Jabulela emshadweni - imidlalo nemincintiswano

Idili lomshado liyingxenye engavumelekile cishe yonke imishado. Kodwa-ke, ukudla nokuphuza akuyona into ethakazelisayo nhlobo, ngakho-ke izivakashi zizokhathala ngokushesha. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukunakekela imincintiswano, imidlalo nokunye ukuzijabulisa nokuzijabulisa kusengaphambili, okuzokwenza ukuthi kube neholide eliyingqayizivele.

Ukuzijabulisa nokuhlelwa kwemidlalo yomshado kufanele kufaniswe nezigaba zeminyaka, ukuthanda kanye nokuziphatha kwezivakashi. Bonke abantu bahlukile - abanye bayokujabulela ukubamba iqhaza ekuzijabuliseni okudinga umsebenzi kanye nokuguquguquka (imincintiswano edlalwayo, "imibuzo" ehlukile yezihloko zomshado), futhi abanye bayothanda izinketho eziningi ezithulile (ukuqagela ama-crosswords mayelana nabashadayo, imincintiswano yemali). Yiqiniso, imincintiswano yendabuko neyaziwa kakhulu ingafakwa ohlelweni lokuzijabulisa. Futhi uma wenza "amanothi" amasha esimweni esivamile? Sinikeza ukunakekelwa kwakho kokungcebeleka emshadweni noma umkhosi wokugubha usuku , okuyokhunjulwa isikhathi eside yizivakashi kanye nabaqashi bomkhosi.

Imincintiswano emihle yomshado

"Uzwakala kanjani lokho?"

Ukwenza lo mncintiswano omnandi, uzodinga isikhwama esikhulu, lapho siqoqa khona izinto ezihlukahlukene (i-apula, ipeni lomthombo, isikhonkwane, ubhiya, umdwebo ongokwokhuni). Ngokuvamile, indiza engenamkhawulo yefantasy. Imininingwane ebalulekile ukuthi sibopha intambo entweni ngayinye. Ummemezeli umemezela ukuqala komncintiswano womshado futhi uthembisa ukuthi lowo oyinqobe umklomelo othakazelisayo. Umdlali obangele ukuthi umdlali afake indwangu eyimpumputhe. Khona-ke umholi ngokungahleliwe udonsa into ephuma esikhwameni, futhi, ephethe ngendophi, uyifaka ebusweni bomdlali onomsebenzi wakhe wokunquma into ngokumunuka, ngaphandle kokuhlanganyela kwezandla. Izinto eziqatshelwe kahle ziya kumdlali njengomklomelo. Uma kukhona abaningana abafisa, kungenzeka ukubamba umncintiswano othi "Ubani ozonuka ngaphezulu".

"Dlulisa ibhodlela"

Abadlali baba ngumbuthano, bebona umyalelo we "owesifazane-indoda". Umholi uthumela ibhodlela kumhlanganyeli wokuqala (kungcono ukhethe ipulasitiki eyodwa), okuyinto ehlanganisa phakathi kwemilenze yakhe kanye nezandla kumdlali olandelayo. Ungathinti ibhodlela ngezandla zakho. Phakathi nalomncintiswano womshado odlalayo wezivakashi ezidlala iwashi. Ukuncintisana nokumnandi kulo mncintiswano unikezwa ngokuthandwa kwabamhlanganyeli abazama ukudlulisela ibhodlela kumakhelwane futhi bangawuvumeli ukuba uhambe emhlabathini.

Ukudansa ngamabhaluni

Ukuze uhlanganyele kulo mncintiswaneni omnandi, kunezibili eziningana ezikhethiwe, ngasinye esinikezwa ibhaluni elikhulu. Khona-ke, ngokuhlukile, umculo uqala ukudlala - rock'n'roll, slow, folk motifs. Ngalesi sikhathi, imibhangqwana idansa, ibambe ibhola ndawonye ngaphandle kosizo lwezandla. Khona-ke umculo uphazamisa ngokushesha futhi umbhangqwana uthintana. Lowo owaphule ibhola kuqala, wanqoba. Umnqobi unikezwa umklomelo.

Imidlalo yomshado yezivakashi

Njengomthetho, ngesikhathi sedili lomshado isimo somkhathi jikelele seholidi "siphethwe" yi-toastmaster. Imidlalo ejabulisayo nemincintiswano enikezwa umethuli ochwepheshe njalo ujabule. Yebo, bese uthatha ikhefu emva kokumunca okuningi kwezitsha zomshado kuyasiza kakhulu. Ngakho, kanjani ukujabulisa izivakashi emshadweni? Nakhu okumbalwa okujabulisayo nokujabulisayo.

"Ubani umakoti?"

Le midlalo yamahlaya iyathandwa kakhulu futhi ngokuvamile ivela emishadweni. Njengabahlanganyeli, umethuli ukhetha amantombazane angu-5 kuya kwangu-7 (kufaka phakathi umakoti) ohlala ezihlalweni ezibekwe eceleni. Umkhwenyana uphaqelekile futhi uhlinzekela ukuqagela umkakhe omncane, futhi kuphela amadolo okuthi "u-pretender" angathinteka.

«Izingubo zokugqoka»

Le game game for wedding for izivakashi ibanjwa ngokuhlanganyela kokubili amadoda nabesifazane. Okokuqala, abadlali baba yizibili, futhi abaholi bezinhlobonhlobo zeso ngalinye elinama-bandage amnyama. Khona-ke ufakazi kanye nofakazi bahlanganyela nabathintekayo ngama-dressspins, ngezinhlamvu ezingu-5 kuya ku-7 kuwo wonke umuntu. Manje iqembu ngalinye "liyimpumputhe" lithola futhi lisuse kumakhelwane we-dressspins. Lo mbhangqwana, owaqoqa wonke ama-dressspins awo ngokushesha, uba ngumnqobi.

"Utshwala Oludlulayo"

Umholi uhlela amaqembu amabili, okumele kube khona abadlali abangaphezu kuka-8. Ekude kwamamitha angu-5 kuya kwangu-7 ukusuka kwabahlanganyeli babeka itafula, ibhodlela le-vodka, ingilazi kanye nepulethi ene-lemon enqunyiwe noma i-orange (eqenjini ngalinye - "isethi" ehlukile). Ngombonakaliso womholi, umhlanganyeli wokuqala ufinyelela etafuleni, uthele i-vodka engilazi bese egijima emuva. Owesibili ugijima uphinde uphuze, kanti wesithathu - unomdla. Ngakho-ke, ukudlulisela "i-baton" komunye nomunye, iqembu lifaka lonke ibhodlela. Futhi ithimba elenza kuqala libizwa ukuthi liyinqola.

Umshado umncintiswano ngomakoti nomkhwenyana

Ukubamba iqhaza emincintiswaneni nasemidlalweni "emikhulu" yomcimbi womshado kuhlale kuyisimo esithakazelisayo nesimangalisa. Ukuzijabulisa okunjalo kuqhutshwa ngezabelo zamahlaya, okuphumela ekuqinisekiseni ukuzimisela kwabashadayo ekuphileni komndeni, isixazululo sezindaba zansuku zonke, ikhono lokuxoxisana nomunye nomunye.

Ukuhlukaniswa kwemithwalo yemfanelo yomndeni

Ukuqhuba lo mncintiswano omnandi womshado kuzodinga ukulungisa eziningi zezingcezu zephepha ezibhalwe phezu kwazo imithwalo yemfanelo yabesifazane nabesilisa. Umethuli uletha labo abasanda kushada ipheshana ephepheni (noma esikhwameni se-smart). Umakoti nomkhwenyana bathatha amanothi bese befunda amagama ngokuzwakalayo. Isibonelo: "Ngizogeza izitsha nsuku zonke", "Ngizokuvakashela izintombi zami njalo", "Ngizobeletha ingane". Okumnandi kakhulu, uma izingcezu zephepha ezinemithwalo yemfanelo efanayo ziwela kumkhwenyana. Futhi ngomlobokazi - "Ngizophuza ubhiya", "Ngizolala embhedeni" noma "Ngizokwenza imali".

Cinderella

Lena umncintiswano womshado lomkhwenyana. Umethuli ukhathaza ukunakwa kwabashadile abasanda kushada, kanti omunye wabavakashi ngalesi sikhathi uyahamba bese efihla isicathulo somlobokazi. Umsebenzi womkhwenyana ukuthola isihlangu esifihliwe ngosizo lwezinkomba zabanye (ukushaya). Uma usondela endaweni "ethandekayo", izivakashi zihlabelela phezulu, futhi kude nokude ukusuka ekuhlaleni izicathulo, ngokuphambene nalokho, ziyanqamuka.

"Yondla umyeni wakho"

Maphakathi nehholo ufake izihlalo ezimbili - umkhwenyana nomakoti. Umakoti uhlezi esihlalweni, ephethe ipuleti eneceke lekhekhe kanye nekhaloni ezandleni zakhe. Khona-ke umholi uvala amehlo yentombazane, futhi ngokumelene nomkhwenyana uhlala phansi. Manje umakoti kufanele athole le ndoda encane ngekhekhe, esebenzisa amathiphu akhe. Njengomthetho, ngemva komncintiswano onjalo, ubuso obusha kanye nesigqoko sakhe sihlotshaniswa nekhilimu elimnandi. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukubeka imali nge-bib.

Ukuzijabulisa emshadweni

Umshado awuyona nje ingxenye ebalulekile yokubhalisa kanye nedili edilini. Umoya oyingqayizivele womshado wenza injabulo yokuzijabulisa ehlanganisa bonke abakhona emndenini omkhulu, onobungane. Kodwa ufuna ukumangaza futhi ukumangaza izivakashi! Masiqhubeke namuhla "siphumelele izinkolelo" mayelana nokuzijabulisa kwendabuko emshadweni. Siyakunaka imibono engavamile engavamile.

Ivula izibani zezulu

Sasivela kithi eYurophu isiko lokuhlela imililo ebusika embala futhi isikhathi eside saba ukuzijabulisa komshado. Kodwa-ke, namuhla umbukiso womlilo othakazelisayo wawushintshwa yi-trendy entsha-izibani zaseShayina zezibani. Yiqiniso, ukuqaliswa okuhlangene kwe-flashlight ekhanyayo ngesimo senhliziyo kuthandana kakhulu. Uma uthatha umkhwenyana nomakoti, abaqala uphawu lwabo lothando, uzothola izithombe ezinhle. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungathenga izibani ezinjalo izivakashi kusengaphambili (eyodwa for pair ngamunye). Yeka indlela enhle eyobukeka ngayo izibani ezimbalwa ezikhanyayo, zihamba ngendiza kuze kube esibhakabhakeni ebusuku. Indaba enkulu yevidiyo yomshado yothando!

Iqembu lomculo nokudansa

Umculo obukhoma yizokuzijabulisa ezithandwayo emshadweni, ikakhulukazi eholidini elizohlala kulo. Isibonelo, ngomshado ngesitayela se- "Retro" ungamema ukuhlanganiswa kokugqoka kwama-70s, ne-dance-song repertoire ehambelanayo. Uma unomshado kumathimu womuntu, ithimba elijabule labaculi, elikhishwe ama-shirts ubudala kanye ne-sarafans, lizokwenza leli holide libe yinto ejabulisayo. Ukuvela kwezivakashi ezinjalo emshadweni kungalungiswa ngendlela yesethulo esimangazayo. Ake ucabange - phakathi kweqembu lomshado ehholo lokudla, kubonakala isixuku esikhulu sama-gypsies ngezingoma zabo ezithandekayo nezingcolile. Intombazane enjalo "ye-gypsy ene-exit" izoba yiqokomiso langempela ohlelweni lokuzijabulisa.

Imishado yofakazi

OFakazi kulo mshado babhekwa ngokuthi "isandla sokunene" salabo abasanda kushada. Ngakho-ke, abangane abaseduze noma izihlobo bavame ukwenza ngale ndima. Ngokwesiko, umngane ongashadile womlobokazi angaba ngufakazi, futhi intsha engashadile phakathi kwabangane bomyeni ingufakazi. Naphezu kokukhathazeka kwezinkinga zemikhosi, ofakazi bangase bathathe iqhaza elikhulu emincintiswaneni yama-gay for the wedding.

I-Egg

Ukuqhuba lo mncintiswano, uzodinga iqanda eliluhlaza, lofakazi abambalwa kufanele baqede izingubo zomlingani. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, kufanele wenze konke ukuphathwa ngokucophelela, ukuze ungaqedi iqanda endaweni "engalungile" kakhulu.

"Izinduku ezinkulu"

Ufakazi ngamunye uthola ibhulukwe yobukhulu obukhulu, ne-band elastic ebhanini. Ngemuva kokuba abahlanganyeli begqoke lezi izingubo, umethuli ubonisa ukuqoqa amabhaluni amaningi ngangokunokwenzeka ebhodini. Lapho wonke amabhola eqoqwa, aqala ukuqhuma, ngaphandle kosizo lwezandla. Lowo ozobhubhisa wonke amabhola omncintiswano uzowina.

"Thola into"

Lo mncintiswano womshado njalo uvusa isimo sengqondo futhi kubangele ukuhleka kwendawo yonke. Okokuqala, izivakashi ziphazamisa ukunakekelwa kofakazi, futhi ngalesi sikhathi abantu abaningana bafihla emaphaketheni abo izinto ezincane ezincane. Khona-ke ummemezeli umemezela ukuthi yiziphi izinto eziqondene nomhlanganyeli ngamunye. Othola izinto eziningi kuthiwa uyinqobe.

Imincintiswano ngosuku lwesibili lomshado

Ngosuku olulandelayo emva komshado, izivakashi ziyakhathala futhi zidinga ukuba zijabule kahle. Ngakho-ke, ngosuku lwesibili lomshado, abashadile nabashadile babo, imincintiswano elula kodwa emnandi futhi ehlelekile ingabanjwa.

"Isikebhe somndeni"

Ngezansi udinga ukudweba ama-ovals amabili amakhulu - izikebhe, enye yazo eyomkhwenyana, enye enye yomlobokazi. Ngesignali somphathi, izivakashi ziqala ukuthatha indawo "ezikebheni". Khona-ke isibalo sabantu esikebheni ngasinye sibalwa futhi umphathi wendawo "umkhumbi" womndeni ukhethwe ngokulandela imiphumela.

"Sang Sangane"

Lena umncintiswano omnandi womkhwenyana nomlobokazi, lapho i-joke ifomu ihlola ukuzimisela kwabo ukunakekela ingane. Abashadile banikezwa ukuba bafake i-swaddle le doll ("ingane") ndawonye ngama-diapers. Noma kunjalo, ungakwenza lokhu ngezandla ezimbili kuphela - indoda isebenzisa isandla sayo sokunene nomkakhe eshiywe. Imiphumela ye-swaddling ivame ukuzijabulisa, ikakhulukazi emadodeni.