Sekuyiminyaka engamashumi amabili edlule labo abangazange basebenze, kwakungokwesiko ukubiza ama-parasites. Namuhla, ngenhlanhla, akekho ozocabanga ngokulahla owesifazane ohlala njalo ekhaya. Futhi izizathu zalokhu zingahluka kakhulu. Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yiziphi izimo ezithile, bonke abaninikhaya, ngokushesha noma kamuva, babhekene nezinkinga ezihlobene nokuxhumana, ukulahlekelwa kwamakhono obuchwepheshe, imizwa ephansi.
I-pink-cheeked baby
Le ngxenyana encane ehlaziyekile, imilenze ehlabayo emangalisa kanye namapeni, isibe yindawo enhle yokuphila kwakho. Ngaso sonke isikhathi unamathele ekukhathaleleni okungapheli ngaye. Ngenxa yalokho, ibinzana lakho elilodwa, elikhulunywe ngalolo suku, liyisibambiso esifushane kumyeni obuya emsebenzini. Ngemuva konyaka wokuhlala okunjalo, uyaqaphela ukuthi isilulumagama sakho sesomile kakhulu futhi sishintsha emibhalweni ethile ethi "bu-bu", "a-ta-ta" ne "agu". Phakathi kwengxoxo yocingo nomngani, uzikhawulela emisho elula, futhi ngisho nezimpendulo ze-monosyllabic "yebo-cha." Futhi i-stupor engalindelekile ifika lapho, ngemuva kokuhlala enkampanini enobungane, ngandlela-thile awukwazi ukusekela ingxoxo. Futhi ukwesaba ukuxhumana. Uyesaba ukuphazamisa okuthile okungahambi kahle futhi ubonakale ungenangqondo.
Iyini inkinga: Ukulahlekelwa amakhono okukhuluma nokunciphisa amagama okubambisana ngenxa yokuntuleka kokuxhumana.
Isixazululo: Ungalahlekelwa isitoreji esidala samagama kuzosiza ukufunda izincwadi zakudala noma ukufunda olunye ulimi. Ngesikhathi umntwana esalele, uzokwazi ukunqoba amakhasi amaningana encwadi ethakazelisayo.
Noma kunjalo, akukho lutho olukwazi ukushintsha ukuxhumana okuphilayo. Ngesikhathi sisemtholampilo noma endaweni yokudlala, bheka nxazonke. Ngokuqinisekile kuyoba nomama omningi oseduze, ngubani oyojabula ukushintshanisa amagama nomunye umuntu. Kungcono ukuvumelana nabanye babo mayelana nokusizana okufanayo futhi ngezikhathi ezithile "ukuthatha" amahora ambalwa kuzo zonke izinyoni ukuze abanye bahlale phansi bexoxe ngendebe yetiyi. Le ndlela ikuvumela ukuba ubulale izinyoni ezimbili ngetshe elilodwa: ngenkathi omama bexoxa izindaba, izingane zabo ziqonda amakhono okuqala omphakathi wokuxhumana.
Ngentando yesiphetho
Ngezinye izikhathi umuntu uzibophezela endlini ngaphandle kokuzikhethela kwakhe, kodwa ngenxa yezinkinga zempilo. Isimo esivamile: owesifazane osemusha waphoqeleka ukuba asebenzise izinyanga ezimbili cishe ngaphandle kokushiya indlu, ngemuva kokuthola ingxabano enzima kakhulu. Ukuzibandakanya okungeziwe kwakhiwa iqiniso lokuthi odokotela bamvimbela okwesikhashana ukufunda nokubuka i-TV. Ukuxhunyaniswa kuphela nezwe langaphandle kwakuyifoni nomama, owamlethela ukudla emva komsebenzi. Ngemva kwesonto, wazizwa engajabuli ngokuphelele futhi waqeda ukuphila.
Iyini inkinga: Ukuzihlukanisa nokuphoqeleka kokuxhumana.
Isixazululo: Okokuqala okumele ukwenze ukugxila ekutheni uphinde ulawule yonke imicabango ecindezelekile. Ukubona ukugula njengethuba lokuphumula nokuqoqa imicabango yakho. Ukuphoqeleka "okulula" kungashintsha ekunqobeni kwesikhathi esizayo. Zihlele iqembu lokusekela. Unganqikazi ukucela abangani bakho usizo. Kodwa bangabangani ukuba babe nathi ngenjabulo nangokudabuka. Ngemuva kokukhala bonke abangani bakho, ngeke ube ne-hangout kusuka kuzivakashi. Ngenxa yalokho, uzoya ekuchibiyweni ngokushesha kunalokho okubikezelwa odokotela.
In flight free
"Kungani ngingenzi ukusebenza ekhaya?" Lo mbuzo uvame ukubuzwa ngabaqambi, izintatheli, abahumushi kanye nabamele abanye "imisebenzi engaphandle". Futhi-ke kufika inkululeko ekulindelwe isikhathi eside: usukuma, uma ufuna, usebenza uma kunesimo sengqondo. Kubonakala sengathi usuku luhlala isikhathi eside futhi konke kungenziwa. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi izinto eziyinqaba zenzeka empilweni ye-freelancer. Isibonelo, uhlala ekuseni ukuze ikhompiyutha isebenze, futhi kamuva kusihlwa ubona ukuthi ukuhlola iposi, ukuxhumana ku-ICQ nokubeka amazwana kubhulogi babanye ngenxa yesinye isizathu kuthatha usuku lonke. Kuseduze kuya phakathi kwamabili, kufanele uzibophe indebe yekhofi bese usebenza kuze kube sekuseni, uzifungise futhi uthembisa ukuthi "lokhu akuphinde kuphinde"!
Okunye okukwedlulele, lapho abaculi bamahhala besiteleka khona, kusebenza ngaphandle kwezinsuku namaholide. Lapho imiyalo enenzuzo ihlanganiswa ngokulandelana, kungaba nzima ukusho "yeka." Futhi abantu bavame "ukukhohlwa" ngokuphumula, ukuxhumana nabangane nezihlobo. Unqamula ukuphila kwangaphandle, uyeke ukuba nesithakazelo kulokho okwenzekayo nxazonke.
Iyini inkinga: Ukuhlehliswa kwezindaba ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ukungabi nhlangano, ukuzwa ukuthi isikhathi "irayibhafu", noma, ngokuphambene, ukungakwazi ukudweba umugqa phakathi komsebenzi nakho konke ukuphila.
Isixazululo: Into elula kunazo zonke ongayenza kule nkinga ukwenza ngezikhathi ezithile izinhlelo. Futhi uhlu lwamacala kufanele kube kokubili isikhathi esifushane (sekusasa, ngoLwesihlanu esiseduze) kanye nesikhathi eside (ukulayisha imiyalo yenyanga noma ezimbili phambili). Ngaphezu kwalokho, kubalulekile ukwenza umthetho ukuba wenze izinto eziphuthumayo futhi ezibalulekile ekuqaleni kokuqala futhi ungaqali ezinye ngaphambi kokuba ziqede. Lokhu kuzogwema wonke umsebenzi nokulala ebusuku. Ngokuvamile ukuxhumana nabangani bukhoma, ngakho-ke uzolwela ukwesaba ngaphambi kwenkulumo.
Abenzi bokuzithandela ngentando
Abanikazi abathokozile bamadoda abacebile namathuba okungazisebenzeli nhlobo, ngokumangalisayo, kuzo zonke izigaba zabesifazane basemakhaya basengozini kakhulu kwengqondo. Ekuqaleni impilo ibonakala njengeholide eliqhubekayo! I-salon enobuhle, iklabhu yokuzivocavoca, ingxoxo nentombazane e-cafe - yilona usuku olwedlule. Kodwa ngokushesha iqala ukuzala. Ngicabanga engqondweni yami. Ikakhulukazi uma ubheka abangane abasebenza, izimpumelelo zomsebenzi oziqhenyayo. Kusukela ngaphansi komhlabathi kubonakala sengathi kukhona umhawu ongenangqondo futhi kunzima kakhulu. Ngemuva kweminyaka embalwa yokuphila okunjalo kunezinkinga zokukhulumisana, ubudlelwane bomndeni buya phansi.
Iyini inkinga: Ukuzethemba okuphansi, ukunganeliseki kwangaphakathi.
Isixazululo: Zicabange njengento yokuzilibazisa okuthakazelisayo, ukuze kuthi lapho usho ngakho, amehlo akho akhanya futhi imizwa yakho ikhula. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kuzokwenza kube lula ukuhlala kwakho ekhaya futhi ugcwalise impilo yakho ngokubonakala okusha. Ngakolunye uhlangothi - imizwelo emihle yangempela evela kuwe, izodonsela futhi ihlose umyeni wakho. Uzoqonda ukuthi awugcini nje ekusebenzeni endlini, kodwa uhola impilo ecebile, ezithakazelisayo.
Umsebenzi obungozi
Ososayensi bathi abesifazane abasendaweni yonke abasengozini yokuthola i-asthma ngaphezu kokusebenza. Isizathu esiyinhloko ukuxhumana njalo nothuli nezinwele zezilwane ezifuywayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abesifazane abahlala ekhaya nezingane banamathuba amaningi okuba nezinkinga zenhliziyo izikhathi ezingaphezu kwesigamu.
Lezi kuphela izibonelo ezijwayelekile kakhulu zezinkinga zokuxhumana. Kukhona okungaphezulu okuningi. Kodwa ngenxa yezindlela zokulwa nokwesaba ngaphambi kokuxhumana, kungenzeka ukunqoba noma yikuphi ubunzima futhi futhi ube yilungu eligcwele lomphakathi.