Amakati anamehlo anemibala angasabhekwa njengelukuluku noma into engavamile. Kodwa kangakanani ufanele uhlangabezane nemibala ehlukene ye-iris yamehlo kubantu? Ngisho noma yebo, cishe, ucabanga ukuthi umdlula-ngama-lens ezinemibala ehlukene, ngoba manje sekuyinto evamile phakathi kwabantu, ikakhulukazi kubantu abasha. Kubonakala sengathi kukhona okungaqondakali, kepha empeleni, umehluko wokuphila komuntu kusuka kwabanye. Kodwa ingabe kunjalo kuphela? Mhlawumbe yebo, mhlawumbe hhayi. Awuzange ufune ukuhlangana nomuntu onjalo, ubheke amehlo akhe, futhi ngokuzumayo uzobona kubo iqiniso lakho noma lo muntu unamakhono angavamile. Okuthakazelisayo, akunjalo?
Ngicabanga ukuthi umuntu onokuhlukana okunjalo kwabanye uzizwa kanjani? Ngokuqinisekile, "ukungavumelani" kwabantu bazizwa benzima kakhulu, beqaphela ukuthi bahluke kwabanye, ngisho noma nje kuphela. Futhi thina, abantu abavamile, sibabheke futhi ngandlela-thile ngemuva kwengqondo zethu, futhi, mhlawumbe, ngokusobala, siyabonga. Ukufisa komuntu ukuma kuqhamuka kakhulu, ngakho-ke, isifiso sokuba endaweni "ehlukile" kuye siyafaneleka. Siphetha, ungabi namahloni ngezici zabo ezihlukile, ikakhulukazi njengoba abaningi, njengoba bekusho, zama ukuphinda bavuselele into enjengale, besebenzisa izindlela ezithile.
Noma, kuyiqiniso, ingabe abantu abanamehlo ahlukile abathandi ngempela ukufana nalokhu? Kukhona izinto eziningi eziveza izinhlangothi zomuntu ezinhlangothini ezahlukene - i-meleosophy, ukutadisha izikhumbuzo zomzimba emzimbeni womuntu, ifilosofi, ingqondo, isayensi yezinto eziphilayo, i-biology, palmistry nezinye izinkomba eziningi, ngakho-ke akufani neze. Okuhlukile kwakungeyona umzamo wokuveza umuntu ngombala wamehlo akhe. Amathani wezihloko ezichaza abantu abanezinwele ezinsundu, eziluhlaza, eziluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Futhi kuthiwani ngomuntu onombala ongeyona into efanayo? Ake siqonde ukuthi umbala wombala ohlukile uthini kubantu!
I-Congenital futhi ithola "ukungavumelani"
Esikhathini sesayensi, isimo sezinhlanzi zabantu abanemibala eningi sithathwa njengesizinda sokubukwa kwesibindi futhi sibhekwa ngokuthi i-heterochromia - umbala omuhle kakhulu we-iso linye iso kwesinye. Kungumphumela wokweqile noma ukuntuleka kwe-melanin. Kodwa kukhona futhi "ukungavumelani" okutholakele, isibonelo, ngenxa yengozi, kubantu abane glaucoma noma nezicubu.
Umfanekiso wesimo sengqondo wabantu abanezinhlobonhlobo zamehlo ahlukene
Ukuzicabangela
Abantu abanjalo babhekwa njengabantu abangenandaba, abangaqapheli nabangavamile. Ziyamangalisa kakhulu. Ngokumelene nemvelaphi yalezi zimfanelo ezinhle, kunesici esicacile - i-egocentrism ngendlela eveziwe. "Kanjani ukuthi abazange banginake?". Ngama-egoists kunzima kakhulu ukuhambisana, badinga ukunakwa ngokweqile. Kodwa nansi ukuphazamiseka, abantu abanemibala ehlukene ye-iris, njengesizungu. Kuyinto engavamile, akunjalo? Noma, ukuze lokho kusimangaze? Ngokumelene nalesi sizinda, banomngcele omncane wabangane abalulekayo nabathandekayo. Awu, kodwa ungayithandi kanjani labo ababekezelela futhi bamukele ubugovu bakho?
Ukuphefumula okulungile
Abesifazane - "ukungavumelani" balwela ukuhleleka. Umtsetfosisekelo ungaba mkhulu, njalo usebenzise izidlo. Noma kunjalo, lokhu akubavimbeli ukuba bajabulele ukubukeka kwabo, "nje akukho mkhawulo ekupheleleni." Abesifazane - mncane ngemvelo, njengezinkondlo, umculo, ukudansa, ujabule kakhulu.
Indlela elinganisiwe yokuphila
Isimiso sokuphila asilo mnandi, uma kukhona imicimbi ekhanyayo, ayivamile. Kuyiqiniso ukuthi akubakhuzi ngokukhethekile, ngokuphambene nalokho, kubangele ukuthi baqonde lokho abanakho futhi bayakhunjulwa isikhathi eside enkumbulweni. Bangakwazi ukuhlela iholide ngokwabo futhi bakwenze, ngenxa yamakhono abo enhle nenhlangano.
Ukubekezela nokukhuthazela
Izimfanelo ezinhle zihlanganisa ukubekezela okuhle nokukhuthazela. Ungase ukwazi ngisho ngezinkinga zabo - zisakaze izinkathazo noma ukunganeliseki lapho kuphela iphuzu lokubilisa. Futhi-ke, abasondelene kuphela bayokwazi. Abafuni ukugxuma ngaphezu kwamakhanda abo, banelisekile ngesimo sabo samanje.
Abafazi abaphelele
Ebudlelwaneni, ekuboneni kokuqala, emoyeni, kepha uma "ukungavumelani" nokukuphonsa, kungenxa yokuthi yena awenawo owodwa futhi oyingqayizivele, futhi kungaba khona okunjalo. Uma ethola enye, kuyoba "thandana ethuneni", ngezinguquko ezikhawulwayo ngokuziphatha. Kuzokwenzeka ukubona, ngokusobala, enentombazane ehamba phambili enomuntu oyisimemezelo esihle kakhulu oyohlale exhasa induduzo endlini, ngesifiso sakho sokuhlanganyela ukuhlakanipha okuwusizo. Ungaphuthelwa amathiphu ngezindlebe. Amadoda alabo besifazane angaba nomona, ngoba yonke i-egoism iyophendukela nakwezinye iziqondiso - "iyohlala indoda yakho."
Ngakho-ke, ngaphezu kwekutsi intombazane enjalo iyoba ngumsizi omkhulu, umfazi okhathalelayo, yena-ke, angeke akhohlwe ukulandela ukubonakala kwakhe. Kukhona umuntu, kubonakala kimi, lo ngumfazi ofanelekayo. Yiqiniso, zikhona izimfanelo umyeni angayamukela, futhi mhlawumbe ngisho ngezigaba, cha. "Ukungavumelani" kwabesifazane kuhlose utshwala, kodwa, ngenxa yengqondo yabo, bayakugwema. Kodwa ukubhema, ngemva kokuzama kanye, kungenzeka ukuthi ngeke bakwazi ukuyeka.
Ukucindezela nokuqondile
Abantu abanamehlo anemibala babonakala enenkani nokuziqhenya, ungakhohlwa ngakho. Ezingxabano noma empikiswaneni bazohlala bodwa kuze kube sekupheleni. Banobuqili, kodwa kuphela ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, lapho umphikisi engakwazi ukuqonda okunye. Lezi zimfanelo zama ukungabonisi okuningi kwabanye.
Zama ukukhetha amagama okuxhumana nabo. Bathethelelwa kalula, kodwa bazokhumbula ukuhlambalaza isikhathi eside. Abazi ukuthi bangazizwa kanjani futhi bona ngokwabo abakwazi ukuqonda amacebo, okubonisa ukuqonda kwabo ngokuqondile. "Kungcono iqiniso elibi kunamanga amnandi" - isiqubulo esiphila kuzo ekuphileni.
Sithemba ukuthi kuzoba lula kuwe manje ukuqonda abantu abangejwayelekile nabangqubuzanayo.