Indlela yokuvala indlela yokuzibulala

Zingaki izikhathi ekuphileni kwethu okudingeka sikuqede imizwa yethu? Njengokuthi okuthile okubavimbela ekuboniseni, ukutshela ngabo. Intukuthelo, intukuthelo, uthando ... zingaki izikhathi ezifihliwe ngemuva kokuthula.

Kodwa ukugcina imizwa yakho etilongweni kuyiphutha eliqhubekayo. Umzwelo udinga indlela yokuphuma, kungenjalo i-clot yetshe, ehlanganisa ukufutheka nokukhathazeka, ngolunye usuku luzodiliza udonga owakhele, futhi lokhu kungabangela ubuhlungu kakhulu othandekayo bakho, okuyizinhliziyo zakho ezinhliziyweni zakho ukuphuza ukuxhumana, ukuqonda. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukukhuluma kaningi ngangokunokwenzeka nabo, ubatshele okukukhathazayo noma okwenziwe kabi, ngemuva kokuthi izingxoxo ezinjalo zivame ukuzwa okufanayo ukuthi itshe lawa emphefumulweni.
Ungakhathazeki ukuthi ukhululekile kakhulu. Lokhu yisibonakaliso sobugqila. Futhi udinga ukuba umuntu ovulekile kakhulu, ngoba lena yindlela yokuthola injabulo nokwazi.

Ukuveza isimo sakho sangaphakathi esithombeni kuyindlela enhle yokubhekana nokucindezeleka kwangaphakathi. Dweba konke okukulimazayo, okuzondayo, ukuchaze ngaphansi kwesithombe. Vele ungadonseli labo owacasule okwesikhashana, kuzokwedlula ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, cishe. Ukuzonda okungcono ukuxabana ngokwakho, ekungaqondani phakathi kwakho ngesimo sefu elimnyama, isibonelo, noma ngesimo lokho okushiwo yi-subconscious yakho ekutshela yona. Futhi emva kwalokho, vutha, ugeze ngamanzi abandayo. Uzobona, kuzoba lula kuwe. Ngemuva kokuthi uzizwe ungcono, faka isithombe esingehlukile. Isithombe sokuphila kwakho okungekho esikhathini esizayo, lokho okuphuphayo nokufaka endaweni ethile eyimfihlo, kuze kube yilapho konke lokhu kugcwaliseka.

Izenzo ezingabonakala zingalindelekile, ngezinye izikhathi zenza umphumela omkhulu. Uma uzizwa ungalungile, yenza okuthile okujwayelekile. Ngokwesibonelo, hamba ehlathini ngokuhlala ubusuku, uthatha itende nawe. Thola ukuvumelana nawe ngokwakho kuqala, ukuzindla, ukwenza ukuzivocavoca, usethe njengomgomo wakho wokufeza into enhle kakhulu lapha futhi manje. Cabanga ukuthi uzobuyela kanjani ekhaya ngomzimba omusha omuhle futhi uvuselele ukuqonda. Noma ubhalisele ukuhamba kwezinsuku ezintathu. Ngemuva kwezinyathelo ezinjalo uzothola ukukhululeka okukhulu, futhi impilo izophinde idlale ngemibala ekhanyayo.

Uma ungayeki ukugcina yonke into kuwe, ingahamba kuze kube manje ukuthi isimo sakho sengqondo sibuhlungu futhi udinga usizo lwabachwepheshe. Ungaholeli kulokhu. Kuhle bukhoma impilo egcwele futhi ematasa manje. Ziveze okuningi ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngezemidlalo, ngokusebenzisa ubuciko, ngokuxoxa ngokukhululekile, unakekele into oyikhonzile, thola umsebenzi. Uma kunzima ngawe ukuba uvule ngokwakho nangaphakathi, njengokungathi kunesithiyo esingabonakali, ukubhalisa ngezifundo kumakhono wokwenza, njengebhonasi uzothola futhi ubuhle obuhle. Ezimweni ezimbi kakhulu, faka imizwa yakho kuqala, qalisa idayari, ubuke ngaphakathi kwakho bese ubhala konke ozizwayo. Ubani owaziyo, mhlawumbe ngolunye usuku ufuna ukufunda konke komunye umuntu. Phela, yonke imicabango yakho isivele ihlelwe ngokucacile futhi ayikho ingozi yokusho into engalungile, ukudala umbono ongaphambene nalokho owazama ukukusho. Manje konke kulapha, kule diary. Cabanga, awunandaba nabathandekayo bakho. Ingabe bewazi ukuthi ububi kangakanani, bekungakuvuli ukubuyela kuwe? Bengeke yini benze konke okusemandleni abo ukukusiza? Mhlawumbe abazi nje ukuthi bangaphakathi nokuthi yini engalungile futhi bona ngokwabo bahluphekile, bakhathazeke ngawe noma bazame ukuphulula ifu lokungaqondi okuphakanyisiwe phakathi kwakho. Qalisa.

Ukuveza imizwelo yakho kudingekile nje ngomphefumulo womuntu. Akudingeki ukuba uqoqe intukuthelo ngaphakathi kwesikhongo, ngokushesha noma kamuva uzokubhubhisa ngaphakathi noma uzothululela i-avalanche esabekayo.