Yamukela ingane njengoba ekhona! Lokhu, mhlawumbe, kubazali, kungomunye wemithetho ebaluleke kakhulu yokuphila nengane engasebenzi kahle.
Awukwazi ukudonsa emuva nokuhlukumeza ingane ngokuhlala uhamba. Ngenxa yobukhulu besimiso sezinzwa, kunzima ingane yakho ukuba ihlale ikhona. Zama ukukhuluma ngokuthula nangokuthula. Uma ufuna ukuchaza okuthile kumntanakho, menze azwe, aqonde, ngesikhatsi ingxoxo, ubuke ingane ngamehlo bese ubamba izandla.
Zama ukwakha ubuciko obuningi, udwebe bese udweba, ukudlala imidlalo yokuzijabulisa nokuthuthukisa. Lokhu kukuvumela ukuthi uhlakulele ukucabanga nokusebenza. Khumbula wena neminye imithetho yokuphila nengane engasebenzi kahle.
Okunye okusebenzayo okusebenzayo nokuphumula. Eminyakeni engu-3-4, umsebenzi wezingane ezingasetshenzisiwe kufanele ungapheli imizuzu engama-7-10, kanye nezingane ezineminyaka engu-6-7 - imizuzu engu-20-25. Noma kunjalo, zonke izingane zingabantu ngabanye. Mhlawumbe wakho oneminyaka eyisithupha ubudala nemaminithi angu-20 uzobonakala njengomnyaka. Ungaphoqeleli izenzakalo. Khumbula, kancane kancane uzijwayele konke. Hlela isikhathi angakwazi ukubheka ngaso, futhi kancane kancane, ngomzuzu, ukwandise. Yebo, lokhu ngeke kuthathe isonto elilodwa hhayi inyanga eyodwa, kodwa imiphumela izoqiniseka!
Kudingeka ukuthi uvunyelwe ukudlala imidlalo yeselula, kodwa ukuze uqaphele kakhulu, ngoba ingane ingase ibhekane nokucindezeleka.
Ngaphambi komdlalo, chaza ngokucacile imithetho. Ngaphambi kwesikhathi, khuluma nengane ukuthi ngemuva kwembonakaliso umdlalo uphela. Izimpawu zingaba igama elithi "Yeka!", Ukotini, insimbi yebell, ukukhahlela emgqonyeni.
Masidlale "umbhoshongo owela"
Kanye nomntwana, wakha umbhoshongo ophakeme wemilenze. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo udinga ukugxuma ukuze ungabhubhisi izindonga.
"Ngokushesha - kancane"
Lo mdlalo ufundisa ingane ukulawula ukuziphatha kwakhe. Thatha noma iyiphi into bese uyidlulisela komunye nomunye kuqala kancane, bese ukwandisa i-tempo, bese uhlehlisa. Ungaphinde uhambe, ugijime, ugijime ngokushintsha kwethempo. Udinga njalo ukuqedela umdlalo ngokuhamba kancane.
Kumanothi
Ukukhathazeka ngokweqile kanye nokwesaba kwezingane zanamuhla kuyisifo sangempela soothisha, othisha nabazali. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuthi ungathandeki kuphela ngokuphathelene nezingane zakho ezingenasifo, kodwa futhi ukwazi ukuthi isisindo sakho "sithandwa kanjani". Uma umntwana ejabule kakhulu, futhi engazibophezeli ethonyeni lakho, khona-ke uzodinga ukulawula okunamandla. Kumele kucaciswe ingane ukuthi ungumzali wakhe, futhi kungenjalo ungamvumela ukuba aziphathe kabi. Uma abazali beziphatha ngothando nangobumnene, ezimweni eziningi izingane ezinjalo zikwazi ukuhlala "zihlale entanyeni" yabazali bazo. Ungayeki lesi simo ngesikhathi, kungenjalo abazali bangengozini yokuxoshwa ithonya labo isikhathi eside. Ngemuva kwalokho, uma izingane ezincane zijwayele okuthile, zikhulile, kuba nzima ukuzincisha kuso.
Chaza ukuphuka okuhle nokubi. Ungalokothi uphawule futhi, ngaphezu kwalokho, ungamshayi phambi kwabanye abantwana nabantu abadala. Mfundise indlela yokuphatha kahle abadala futhi uziphathe nezinye izingane. Ngokuvamile udumise ingane enjalo, ngoba kungase kube khona ukunakwa kwakho futhi yisona isizathu sokungaboni kahle kwengane. Ukulandela yonke imithetho engenhla, ungafunda kabusha "umfana omubi" emzimbeni oqinile nomoya wendoda.