Izinkinga zempilo yomndeni. Indlela yokunqoba?

Mhlawumbe akekho umndeni owodwa ongakaze uxabane phakathi nokuphila kwakhe. Yonke inkathazo nenkinga kuyisivivinyo samandla ubuhlobo. Kodwa kuvela ukuthi zonke lezi zinkinga zihamba kahle, futhi kungenzeka, uma kungenqatshiwe, okungenani ukunciphisa izinkinga.

Izazi zengqondo ziye zasungula ukuthi umbhangqwana ngamunye oshadile unesilinganiso sezinkinga ezintathu. Kungase kube khona okuningi, konke kuxhomeke ekutheni ubumnene bomshado.

Inkinga yokuqala, inkinga yeminyaka yokuqala engu-3-5 yomshado . Kuxhomeke kuye ukuthi uzoba ndawonye noma cha. Isikhathi se-candy-bouquet sesiphelile, izinsuku ezimpunga ziyeza. Umyeni nomfazi bajwayele ukuthandana, bavame ukubhekana nomndeni, bahlale esitofu, bahlanzekile, bahlanze, njll.

Isifiso sokwenza othandekayo othandekayo siphenduka umthwalo. Iningi lehlukaniso, cishe u-80%, libheke ngokuqondile le nkinga. Umlingani noma umlingani wakho akafani ngempela nokuqala ukuphola. Abantu bavame ukucabangela ukuphila komndeni, ikakhulukazi kwabesifazane, futhi uma umuntu ehlangana nangokoqobo, ukuphikisana kuphakama phakathi kwephupho neqiniso.

Yenza umthetho nomlingani wakho: xoxani zonke izingxabano nokungavumelani. Khona-ke ukungajabuli kwakho noma ukungajabuli kwakhe ngeke kuqoqwe futhi kubangele ukucaciswa okusheshayo kobudlelwane. Uma ngabe kunjalo uxabana, zama ukuqonda abathandekayo bakho, ume endaweni yakhe, ucabange, noma mhlawumbe ungalungile? Ungazami ukushintsha umyeni wakho - akunakwenzeka ukuthi uzophumelela. Hlola njalo ukuyekethisa, ungagxila kumaphuzu angalungile. Ngoba izingxabano eziningi kule nkathi zenzeka ngenxa yemisebenzi yasendlini, phumani kaningi kaningi nengxenye yakho ukusuka ekhaya ukuya emidlalo, izivakashi, ukuphazamiseka.

Inkinga yesibili kwenzeka eminyakeni engu-7-9 yokuhlala ndawonye . Kuhlobene nento efana nomlutha. Ngokuvamile ngalesi sikhathi, imibhangqwana eminingi inezingane, ibe nokuzimela kwezezimali. Yonke imikhuba, uhlamvu kanye nokuziphatha komlingani kufundwe kahle. Ungatshela ukuthi umyeni wakho uzoziphatha kanjani kunoma yisiphi isimo, uqondana omunye nomunye. Konke kubonakala sengathi kuhle, kodwa manje, kubonakala sengathi uthando selukholile, alukho uthando oluthandayo njengoba kwenzeka eminyakeni yokuqala yomshado.

Ungagijimeli eziphethweni . Qonda, uthando lwakho seludlulile esiteji esisha, seluthole izinzwa ezintsha. Izazi zengqondo zeluleka ngale nkathi ukuphumula kaningi komunye nomunye, iya eklabhu yokuzivocavoca, uhlangane nabangani, futhi uvumele indoda ukuba iya ebhola. Ungenza isenzo sokuzilibazisa esisha, shintsha isithombe, ie ulethe okuthile okusha empilweni yakho. Uzobona ukuthi uzoba nezihloko ezintsha ozokuxoxa nomyeni wakho.

Emva kweminyaka engu-16-20 yomshado kungase kube nenkinga yesithathu . Ikhushulwa yinkinga yobudala obuphakathi. Ngalesi sikhathi, izingane zikhula, ziqala imindeni yazo. Umsebenzi usuvele usuyenzile, futhi lowo muntu wanelisekile, ujabulela impumelelo engalindelwe isikhathi eside, noma akakutholanga lokho ayekufunayo. Amadoda amaningi ayesaba ngalesi sikhathi ukuba angabonakali, ngakho ngokuvamile baqala amanoveli amasha namantombazane amancane. Bafuna ukufakazela kwabanye futhi ngokwabo ukuthi okuningi kungatholakala futhi kwamukelwe.

Uma unento enjengaleyo eyenzekayo, ungasheshi ukuhlukanisa . Phela, lokhu kuyisilinganiso esiphezulu kakhulu. Hlala okufanayo, uhlakaniphile, ujabule futhi ujabule! Amanoveli anjalo adlula ngokushesha, futhi uxhumekile iminyaka eminingi, uqondana, ulwazi lwemikhuba kanye nezintandokazi. Ezimweni eziningi, amadoda abuyele futhi, esaba ngenxa yokuphila okusha nokungaqondi kahle.



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