Ososayensi sekuyisikhathi eside befakazela ukuthi kusukela ekuhambeni okuphansi nokunciphisa ngokweqile, amadoda ahlupheka ngaphansi kwabesifazane. ERussia, amadoda amaningi kakhulu alandisa ngamaphesenti angama-30 ewonke labantu. Futhi ngaphandle komonakalo emzimbeni ungakwazi ukulahlekelwa isisindo kuphela ngokwenza imidlalo nokudla kahle. Kodwa lo muntu ngokwakhe uphoqeleka ukushintsha indlela yokuphila enzima kakhulu kunzima. Ngenhlanhla, izazi zengqondo zikwazi ukwenza umuntu angene emidlalweni, aqaphele impilo yakhe nokubukeka kwakhe. Bakholelwa ukuthi yonke into iyisisusa esibuthakathaka. Futhi abesifazane abathandekayo bangasiza amadoda.
Ukusekelwa kwengqondo.
Eqinisweni, noma kunjalo, kunengqondo ukuqala ukusebenza ngokugqugquzela kahle ingxoxo. Nika umyeni wakho ukuthi aqonde ukuthi uyamthanda nokuthi unjani. Ukuthi usengumuntu othandekayo kuwe futhi amakhilogremu angaphezulu angamthinti nhlobo. "Bathandekayo, okokuqala, ngikhathazekile ngempilo yakho futhi kuphela ukubukeka" - le nkulumo iyisihluthulelo sempumelelo yakho. Into eyinhloko ukubeka lezi zikhala ngokufanele. Uma uveza njalo ukunganeliseki kwakho ngokubonakala komlingani wakho, kungamcasula futhi kumcasule. Ngeke asakwazi ukuya emdlalweni. Kodwa ukunakekelwa kwezempilo kwakho kuzobonakala kangcono kakhulu. Amadoda ayesaba ukugula futhi kunalokho avumelana ukudlala ezemidlalo ngenxa yezempilo kunokuba ngenxa yobuhle. Umfutho wegazi ophezulu, ukwehluleka kwenhliziyo, isifo sikashukela, umsebenzi wokuzala okhubazekile, ukungabi namandla - lolu hlu olungaphelele lwezifo, okufanelekile ukubhekisela kumyeni ohlala phansi.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ungadluli kakhulu. Zama ukunikeza konke ngeseluleko esihle, hhayi incazelo ye-apocalypse esondelayo. "Sizobhekana nazo zonke izinkinga uma sisebenza ndawonye!" Izazi zemiqondo zithi "thina" yiyona ndoda enkulu yamacilongo emzabalazweni wakho wokuvumelanisa nempilo yomyeni wakho. Umlingani wakho kufanele abe nomuzwa wokusekela futhi anqume ukushintsha indlela yakho yokuphila. Ngemuva kwalokho, ukudlala imidlalo kudinga isikhathi esiningi futhi kushintshe indlela yokuphila evamile "embhedeni". Lungiselela uchungechunge lwezincomo ezingavumi njalo nokukhuthaza imishwana. Abacwaningi baye bafakazela isikhathi eside ukuthi ubuchopho besilisa buyasabela kahle emazwini amnandi, kanye nabesifazane. "Ungumfana omkhulu - umphumela usuvele ubonakala!", "Kuhlala kancane kakhulu, okubaluleke kakhulu, ungaphelelwa ithemba!", "Kuhle, ungaziqedi manje! Sonke singakwazi ukulungisa! "- faka le mishwana ku-arsenal yakho. Umlingani wakho kufanele aqonde ukuthi lo mdlalo kanye nokuphila okunempilo akuyona ibhizinisi amasonto amabili, kodwa ushintsho kwisigqi sokuphila iminyaka eminingi. Futhi mhlawumbe kuze kube phakade. Umsebenzi wakho ukuwulungisa ukuthi izithelo zokulinganiselwa kwawo ngeke zivele ngokushesha.
Konke kusezandleni zakho.
Ngaphambi kokuba ufike ezinyathelweni ezinkulu - ukudla okuqinile kanye nehholo lezemidlalo, zama ukushintsha imenyu yasendlini kanye nohlobo lokuzijabulisa. Ngezindlela eziningi, impilo nokubukeka kuxhomeke ekutheni ukondliwe. Faka indawo yokudla okunamafutha ngokudla okunempilo, wenze ama saladi amaningi ngamafutha yemifino, usebenzise izinhlanzi nezilwane zasolwandle. Ungabi novilapha ekuseni ukuze ugcwalise iziqukathi ezikhethekile ngesidlo sasemini lapho oshade naye azothatha naye ukusebenza. Ukuya endaweni yokudlela, weluleka indoda yakhe izitsha eziwusizo. "Othandekayo, wazama inyama namazambane ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kungcono uthathe isaladi nge-arugula. Kuyinto ehlwabusayo kakhulu futhi ewusizo! "," Mhlawumbe ngeke siphuze ubhiya, kodwa ulalele ingilazi ebomvu iwayini elomile? ". Vuka ngokwakho embhedeni bese uqala ukuhamba ngokuhlanganyela emakethe ase-boulevards noma ugibele e-ice rink. Thenga wena namavidiyo akho othandekayo nama-bike. Indlela esebenzayo yokuphila nezemidlalo akuzona nje izimo ze-simulators nokuqeqeshwa esikhungweni sempilo. Okokuqala, kungumfanekiso wokucabanga okuhle.
Amakhadi akho amacilongo.
Yiya ekukhohliseni okuncane: ungabizi izinto ngamagama abo afanele. Isibonelo, esikhundleni sokutshela njalo umyeni wakho ngokudla nokuqina, sebenzisa ngomqondo "wokuphila okunempilo". Akalahlekelwa isisindo, kodwa uqala impilo entsha, unakekele impilo yakhe futhi angenele ezemidlalo.
Beka isithombe sakhe sesitembu endaweni evelele. Ngokushesha umlingani wakho uzoqonda ukuthi usho ukuthini ngokuthi ushintshile kusukela omaziyo wakho. Izazi zengqondo zithi ukugqugquzela okubukwayo kunamandla kakhulu. Umuntu uthanda ukuzibuka futhi ujabulele isithombe. Izithombe namavidiyo amadala angashukumisa isifiso sokubona isithombe esifanayo esibukweni. Futhi yini edingekayo kulokhu, lo muntu ngokwakhe uyaziqonda. Yakha uhlelo lokusebenza ngezigaba nomyeni wakho. Beka phambi kwakhe imigomo emincane futhi engokoqobo. Ngakho, ukunqoba okuncane wena ndawonye ngeke uqaphele ukuthi uzofika kanjani eyodwa eyodwa enkulu.
Ngesinye esitolo, qiniseka ukuthi umlingani wakho uzama into ayithandayo, kodwa ingxenye yesayizi. "U-Darling, uvele ungene kule suti! Kuyinqoko! Unokuncane kakhulu kwesokunxele! "Amagama anjalo azokwenza ngokukhuthazayo kunoma ubani, ngisho nangokwesaba okukhulu, futhi uzoba nomthelela nakakhulu emidlalweni.
Cabanga ngomvuzo wakho noma yikuphi, ngisho nomphumela ongelutho. Amadoda, njengabesifazane, njengezipho, izingubo ezinhle, ukunakekelwa nokuthandana-yilokho ozokwenza khona manje. Bonke abantu bafuna imvume! Umvuzo wempahla ngesimo sesipho uyakwazi ukufaka esikhundleni se-endorphins etholakala "ekuphuzeni" kobucayi bhiya kumbhede wakho ozithandayo.
Futhi, yiqiniso, njalo utshele umyeni wakho ukuthi uyamkhathalela kangakanani. Indlela entsha yokuphila yemidlalo nokudla okunempilo okungavamile kuhlale kugxilile. Ngezikhathi ezinjalo, hhayi ukuphuka futhi ungaphonsa yonke into engaphansi kwesinye kuphela uthando nokuqonda kwabathandekayo. I-Strange njengoba ingase ibonakale, kodwa wena, ngokwezinga elithile, unesibopho sengqondo enhle nemiphumela yendoda yakho eguqukayo. Ngakho-ke, yiba nesineke (indlela yokuphila enempilo ingunaphakade) futhi wenze ngesisekelo sesimo esithile.
Okunye okuhlangenwe nakho.
Ngezinye izikhathi imiphumela yomuntu ephumelelayo yenza ukuba uphume embhedeni futhi uzenzele ngokushesha kunomphefumulo wakhe wokulila ngokuphathelene nobungozi bebhiya namazambane. Ukuphoqa umuntu ukuba adlale imidlalo, utshele othandekayo wakho ngempumelelo yabantu abadumile. Ngokwesibonelo, umklami waseJalimane uKarl Lagerfeld eneminyaka engama-64 ulahlekelwe ngamakhilogremu angu-42. Kwaphela izinyanga ezingu-13, umklami wefashini ukhathele umzimba wakhe ngokudla nokudlalwa kwezemidlalo ukuze azizwe esemncane futhi agqoke izingubo ezenziwe ngumklami weDeor Hedy Slimane. U-Lagerfeld ngokwakhe ukholelwa ukuthi "udinga ukunciphisa isisindo kuphela ukuze ujabule". UMbusi we-Arkansas uMike Hakabi walahlekelwa ngamakhilogremu angu-45. Wanehlisa ukuncipha kwekhalori futhi waqala ukuphila ngendlela esebenzayo. "Kuvele ukuthi ukugijima kuyamnandi kakhulu futhi kunempilo," wavuma enkulumweni. UJoseph Prigogine - umyeni nomkhiqizi womculi u-Valeria - ngaphansi kokulawulwa okuqinile komkakhe owalahlekelwa yi-kilogram ayi-22. Ukudla okuphansi kwekhalori nokuya komndeni ukuya esikhungweni sempilo sekufezile umsebenzi wabo. Nokho, uJosefa ngeke ayeke lapho. Phela, ngenxa yomkami, ukudla okunomsoco, okwandiswa ngumsebenzi womzimba, waba indlela yokuphila kwakhe.