Empeleni, wonke umuntu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uya ocansini, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi owesilisa noma owesilisa, okungenani wayesebenzisa i-orgasm evela ekuthinteni kwakhe. Ngokuvamile kubonakala ekukhuleni, lapho ingane iqala ukukhula, izinhlobo zamafomu, nokuqala kwentsha. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi abaziqondi ngalokhu, bazijabulise, bayajabula, ukungabi namthetho okusabalala kuyo yonke indawo emzimbeni, yilokho abazizwa okokuqala. Omunye ucabanga ukuthi lokhu kubi, uyayeka ukuzijabulisa. Futhi omunye uyaqhubeka enza.
Ukushaya indlwabu kungumkhuba ofanayo nanjengomunye umuntu oletha ukwaneliseka kumuntu. Futhi lapha nalapha kukhona ubuhle nobubi bokushaya indlwabu. Kusukela ebuntwaneni abazali bavuselela ingane ukuthi kubi, besabisa izinwele ezandleni, ukungabi namandla, ukukhulelwa. Futhi uma omunye wabazali eqaphele ukuthi ingane ikwazi ukushaya indlwabu, bese iqala ukujezisa. Futhi bakwenza ngeze, empeleni, awukwazi ukufaka ukuphila okuphelele ngokugcwele ngokushaya indlwabu, kodwa ukutadisha umzimba wakho kuyasiza kakhulu. Ngokwezibalo, iphesenti elincane labesifazane lithola i-orgasm, abanye baze bazi ngisho nokuthi kuyini. Lapho ufunda umzimba wakho kanye nokushaya indlwabu, ungathola ukuthi lezi zindawo ezihlonishwayo zitholakala kuphi, bese uqondisa umlingani wakho ngendlela efanele.
Ezweni lanamuhla, isintu sesifike ngezindlela eziningi zokushaya indlwabu. Ngokuvamile bayathola ukwaneliseka endlini yokugezela ngesizathu esithile, abesifazane bajabule ngosizo lwewashi, noma i-jacuzzi. Izitolo zocansi zigcwala ama-vibrators, ama-doll angatholakali kuwo wonke amadoda nabesifazane. Kulezi zinhlobonhlobo ezinkulu zamathoyizi ukuzola ukuthanda kwakho, into esemqoka akufanele idideke. Qaphela imithetho yokuphepha ekusetshenzisweni kwamathoyizi nezinto, ongathola ukwaneliseka. Into ebaluleke kakhulu okumele uyikhumbule ukuthi izitho zangasese, amadoda nabesifazane, zenzelwe ukuthinta ngobumnene, hhayi ukuphazanyiswa okukhulu.
Amaminithi okushaya indlwabu, eqinisweni, akhona uma uphathwa, khona-ke ungalahlekelwa isithakazelo socansi kubantu bangempela. Injabulo iyokwenzeka kuphela ekuthinteni kwabo kanye nenhlanganisela yezithombe ezithakazelisayo, izindaba noma amafilimu. Umuntu wangempela ngeke abe yinto yokufisa. Ngamaminithi, kunama-pluses amaningi.
Izinzuzo zokushaya indlwabu zisempilo yabantu. Emadodeni abesilisa ngezikhathi ezithile ukushaya indlwabu ngokungajwayelekile abonisa i-prostatitis, kusho izazi ze-urologists. Lapho ukushaya indlwabu kuvamile ukufaka isimiso senhliziyo, sidlula isimo sokucindezeleka. Kwabesifazane, noma yiluphi uhlobo lwezocansi, ngisho nokushaya indlwabu, kuthuthukisa ubuso, kususa imibimbi engadingekile ebusweni ngenxa yokujikeleza kwegazi.
Ngisho, ngokuqhubeka nokuthi kunezinhlanganisela eziningi, akumelwe sikhohlwe ukuthi ubulili obugcwele bubaluleke kakhulu, ukushaya indlwabu ngokunganele. Ukushaya indlwabu kuveza ukwaneliseka ngokomzimba komuntu, ukukhanukela ukufisa, kanye nobulili nomlingani wangempela kuletha ubuhlobo obuseduze nemicabango. Ukuze ukwaneliseke okuphelele udinga ukuzwa ukufudumala nokuthandwa komlingani wakho, kuyinto efiselekayo ukuba ulale ocansini nomthandekayo wakho, khona-ke uzoba ne-orgasm ekhanyayo futhi engalokothi uyibalekele.