U-Elena Verbitskaya, uthisha.
Ngelinye ilanga, lapho ngivula igogo likagogo, ngathola incwadi endala enothuli. Wachitha isikhathi esingaphezu kwekhulu phakathi kwamaKhisimusi nePhasika. Yayiyincwadi enhle kakhulu yabesifazane. Ngabe bengingazi ukuthi kuyoba usizo kanjani kimi. Iminyaka eyikhulu kakhulu ishintshile, kodwa izifundo eziyinhloko zokuziphatha futhi zitholakala kule ncwadi.
Isifundo One
Intombazane yeqiniso kufanele inakekele ukubukeka kwayo njalo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yiyiphi imigomo engase ibe nayo.
Ngikhumbula isenzakalo umama womngane wami angitshele yona. Ku-dacha wakhe, lapho yena nendodana yakhe eneminyaka emibili beqedile khona ehlobo, uninazala, owesifazane onobuhle, wamvakashela. Umalokazana wagijimela e-veranda ukuze atshale uninazala esitokisini esihlanzekile, kodwa wamisa ngala mazwi: "Mngane wami, ungavumela ngempela indoda ukuba ikubone kule ngubo yokugqoka? Shintsha masinyane! Angakwazi ukungena. " Owesifazane osekhulile wayengenamahloni yilo mhlangano, ngoba waphoqeleka. Kodwa ukungahlehlisi kwefomu lakhe kwakubonakala kungamukeleki kulokhu, nakwezinye izimo.
Isifundo Two
Umhlobiso oyinhloko woboya besifazane. Ukushintsha i-hairdress kulandela kanye nendlu yangasese, ngokusho kwesimo sezulu, isikhathi sosuku, inkathi noma imizwa.
Inhloko ehle kufanele igcinwe usuku lonke. Ukuze wenze lokhu, vele uboshe izinwele zakho kaningi. Kodwa ikhanda elihle akuyona impela. Ekuseni, izinwele ezigqoke kahle zihle, kusihlwa - zibeke ngokukhululekile. Ngokuvamile, i-hairdo ingashintshwa izikhathi eziningana ngosuku, uma unayo ngalesi sikhathi. Khumbula nje: akufanele neze uhlanganise izinwele zakho emphakathini - hhayi endaweni yomphakathi, noma ekhaya.
Umngani wami ukhuluma ngaye kanje: "Ngivuka ngehora lesithupha elidlule ukuze ngithole isikhathi sokuzilungiselela - ukwenza lula ukwakheka kanye nezinwele. Kodwa kanjani enye? Angikwazi ukubonakala ngokubonakala komuntu omncane ngaphambi komalokazana omncane! "Muva nje ngafunda ukuthi lo wesifazane waphenduka iminyaka engu-86 ubudala, nomalokazana wakhe omncane - iminyaka engu-61. Akukuhle yini ukubona impilo?
Isifundo Sesithathu
Owesifazane ohloniphekile kufanele ashintshe okungenani izikhwama ezingu-7 ngosuku: ekuseni, kwasekuseni, ngezinyawo nokuvakashelwa, kwasemini, ntambama, kusihlwa nasebusuku. Ngokusho izingubo, izingubo eziyisikhombisa izingubo nezinguquko eziyisikhombisa zezicathulo, kuhlanganise nezicathulo zesikhombisa.
Kulungile lokho, uzothi. Kodwa ake sithathe lesi sincomo esingakwenzi, kepha ngobuhlakani. Ngempela, into esemqoka ukuhlakanipha nokusha. Ngakho-ke, ungahambi ngaso sonke isikhathi ngento efanayo, ungagqoki ama-slippers ahlahliwe kanye ne-apron e-greasy, ube ne-plate plate ehlanzekile nawe, noma amabili: enye yebhizinisi, enye enye esikhwameni sesitokisi. Kubesimanje besifazane, ngizokukweluleka ukuba ukhohlwe ngesembatho noma ukhumbule ekuseni kuphela ngaphambi kokulala. Ukuhamba nxazonke zendlu kukhululekile kakhulu emgqeni wekhaya noma emabhantshi.
Kungaba kuhle kakhulu ukufunda kubantu bekhulu elidlule isiko lokushintsha ukudla. Ukudla kusikhathi esiphezulu sosuku, i-harbinger yobusuku obuhle. Ngezimpelasonto, wonke umndeni ubuthana etafuleni lokudla. Izambatho ezinhle, iphunga elimnandi lephunga elimnandi lidala isimo esiphezulu esidlweni sakusihlwa, esilondolozwe kuze kube sekupheleni kosuku. Ngenxa yezifo ezinjalo ugogo nomkhulukazi babekwazi ukuhlala bekhululekile empilweni yansuku zonke, hhayi ukuba bangene kuwo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amasiko amahle akhonza ukuqinisa ukuzethemba, ukuletha abantu eduze. Ezintweni ezincane kangaka, isiko lobuhlobo bomndeni lugcinwa.
Ngizokunikeza isibonelo esivela emlandweni, osebenza njengesilinganiso kimi. UMnuz MN Volkonskaya, umkaDemembrist SG Volkonsky, waya kumyeni wakhe emsebenzini onzima eSiberia, akazange ashintshe imikhuba yakhe. Akazange avele emphakathini ngaphandle kweglavu nesembozo.