsebenzi wawo, ukuthi abaphumelela kanjani ontanga yabo, njengabafundisi nabanye abantu abazungezile bawuhlola. Ingane isakwazi kakade ukuziqaphela yona, kanye nesikhundla sakhe, esisebenzisayo kumaqoqo ahlukene - umndeni, phakathi kontanga, njll.
Izingane ezindala kunalesi sizwe zingase zivele zibonise, okungukuthi, ziqaphele umphakathi "I" futhi ngalezi zisekelo zidala izikhundla zangaphakathi.
Enye yezinhlelo ezintsha ezibaluleke kakhulu ohlelweni lokuthuthukiswa kwengxenye yomuntu siqu nengqondo yengane eneminyaka engama-6-7 eneminyaka engaphansi kwezinguquko, izisusa ezinjengokuthi "Ngiyakwazi", "Kumelwe" kancane kancane futhi kube ngaphezulu "Ngifuna".
Futhi kulesi sikhathi, isifiso sokuzimela ngokweqile ezindaweni ezinjalo zomsebenzi ezihlobene nokuhlolwa komphakathi kwanda.
Kancane kancane, ukuqwashisa kwengane ngo "I" yakhe nokwakhiwa kwezikhundla zangaphakathi ngalesi sisekelo ekuqaleni kweminyaka yobudala kuholela ekwenzeni izifiso ezintsha nezidingo. Yingakho umdlalo, owawuwumsebenzi oyinhloko wengane ngesikhathi sezinyanga zasenkulisa, kancane kancane unikezela isikhundla sakhe kulokhu, awukwazi ukuwugcwalisa ngokugcwele. Kunesidingo esikhulayo sokuhamba ngaphesheya kwendlela evamile yokuphila nokubandakanyeka emisebenzini ebalulekile emphakathini, okungukuthi, esinye isikhundla sezenhlalakahle samukelwa, esivame ukubizwa ngokuthi "isikhundla sezingane esikoleni," okuyiminye yemiphumela ebaluleke kakhulu kanye nemikhakha yokukhula kwengqondo nokuzimele kwezingane zangaphambi kwesikole.