Esinye sezici ezisemqoka nezibaluleke kakhulu kuleso simo kuyoba isifiso sokufunda ngocansi nokuthola ukwaneliseka esikhathini esingaphansi kwasekuqaleni kunathi. Ngegama elithi ubulili sisho konke okwenzekayo emphakathini, emzimbeni nasenkingeni, ngokusekelwe ekuneliseni isifiso sobulili. Kodwa hhayi ngaso sonke isikhathi umuntu ulungele ukusebenzisa lesi sipho ngokugcwele, ngakho-ke ngokobulili udinga ukuvuthwa ngokwengqondo nangomphakathi.
Ukuziphatha kwethu ngokocansi kuthintwa yizici eziphilayo, ezenhlalakahle nezingokwengqondo - zibophezele izimbangela ezinkulu ezingokwengqondo zokuxhumana ngokobulili zakuqala. Kuyizinto eziphilayo, sibandakanya, isibonelo, izinga lamahomoni alawula ukuziphatha kwethu, ukuthuthukiswa komzimba kanye nezibonakaliso eziyinhloko zobulili bethu. Izimo zenhlalakahle zizofaka yonke imvelo yomuntu, indawo yakhe yomphakathi, umndeni, imigomo yenkambiso yakhe nenkolo yakhe. Izici zengqondo ziwukucabanga komuntu osemusha, ukuqonda kwakhe nemizwa yakhe, okuvela kuyo ukuthi izimbangela zengqondo zokuxhumana ngokobulili zakuqala zilandela.
Intsha iyinkinga enzima kakhulu ekuphileni komuntu wonke. Lesi yisikhathi lapho sizivula khona, senza indlela ukusuka komntwana kuya komuntu omdala, sifunda leli zwe futhi sizitholele kulo, siqaphele ukubaluleka kwethu nendima yethu. Abasha, ngokuvamile, bahlale behlukunyezwa ngokubandlulula kwabo, ngezikhundla zomuntu omdala kanye nengane ekhanda labo, bafuna indlela efanele yokuphuma ezimo ezihlukahlukene, bafunde ukuhlala. Kunezinkinga ezihlukahlukene, kuhlanganise nenkinga ngokuzihlonipha. Ezimweni eziningi, ukuzethemba kwezingane ezincane kuyashintsha futhi kungagxuma kusuka phezulu kuya phansi. Izinkinga ngokuzihlonipha zisinika esinye sezimbangela zengqondo zakuqala ngokocansi.
Intombazane ingasebenzisa ucansi ngenhloso yokuziqinisa, ngoba ngale ndlela iyoba namandla kakhulu phakathi kwabangani, ekhulile kakhulu, azibonakalise ukuthi ibalulekile, avule amathuba amasha. Umuntu onokuzihlonipha okukhulu uzoqondiswa ukuvunyelwa, ngoba umuntu onesizotha esilahlekile ukuphatha, ngakho-ke omunye umuntu uzokwazi ukuthumela ukwaneliseka ngaphandle kokuhlupheka okukhulu. Izisulu zabo azikwazi ukuthi "cha", zenqabe isiphakamiso esingadingeki.
Lapha, futhi, isizathu esibalulekile ukwesaba okungaziwa, futhi enye yezindlela eziphumelelayo zokubhekana nayo ukuzama wena. Uma, ngesibonelo, wesaba i-monster ehlala ngaphansi kombhede ebuntwaneni bakho, ngokuqinisekile ungazama ukulwa nawe, kunzima ukulala ubusuku bonke, kodwa ungabheka ngaphansi kwengubo futhi ubone ukuthi akekho omunye lapho futhi uyozizwa uphephile ngokushesha . Ubuhlobo bocansi bungenza njenge-monster, futhi isixazululo kuphela ngezinye izikhathi kubonakala sengathi uzama wena futhi uqiniseke ukuthi akukho lutho olwesabekayo kulokhu, ukuwela umugqa owesabayo.
Ungakwazi ukuwela umugqa hhayi nje ngenxa yesizathu esinjengokwesaba, kodwa futhi ngenxa yesithakazelo. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ngesikhathi sokuguquka kuqala ukuthuthukisa inqwaba enkulu yamahomoni, kwandisa isifiso socansi, umuntu uyazi ukuthi ubulili bakhe futhi adinga ukwanelisa isifiso sakhe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isihloko sezocansi siyacasha kancane futhi sithandwa kakhulu, abezindaba basinikeza izingcaphuno ezivela ezithombeni ezithandwayo zobulili, ukukhanga ekuphileni okufanayo, ukubeka imigomo emisha nokuningi.
Kusukela kulokhu kulandela ukulungiswa kokuziphatha komphakathi wonke, amathoni amasha kanye nemithetho yokucindezela inkinga yengqondo yengane, amxhaphaze, amqhubekele ezinqumweni ezenzakalelayo futhi ezilungisiwe, izinhlobo zokuziphatha ezijwayelekile. Intshisekelo ezungezile akuyona into engavamile, ephoqa abantu ukuba bathathe isinyathelo esinqumayo.
Izimbangela zemiqondo yobuhlobo bobulili bokuqala nazo zizobangela izimbangela ezithintekayo nezomzimba, okungukuthi: ukukhulelwa kwentsha, ukusheshisa kwayo kwentsha. Esikhathini esidlule, ubudala besandulela ngculazi buyeza, amahomoni amaningi akhiqizwa futhi isithakazelo kobulili obuhlukile bukhula. Intuthuko engalawuliwe iholela ekuziphatheni kocansi ekuqaleni, ukuvumela ukulwa nokufuna ukwazi. Kulokhu, uthando luvame ukubonwa njengothando, izinkomba zakhiwa ngokushesha noma kamuva ziqaphela futhi ziyaqedwa, futhi indawo yabo isikhathi eside ihlaselwe yingqondo.
Nakuba kwezinye zezici zokuziphatha ezivuthiwe, ezentengiswaneni nezenhlalakahle, imbangela yobuhlobo bomzimba kungaba uthando ngempela, ngakho-ke asikwazi ukulawula lesi sici, okuyizinto ezingavamile.
Ngenxa yezizathu ezingokwengqondo, kungenzeka ukuba ufake into ehamba phambili. Lokhu kuyimfundo engacabangi, engenasici noma engekho enganeni yezingane. Kwabancane, kungaba buhlungu ukwenza njengokuvunyelwa ngokobulili, ukungakhathaleli le nkinga, nemithwalo eminingi yemingcele, ubunzima, ngaphandle kwesihloko sobulili, umqondo emndenini wakhe mayelana nobulili njengento engcolile futhi engamukeleki ngokujwayelekile.
Fundisa intombazane kule ndawo kufanele ilungile. Okokuqala, ukwethembeka nokuvuleka kubaluleke kakhulu lapha. Ungathuli, uphinde uhumushe ingxoxo kwenye isihloko. Akudingekile ukwethula ukuvinjelwa kwamazwi wesayensi yezocansi ezisebenzisayo. Ukuphelela nokucaca kwezincazelo kuzobaluleka, ulwazi luningi futhi luqondakala. Izingxoxo ngezihloko ezifanayo, ukuxoxisana ngokocansi endaweni ekhululekile kuyoba usizo kakhulu. Ukuze lokhu kwenzeke, sidinga izinga elizinzile lobuhlobo nokuqonda emndenini.
Kodwa-ke, naphezu kokuthi isizukulwane ngasinye isikhathi sokuxhumana okuqala ngokomzimba siyancipha, futhi intsha icindezelwa ukungafani okuhlukile, futhi abangane "abaphambili" babeka imibandela nemithetho yabo, nendima ebalulekile ekugcineni iyodlala ekukhuliseni nasekuthuleni kwangaphakathi komuntu. Uma ingane isenenkinga yengqondo futhi izothola izixazululo kwezobudlelwane bocansi, lokhu kuzokwandisa inkinga yangaphakathi kuphela. Lapho intsha ingenayo izinkinga ezinkulu kanye nokuphikisana, uhlala ngokuvumelana naye, ubuhlobo obuseduze abuza ngokuzenzekelayo, kodwa ngokucophelela nangesikhathi esifanele.