Izinkinga zezamabhizinisi nezomndeni

Namuhla, abesifazane abaningana bathola izikhundla eziphezulu futhi bakhe umsebenzi. Kodwa-ke, impumelelo emkhakheni wezemisebenzi ihamba phambili ngokuhambisana nenkinga emndenini. Kungani lokhu kwenzeka?
Noma imuphi umndeni ovumelanako, ojabulisayo ukwakhiwa ngakolunye uhlangothi ekuphatheni kokuphila kwansuku zonke (izinkinga zesabelomali, ukucinga izindlu kanye nemithombo engenayo), nangakolunye uhlangothi ekubunjweni kobudlelwane bomndeni - ukuqina okuqinile, okungokomoya phakathi kwamalungu omndeni, ukwakha isimo somusa. Ukusatshalaliswa okuvamile kwezindima emndenini kungukuthi le ndoda ifuna izinsiza, futhi isebenze ubudlelwane phakathi komndeni kanye nokuphila kwansuku zonke-owesifazane. Kodwa uma lona wesifazane ephumelela ngomqondo webhizinisi - ukusatshalaliswa kwezindima kuphulwa, owesifazane, egcizelela ukunakekela kwakhe ezindabeni zemali, kaningi akanayo isikhathi sokusungula impilo. Ubani oyoqhuba ukuphila? Indoda?

Indoda ejwayelekile ayikwazi ukubuyisana nomqondo wokuthi akayena owunikezayo futhi oyinhloko yomndeni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukudala umkhathi owodwa womndeni kubalulekile ukuba ube nezimfanelo eziningi, ngokuvamile okungafani nabantu - ikhono lokwenza imisebenzi eminingana ngesikhathi esisodwa, ukuhlala njalo, ukuzithokozisa, ukuzimisela ukulalela, ukuqonda, induduzo nokusiza ngezeluleko.

Ukuthola izimfanelo ezinjalo, le ndoda ibonakala ngathi ithambile, i-rozhli, futhi ngokuqinisekile ayiphumelelanga. Futhi ngabe owesifazane webhizinisi ufuna ukwakha umndeni onjalo? Cha, uzobheka okufana naye - umholi okhuthele, osebenzayo, othembisayo ongayikuchitha isikhathi kuleso simo esingadingekile njengesimo somndeni. Ezimweni ezinjalo, umshado "wamahhala" utholakele - lapho bobabili bomshado bakha imisebenzi yabo, futhi ningathandani izibopho.

Kodwa umndeni ogcweleyo awukwazi ukwenzeka ngaphandle kwendima okuthiwa "insikazi". Ngokuvamile inkinga enjalo ixazululwa ngokuqasha umama wendlu - futhi indlu ihlanzekile, futhi akukho msebenzi ophazamisayo emsebenzini. Uma bekukhona izingane - yini, sizoqasha nanny! Uma kubonakala sengathi oshade naye uhambe ngenxa yomsebenzi wakhe - akunandaba, umthandi uzokusiza! Lapha ukukhishwa kwemindeni enjalo.

Ngakho-ke, owesifazane webhizinisi akanakho ukuhlakanipha ukukhetha umuntu ofanele, noma ukubekezela ukuhlala nalokho okuyikho. Futhi sithola imindeni yobudala, eyinkinga, lapho wonke umuntu ezama ukwakha imisebenzi yakhe futhi asebenzise ukuphila ngokuchofoza.

Isakhiwo sezomnotho samanje asivumeli owesifazane ukuba ahlale ekhaya futhi ahlanganyele "ekudleni kwesikhathi." Masithemba ukuthi izingane ezikhulile zibona abazali bazo ihora ngaphambi kokulala ngeke zilahlekelwe izindinganiso zabo zomndeni njenge-euphemism. Kuyasihawukela ukuthi owesifazane wesifazane webhizinisi nezinkinga zomndeni, imiqondo kaningi-engavamile.

UKsenia Ivanova , ikakhulukazi indawo