Abomama nabaningi abasha abancane ezinyangeni zokuqala zokuphila komntwana basesimweni sokudideka okuphelele. Futhi kuyaqondakala! Ukungazi nokuntuleka kwezinto ezithile kuvame ukwesaba.
Kulukhuni kumama osemncane ukujwayela isimo sakhe esisha. Ngemuva kwalokho, manje akufanele acabange ngezifiso zakhe kuphela, kodwa futhi nezifiso zengane, ngubani, njengomthetho, atshaywa ngendlela yokuphila. Eqinisweni, akulula kakhulu ukuthi abazali baphendule ngokumomotheka ekuhambeni okuhamba phambili kwezingane ezinyangeni ezimbili, noma ukuphendula ngokuzamile lapho bekhala ngokuklabalaza, amahora amathathu ulandelana. Izinkinga zomndeni ekuzalweni kwengane yokuqala zihanjelwa ngokukhethekile ezingokwengqondo.
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi ngaphezu kwemithwalo yemithwalo esanda kutholakala ehlobene nokunakekelwa nokukhuliswa kwengane, abesifazane banemisebenzi yasendlini endala asebeyinikezwe isikhathi eside, njengokuhlanza, ukupheka, ukuwasha, ukusetha kanye nokukhipha ukudla. Kodwa namanje ufuna, njengasendulo, ukuziqapha. Kodwa ukuya enhle salon noma ukuvakashela iqembu lokuzivocavoca kuyinto iphupho elikude futhi elingenakwenzeka lamamantombazane amaningi amancane.
Ukuxazulula zonke izinkinga ezingenhla akulula, kodwa kungenzeka. Ekulawuleni izinhlangano, kukhona into efana nokuphathwa kwesikhathi, okusho ukuthi "ukuphathwa kwesikhathi" futhi kusho ukungabi nesikhathi samahhala, futhi ubunzima obuningi okukhulunywe ngabo buxhunywe, yingakho njengesiqondiso esenzweni masithathe imiqondo kanye nezimiso eziyisisekelo ukuphathwa kwesikhathi.
Inhlangano yesikhala nezindawo
Okubalulekile: noma yiliphi i-kid, ngisho nelokuphumula, lingathatha imizuzu engu-5-J0 ithoyizi elithakazelisayo noma umsebenzi omusha. Ngesikhathi segeyimu, ungalokothi uthole wonke amathoyizi ngesikhathi esisodwa, ususe amanye awo eshefini elingenhla, elingenakufinyeleleka, ukuze ingane ikhohlwe ngabo. Ngemva kwesikhashana, amathoyizi "afihliwe" aphume, futhi "adlale" asuse. Kulesi simo, umdlalo uzoletha injabulo yengane futhi ngeke isuke isithukuthele ngokushesha.
Ekamelweni ngalinye lapho uvakashela khona emini, hlela uhlobo lomdlalo wezingane, lapho azodlala ngenkathi wenza into yakho. Njengoba isikhungo segeyimu singakhonza amadivaysi amaningi, isibonelo, ukuguqula kwezingane, ukuphakama kwekhanda eliphakeme noma ukushayela, umdlalo wegeyimu, ingubo yokugqoka noma i-diaper, ngamathoyizi abeka kuso.
Uma udinga ukuhamba ukusuka ekamelweni elilodwa kuya kwelinye, faka indawo yemidlalo yengane yakho phakathi, ukuze ubonwe futhi uzwe, ukhulume ne-crumb, ngazo zonke izindlela ukusekela umphumela wokuba khona kwakho.
Lapho uhlala khona njalo, ngokuvamile igumbi elinjalo igumbi lokuphumula noma ikhishi, yakha inkundla yonke yokudlala ephethe "iziteshi" ezimbalwa, esiteshini ngasinye "ingane" izohlala kuze kube yilapho iqala ukukhathala. Ngemuva kwalokho, umdlalo "isiteshini" uguqulela olandelayo, isibonelo, ukugijima - igubhu - indawo yokuhlala yokuzijabulisa - isikhungo sokudlala, njll.
Ukulandela imodi yesikhathi
Okubalulekile: Ukuqondiswa izidingo nokuziphatha kwengane, lalela futhi uyibuke kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka. Amehlo aphathekayo - yisikhathi sokulala, ukuhleka nokusebenza, khona-ke usengakwazi ukudlala, uma ingane inesimo sengqondo esiphundu --lala naye embhedeni noma utshele indaba ejabulisayo. Noma kunjalo, noma iyiphi ingane izofika embusweni wayo othize futhi ingenzi amathuba okuthuthukiswa kwezinkinga zomndeni ekuzalweni kwengane yokuqala.
Qhubekisa kusuka kufomula evunyelwe ngokuvamile: ukuvuka - ukudla - ukulala.
Ukulandelana kwalezi zingxenye kuyahlukahluka kuye ngokuthi ubudala bendodana nobungani bakhe. Ngonyaka wokuqala wokuphila komntanakho, umbuso wakhe ushintsha kaningi, ngakho-ke umbuso wakho uzothola izinguquko ezifanayo njalo. Naphezu kwalokhu, ukwazi isenzo sezenzo nezintandokazi zemvuthu yakho, ungakha isimiso sakho sezinto ezidingekayo nsuku zonke, ngisho nesikhathi esifushane.
Kubalulekile ukuba ingane ifunde kancane kancane ukuhleleka okuqhubekayo kwemicimbi ethile. Isibonelo, kuqala ukudla, umdlalo kanye nokugeza, khona-ke i-cartoon encane, ke incwadi kanye nokulala, iphupho. Okubaluleke nakakhulu ukuqiniseka komama. Yakha isenzo sakho sezinsuku zansuku zonke i-algorithm. Isibonelo, ekuseni ukupheka, ukuya esitolo, ukuhlanza kusihlwa, ukuhlwayela ebusuku. Ukwazi ukugxila okulandelayo kwesifundo esilandelayo, ngeke ususe isikhathi sokunquma ngokukhetha eyodwa.
Ukuhlela ibhizinisi lakho
Kubalulekile: ungazami ukuhambisana nohambo lwakho lwangaphambili, "olungenamntwana", lapho ukwazi ukwenza izinto eziyikhulu namashumi ayisikhombisa kusengaphambili. "Leli gama:" Sisekhona ubusuku bonke phambili ... "manje futhi akufanelekile. Yiya ngesigqi esincane esheshayo, esiphuthumayo futhi esivumelanayo. Khumbula ukuthi ngalesi sikhathi isikhungo somhlaba siyingane yakho, futhi wena, abazali bakhe, njengeziphuphutheki, kufanele ujikeleze imini nobusuku, uvikele futhi umsize.
Uma uhlela uhlelo lokusebenza losuku, ungafaki amacala amaningi ngesikhathi esisodwa. Ungazami ukuxazulula yonke imisebenzi ngesikhathi esisodwa. Zibophe uhlu olufushane lwalokho ongathanda ukukwenza namhlanje. Yilungise, engeza noma ususe izinto uma ubona ukuthi uphumelele.
Hlela okungaphezu kuka-2-3 amacala ngosuku. Uma kungenjalo, okuningi kuqalile, kodwa ibhizinisi elingapheli lizokucindezela.
Uma une-lark, unethuba lokuvuka kancane ngaphambi kwengane futhi wenze ezinye izinto ozihlele ngaphambi kokuba avuke, uma isikhova singakwazi ukusebenza - ngokuphumelelayo uma ubeka ingane yakho embhedeni. Kunoma yikuphi, ukungabi namahora okulala kungcono ukugcwalisa phakathi nosuku, beboshwe ihora noma amabili kanye nefidget encane.
Inhlangano yesikhathi sayo
Okubalulekile: zama ukuqaphela ngokwengeziwe isikhathi sakho samahhala. Uma kungenzeka, ukhokhele ngokulinganayo wena, umyeni wakho nawo wonke amalungu omndeni wakho. Ukuze wenze lokhu, ungagxila ekuhambeni kwejubane nokuphela kokugcwalisa imithwalo yemfanelo yakho yangaphambili. Uma ngaphambilini upheka ngaphandle kokucindezeleka ngoLwesine, u-"Napoleon" wekhekhe, bese kuthi ngeSonto - lapho uhlela phansi kwezinye izinto zasemhlabeni, isibonelo, kanye ngenyanga ukuzitholela wena kanye nezihlobo ne-charlotte. Ngesikhathi esisele ekuphekeni, umyeni wefilimu entsha, ehlezi eseceleni ngokumamukela. Okungenzeka ukuthi, ukungabi nokuthokozisa kokudla ngendlela elula kuyoba ngaphezu kokukhokhelwa.
Ngesifundo ngasinye, ungathathi imizuzu engaphezu kwengu-20. Ikakhulukazi kusukela isikhathi esengeziwe cishe ngeke. Uma ibhizinisi elihleliwe lithatha isikhathi eside, lihlukanise ngezikhathi ezilinganayo ukuze uqhubeke nokuqala kwakho ngemva kwekhefu.
Isibonelo, ukuhlanza indawo yokuhlala: siqala ngokusula uthuli, khona-ke sizogeza phansi, ekupheleni kochungechunge - hlamba izitsha. Zonke izinhluzane zizinikele ekuzijabuliseni kwe-karapuz yakho futhi zimnakekele. Ngalesi sikhathi, ungathola ithoyizi entsha, uqoqe ipiramidi noma ufunde incwadi, uyondle, ushintshe i-diaper noma ushintshe ama-panties akho.
Vumelana ukuthi asikho isidingo sokuma futhi ubuke indlela isobho eliphekwe ngayo, noma ukubuka umshini wokuwasha usebenza.
Ukuhlanganisa izenzo
Okubalulekile: Hlanganisa amacala ahambisanayo kuphela. Zombili lezi zimo kufanele zijabulise futhi zijabulise ingane, futhi, eqinisweni, ayikucindezeli. Uhambo lwehora lesithathu ukuya esikhungweni sokuthenga nge-stroller akuyona isibonelo esihle kakhulu.
Zama ukusebenzisa inhlanganisela yamakilasi asevele azijwayele futhi uthatha isikhathi esiningi. Isibonelo, ungenza ukuvivinya umzimba ngesikhathi uhamba epaki, imisebenzi yezingane echibini, udlala nezingane ekhaya noma ngisho nokudla. Ukugeza noma ukugeza okuhlangene kuzozuzisa kokubili.
Ungathathi nalokho okuthandayo. Qaphela ukuthi ingane ikhululekile futhi ikhululekile.
Ukuqala kuqala
Okubalulekile: Ngezinye izikhathi kunzima ukuhlukanisa imicimbi ebalulekile. Gxila esibonakalweni sokuphuthumayo. Isibonelo, uma ungadli, khona-ke ngeke ube namandla kunoma yini enye, uma ungaphumuli, uzohamba ucasule, futhi konke lokhu kuzoba kubi nakakhulu. Uma ungagcini izinto zezingane, khona-ke ingane ngeke ibe neyodwa okuzokhahlela kusasa. Ngezinye izikhathi kufanele udlulisele isinyathelo esithile (esishiywe nguwe kamuva) okokuqala ngesikhathi, ngoba esikhathini esizayo ungase ungabi nethuba lokukwenza.
Hlukanisa wonke amacala abe esheshayo futhi okwamanje. Okokuqala konke okuphuthumayo, bese-ke, uma unesikhathi samahhala noma kancane kancane usuku lonke - okwamanje. Beka izithakazelo zakho kanye nengane kuqala. Ukukhetha phakathi kwesidlo sakusihlwa nokuhlanza ubulili, unganqikazi-hamba udle ukudla kwasemini.
Ukudluliselwa kwamandla
Kubalulekile: kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ufuna kangakanani ukwenza lokhu, kunzima kakhulu ukubhekana naso yonke inqwaba yemithwalo yemithwalo yemfanelo, ubudala kanye nabasanda kuthola. Ngisho kubonakala sengathi uhlangabezana nakho konke, kodwa ikhwalithi yokwenza izinto kuyoba ngaphansi kwalokho okufunayo. Yikuphi, okuzokwenza, ikunike ukukhathazeka okungadingekile. Futhi isistimu yakho yezinzwa ngeke ikubonge ngomsebenzi wokusebenza. Funda ukusabalalisa imithwalo yemfanelo phakathi kwamalungu omndeni wakho. Zama ukuzithemba ngomsebenzi owake wakwenza kuphela. Futhi, sicela, ungakhathazeki ukunakwa kwakho ukuthi i-version yabo yokubulawa kwayo ayifinyeleli ngaso sonke isikhathi okuhle owasethayo.
Ekuqaleni, usakaze yonke imithwalo yemfanelo phakathi kwamalungu omndeni - bonke abahlala nawe endlini efanayo. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ngamunye wabo uzokwenza imisebenzi eminingi ongadingi ukuyikhathazeka ngayo. Hlala uvame ukukhumbuza ngezikhathi ezithile ikakhulukazi "ukukhohlwa" mayelana nokungazaliseki noma okungaqediwe.Unganqikazi ukushintsha imisebenzi yakho noma ukucela usizo ngezikhathi ezinzima.
Kubalulekile futhi ukuthi umyeni wakho nezinye izihlobo zihlanganyele ekunakekeleni ingane esanda kuzalwa. Akudingeki ube ngumuntu oyedwa emndenini ongashintsha i-diaper noma ahlanze ingane. Zama ukuheha abanye kulezi zinto ezibonakala zilukhuni. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, izinga lokuphatha kwabo liyoba phezulu njengelakho.
Uma kunzima kuwe ukubeka ezinye izimo ezidinga imithwalo ekhethekile "yokubeletha" kwabanye, zibeke eceleni kweqoqo lemiyalezo engeke ikukhathaze, kodwa ungesabi ukwandisa imingcele yokwethemba! Ngokwesibonelo, ungacela umyeni wakho ukuba ahambisane nomntwana olele esitheni sabakhubazekile noma odlala naye Ukhona emagumbini egumbini .Ngempela ngisho nobaba ongenalwazi uyobhekana nemisebenzi enjalo.