Abazali abaningi bafuna ukuziqhenya ngempumelelo yamadodakazi abo omdala noma amadodana, ngoba lokhu kubalulekile ukucabanga ngokuthuthukiswa kwamakhono kubantwana kunoma iyiphi indawo. Udinga ukwenza lokhu ngaphambi kokuya ebangeni lokuqala.
Amakilasi enkulisa
Iningi labo omama nobaba banethemba lokuthi bazoqhuba ukuqeqesha okusebenzayo enkulisa. Ingane eya enkulisa, izobe isilungele esikoleni. Othisha bayomfundisa ukuthi ahlanganyele eqenjini, futhi futhi. Bahlakulela ingane yakho ngamabomu, kodwa ukuze bamnike ngesisekelo esihle, lokhu akwanele. Into ewukuthi enkulisa yezingane ezineminyaka emibili kuya kwemi-3 inikezwe isigamu sehora, kusuka ku-4 kuya ku-5 cishe ihora, kusuka ku-5 ukuya ku-6 cishe amahora amabili. Isikhathi sonke, abantwana badlala, badla, bahambahamba, baphumule.
Abazali basize
Abanye abazali bacabanga ukuthi uma bengenayo imfundo yokufundisa, ngeke bakwazi ukusiza izingane zabo nganoma iyiphi indlela. Bashiywa bodwa, bethembele othisha nabafundisi besikole. Isenzo sosizo abazali kudingekile, ngoba lokhu kudingeka wenze izinto eziningana:
- zama ukufundisa ingane ukuba ithande izincwadi, zama ukufunda okuningi kuye;
- sebenzisa isikhathi sakhe sokuphumula ngezinto eziwusizo ukuze angenayo isikhathi sokungasebenzi. Myeke akhonze, anqume, ahloniphe umklami, athole;
- kudingekile ukuba ukhulume naye ngezihloko ezihlukahlukene ezithakazelisayo kuye, uxoxisane ngezinkinga ongakwandisa ngazo umjikelezo wezintshisekelo zomntanakho;
- Fundisa ingane ukuba ibe nesibindi ukuze ikwazi ukugxila esimweni esithile;
- Mkhuthaze njalo ngazo zonke izindlela, umdumise ngomsebenzi owenze kahle.
Ukunquma amakhono wengane
Kukhona amacala lapho usafunda esikoleni, sekuvele sekusobala ukuthi ukhetho lo msebenzi luyingane, kodwa lokhu kwenzeka lapho abazali beqaphele amakhono akhe kunoma iyiphi indawo futhi baye baphonsela yonke imizamo ekwakhekeni. Isibonelo, ingane iqoqa kahle izilimi zakwamanye amazwe, bese imvumela abe ngumhumushi; iphumelela emidlalweni ehlukahlukene yemidlalo - elinde impumelelo yakhe emidlalweni, ithatha imiklomelo kwi-Olympiads yezihloko - ingaba usosayensi.
Kodwa kukhona nabazali abanjalo abangazi ukuthi bangazichaza kanjani futhi bahlakulele amakhono, bahole izingane zabo ezikoleni ezahlukene, imibuthano, kubafundisi abazimele. Ngenxa yalokho, ingane iqoqa ulwazi oluningi ekhanda lakhe ukuthi ayikwazi ukuyigcina, ngokomzimba ayikwazi ukubhekana nemisebenzi eyabelwe yona, futhi, njengomthetho, ayiphumeli impumelelo. Abazali bayalimala, basebenzisa umzamo omkhulu, imali, imiphumela yengane yabo cha. Ngalesi sisekelo, kumele silwele ukunquma ukuthi uzobonisa kuphi imiphumela emihle futhi sifinyelele impumelelo.
I-Heredity nayo idlala indima ebalulekile. Ingane eyakhulela emndenini lapho omunye wabazali kuyisigijimi kungenzeka nokuba abe ngumdlali wezemidlalo. Emndenini wabaculi, kunamathuba aphakeme ukuthi nawe unezindlebe eziphakeme kakhulu zomculo futhi uzolandela ezinyathelweni zabazali bakho.
Isidingo sokuvakashela imibuthano, isikolo somculo nezigaba
Udinga ukuvakashela ama-mugs nezigaba, kunezinto eziningi zokufundisa ingane yakho. Okokuqala, ikhono lokusebenza eqenjini. Ukudweba indlu kwenye akuyona into ethakazelisayo, akekho ozobuka, adumisa noma ahlasele. Ngiyakwazi ukuqoqa abangane ngokudumisa nokukhuluma.
Ama-mugs wokuvakasha, isikole somculo, isigaba, izingane zizofunda ukusebenza ngesineke nokubekezela. Ngesikhathi bonke abanye besilisa bezungeze, izakho zizoqeqeshwa noma zenze umculo, ukucula, njll.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ingane izofunda ukuqhathanisa izimpumelelo zabo kanye nabanye abantu, zihlolisise kahle. Ubaba nomama bathinta konke abantwana babo abakwenzayo: ubuciko, imidwebo. Umqeqeshi nomfundisi bayakwazi ukuwazisa ngempela, bayabona ukuthi yimiphi impumelelo yakhe. Izimpumelelo zizokwenza isifiso sokunqoba, isifiso sokuba namandla, isibindi, ukuhlakanipha.
Umsebenzi wabazali ngesikhathi sokubona ingane isifiso nganoma yimuphi umsebenzi, ngoba iningi labo linemingcele yobudala.