Indodana yami ineminyaka eyi-1,5 ubudala. Inyangazonke yaqala ngonyaka odlule futhi yadlula njalo. Kodwa ngenyanga eyedlule babengekho. Kungaba yini isizathu? Ngaphambi kokubeletha kwakunjalo ukuthi kanye noma kabili ngonyaka kwakungekho nenyanga.
Izimbangela zokuphazamiseka komjikelezo wesimiso kwabesifazane kungaba: ukucindezeleka okungapheli, ukweqa ngokweqile, ukhathazeka ngokweqile, ukungondleki kahle, ukuthatha imithi kanye nezithako zokudla, ukukhulelwa, njll. Thola ukuthi ukuhlukunyezwa kwakho kungenakwenzeka ngaphandle kokubonisana okuningiliziwe nokucwaninga okwengeziwe. Ngiyavuma ukuthi unomjikelezo wakho wonyaka wamakhomitha wakho kanye nokwenyuka kokungena kokuya esikhathini okwedlule ngonyaka. Yenza i-ultrasound, i-blood test ye-hormone ukunquma ukuthi yimaphi isimo ama-ovari nesisu esikuyo. Xoxa nomjozi wezifo ngokudla kwe-COC, ukulinganisela kokudla bese ukhetha amavithamini nezinsimbi zamaminerali.
Amazinyo wesifazane: ukubekezelela noma ukuphatha?
Ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa (amasonto angu-24) ngathola izinyo ezigulayo ezintathu, engakaze ngizikhathaze ngaphambili. Ngidla ngokuvamile, ngiphuza i-calcium, kodwa amazinyo ami aphuka. Udokotela wamazinyo uthi ukwelashwa kubalulekile ukwenza i-X ray, ngoba amazinyo abukeka ephilile. Ngikhathazekile ngemibuzo emibili: ngingasusa kanjani izinyosi, ukuze ngingalimazi ingane, futhi kuyingozi kangakanani i-X ray?
Cishe isigamu sabomama esizayo ezweni lethu ngesikhathi sokubhalisa sibone lezi zinkinga noma ezinye izinkinga zamazinyo. Lokhu kusikisela ukuthi njengamanje kukhona namanje ambalwa ahlelwe ngempela, ukukhulelwa okulungiselelwe kanye neseluleko somusa esitholwa ngabesifazane. Okufanelekile, ukuhlanzwa kwesigxobo somlomo kufanele kwenziwe ngezinyathelo zokulungiselela ukukhulelwe. Yini okufanele uyenze uma kwenzeka izinkinga namazinyo kakade ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa? Ama-X-ray kufanele athathwe kuphela uma kudingeka ngokuphuthumayo. Ngincoma, uma kunokwenzeka, ukugwema le ndlela yokucwaninga, nakuba imishini yanamuhla yama-X-ray yezinyosi zamazinyo ayinethonya elincane kumntwana. Uma izinyo zamazinyo ziphazamisa, awukwazi ukungazinaki lo mbuzo. Hamba ngokunye ukubonisana nodokotela bamazinyo bese ukhetha (kanye nodokotela wamazinyo nombelethisi) ukwelashwa okungcono kakhulu. Ukubulawa kwe-anesthesia akuphikisana nokukhulelwa.
Ingabe umnikeli uphephile?
Kuye kweminyaka engama-29, nginqume ukwenza insemination yomnikeli. Kubuhlungu kangakanani le nqubo? Ingabe kukhona ingozi yokuthola ukutheleleka kwabanikeli?
Izingozi zokutheleleka nge-donor insemination azikho, uma lokhu kuqhutshwa kwenziwa emtholampilo wezokwelapha okuzala. Kulesi simo, asetshenziswa abanikeli besilisa, abahlolwa ngokuphindaphindiwe nge-HIV, isibindi, isibindi, kanye nokutheleleka kwe-urogenital. Ngaphezu kwalokho, isidoda sigcina isikhathi esithile sokuqhathaniswa isikhathi (okufihliwe kusukela ekuhloleni kwenkathi yokutheleleka), ngakho-ke akunakwenzeka ukuthi unesifo sengculaza ezimweni ezinjalo. Yona kanye inqubo ye-insemination ayibuhlungu futhi iqhutshwa ngaphandle kwe-anesthesia.
Okokuqala - ukuhlolwa kwesifazane
Eminyakeni engaba ngu-9 edlule, ngisusiwe i-ovary ne-tube efanele. Ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ezedlule, ngibhekene ne-adnexitis e-subacute. Ngingakhulelwa yini? USvetlana Vetrenko Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi ngokuvamile emva kokusebenza ngenhla kunezinqubo zokubambelela, ezingathinta ubuciko kanye nokusebenza kwebhubhisi elisele le-fallopian. Ngakho-ke, kuwe-ke, kufanele uqale ukuqhuba i-hysterosal-pingography - ukuhlolwa kwe-patency ye-tube ye-uterine ngokufaka umehluko emgodini we-uterine nesithombe se-X-ray. Ngokusekelwe emiphumeleni yalolu cwaningo, kuyokwazi ukukwahlulela amathemba okuzikhulelwa kanye nezeluleko ezinhle kwabesifazane.
Ukukhetha okungavamile
Indodana yethu unyaka owodwa ubudala. Mhlawumbe esikhathini esizayo ngizokwazi ukukhuthazelela ukukhulelwa okukodwa kuphela. Mina nomyeni wami sifuna ngempela indodakazi. Ingabe kukhona indlela yokuhlela ubulili bomntwana ongakazalwa?
Ngokuqondile ukubikezela noma ukuhlela ubulili bomntwana kungenzeka kuphela esimweni esisodwa - ngokuhlakanipha. Izindlela zanamuhla zobuchwepheshe bokusiza (ECO) azivumeli kuphela ukufeza ukukhulelwa kwabesifazane abanenkinga yokungapheli isikhathi eside, kodwa futhi nokuqhuba ucwaningo lwama-embryo phambi kwezifo zofuzo ngaphambi kokudluliselwa kombungu (ukudlulisela emgodini we-uterine), kanye nokukhetha ngokocansi (ukukhetha ngokocansi). Le nqubo ibizwa ngokuthi i-pre-implantation diagnosis (noma i-PGD). Eqinisweni, singadlulisela emgodini wesibeletho, ngentando yabazali, emntwaneni womfana noma intombazane, ngakho-ke, kuqinisekisiwe ukuthi ukukhulelwa ngocansi olufunayo wengane. Njengoba kunembile futhi ihambisana nemithetho yokulingana, kunzima ukusho. Kuyaziwa ukuthi kwamanye amazwe ukuvinjelwa kokukhethwa okunjalo kwabesifazane kusemthethweni. Azikho ezinye izindlela zokubikezela ubulili bomntwana.