Ziyini izimpawu? Isibonakaliso ngumcimbi okwenzeke komunye umuntu oqondakalayo ngabahlali, kodwa ekugcineni walahlekelwa incazelo yalo yokuqala. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, konke lokhu sekuphenduke izixwayiso, ukuziphatha nokuvinjelwa. Iningi lomshado osemdala kanye nezinkolelo-ze kuhloswe ukuvikela inyunyana yezinhliziyo ezimbili zothando, okubhekwa njengingcwele kuzo zonke izizwe zomhlaba wethu.
Isibonelo, uma ekuseni ngosuku lomshado umkhwenyana nomakoti noma izihlobo zabo bahlasele isisindo, khona-ke lokhu kuyinhlanhla. Futhi, imvula noma iqhwa, elaqala ngosuku lomshado, lithembisa abantu abasha injabulo nomcebo.
Ukwenza umshado ujabule, umakoti uyalulekwa ukuthi abeke isibuko esincane ngaphansi komcamelo ngehora lomshado, bese ebeka ingubo ebusuku ebusuku.
Ngubani ongowokuqala osemncane ukufaka ithawula ehhovisi lokubhalisa, esakazwa ngufakazi, uzoba yinhloko yomndeni.
Uma ngesikhatsi umkhosi obhaliwe ehhovisi likababhalisi isandla sesobunxele sasesandleni sokunxusa sasihlanganisiwe - ukuba sibe nesicebo, uma kukhona okulungile - indlu yakhe entsha izohlala igcwele izivakashi.
Abantu abasha banqatshelwe ukugqoka noma yikuphi ukuhlobisa. Kufanele zihlotshwe kuphela izindandatho zomshado - ezibushelelezi, ngaphandle kwamatshe kanye nokucatshangelwa, ukuze impilo yomakoti ibushelelezi, ngaphandle kwezinkinga nezinkinga.
Ngaphambi kokungena endlini, abantu abasha kufanele baphule ipuleti, nasehhovisi lokubhalisa - ingilazi, lapho i-champagne yomshado idakiwe khona. Lesi senzo kufanele silethe injabulo nokuchuma kwindlu esanda kushada.
Endlini entsha umlobokazi umyeni omncane kufanele alethe ezandleni. Uma lo mfana ehlala endlini yomkhwenyana, umkhwezala noninazala bazohlangana nalabo abasanda kushada esangweni. Umkhwekazi kufanele anikeze umakoti ingilazi yewayini noma ubhiya, futhi uninazala kufanele afake umshayeli omusha osanda kushada bese ephonsa izintambo ngaphansi kwezinyawo zakhe. Ikhekhe elifihliwe "abasanda kushada" kufanele badle ngokulingana phambi kwetafula lomshado, iwayini noma ubhiya - uphuze ngesigamu. Konke lokhu kwenziwa ukuze abantwana baphile impilo yabo bonke othandweni, ingcebo nokuvumelana.
Ngaphambi komkhosi, emva komkhosi ehhovisi lokubhalisa, indoda ehlonishwe kakhulu emndenini kathathu ibamba intsha emkhatsini wetafula lokugcoba, ekhombisa lokhu kuxhumana okungokomoya okuphakade phakathi kwendoda nomkayo.
Ukuqinisekisa ukuthi abantu abasha bahlala benemali emakhaya abo futhi bahlala ekuchumeni, bafaka imbewu ezicathulweni zabo, futhi lapho bephuma ehhovisi lokubhalisa, bafafaza irayisi noma ukolweni, bavele bephefumula, badonsa (baphile ngokujabula nangokuvumelana), amaswidi, izinhlamvu zemali.
Ngosuku lomshado, umakoti kufanele akhulume, ukushada ujabule.
Imikhumbi embhede wabashadayo ihlelwe ngezingxenye ze-pillowcases ekuqondeni komunye nomunye, ukuze umakoti nomkhwenyana baphile ndawonye yonke impilo yabo, kahle.
Ngemva kokushiya isakhiwo se-REGISTRY OFFICE (isonto), umakoti kufanele abuyele kuwo wonke amantombazane angashadile abamenywe emshadweni, bese ephonsa izimbali phezu kwekhanda lakhe. Intombazane ethatha izimbali izoshada maduzane. Umkhwenyana uphonsa i-garter engasetshenzisiwe yomlobokazi ekuqondeni kwamakhoradi akhe angashadile. Umfana owabamba i-garter ngokushesha uzoshada. Uma ufuna ukushada masinyane, uzosizwa ngokuthinta izindandatho zomshado zabasha.
Izinsuku ezingcono kakhulu zemishado ziMgqibelo nangeSonto, kanti isikhathi esihle kakhulu sosuku yingxenye yesibili yosuku.
Awukwazi ukwabela umshado ngo-13. Futhi izibonakaliso ezimbi: yindandatho yomshado ewonakele, isibuko esiphukile, amagilavu alahlekile, ingubo yomshado egqoke imilenze. Zama ukungena ku-puddle.
Abantu abasha abakwazi ukuzitholwa eceleni emshadweni, akufanele banikeze indandatho yakhe yomshado kunoma ubani omunye. Awukwazi ukugqoka izimbadada emshadweni, kanye nobucwebe (ubucwebe kuphela buvunyelwe), ungagqoki amaparele - izinyembezi. Etafuleni, zama ukuqapha, zama ukuchitha noma yini. Kukhona isibonakaliso esidala kakhulu: ngesikhathi sedili, labo abasanda kushada kufanele baphazamise imilenze yabo noma babeke izinyaweni zabo - ukuze ekuphileni komndeni ikati elimnyama lingasebenzi phakathi kwabo. Ngenxa yalokhu, abantu abasha kufanele bahlale ngokuqinile ngangokunokwenzeka phakathi kwabo.
Awukwazi ukuvumela izintombi zakho zigeze izitsha emshadweni (vumela abasebenzi besondlo bakwenze).
1. Umakoti nomkhwenyana, lapho belethwa ebhokisini lesonto, kumele babambe isikhulu bese bethi: "Kwangathi zonke izinsizi nokugula kwethu kungahambi nathi emgqeni, kodwa sihlale kuwe, i-iron brace." Kubantu bakholwa ukuthi i-iron brace iheha zonke izinto ezimbi, inikeza ikusasa elikhanyayo kulabo abasanda kushada.
2. Lapho izigqoko zigqoke abantu abasha, futhi umpristi wathi: "Inceku kaNkulunkulu ihlotshiswe kanjalo," khona-ke umkhwenyana kufanele awele futhi athi: "Mina, inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama), sishadile, kodwa ukugula kwami akukhona."
3. Yikuphi kulabo abasanda kushada ngesikhathi sekhandlela lomshado kungase kube yinkinga yokukhishwa, bese kuqala ukushiya impilo.
4. Kunqatshelwe ukubheka umakoti nomkhwenyana womunye nomunye ngesikhathi somshado, futhi uma besabheka (ikakhulukazi emehlweni) - abathandani noma omunye umuntu uzokwenza ukuhlukunyezwa emshadweni.
Izivakashi akufanele zinikeze abashadile izinto ezilandelayo: ama-roses abomvu, amafoloko, izinkezo, imimese, izingubo zangaphansi. Awukwazi ukuza emshadweni ngezambatho ezimnyama, uwele emgwaqweni ukuya kwabasha uma beya ehhovisi lokubhalisa noma esontweni. Uma ubona umshado ugoqa emgwaqweni - kunalokho thola inkinobho - ngenhlanhla.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi kuzothatha okuningi futhi akunakwenzeka ukuzigcina. Khumbula, uphawu olubaluleke kunazo zonke lomshado ukuthi uma amehlo omlobokazi nomkhwenyana ekhanya ngomlilo othulile wenjabulo, uma ubuso babo bubhekeke ngothando komunye nomunye, futhi konke okuzungezile kukhanyiswa ukukhanya okufudumele kothando, ke, ngenhlanhla, akukho zibonakaliso eziyoba yisithiyo.