Izinkinga zamantombazane
Amantombazane amaningi angenacala ayamukela ukwesaba, okokuqala, ukuthi okokuqala kungaba nobuhlungu. Kodwa ubuhlungu, njengombuso, buyingcosana negazi elincane. Kuxhomeke kohlobo lwe-hymen. Ivala ukungena kwezicubu zangasese futhi kaningi kunesimo sendandatho, kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka ukuthi kufana nesihlava. Ubulili ngokokuqala ngqa kungabangela ubuhlungu futhi kubangele ukuphuma okukhulu uma intombazane ene-hymen enamandla. Uma emva kokuxilongwa kwegazi okuningi futhi liphela isikhathi esingaphezu kwamahora amabili - kungcono ukubona udokotela. Amantombazane futhi esaba ukuthi azokhulelwa emva kwesenzo sokuqala. Lokhu kwesaba, ngokujwayelekile, kulungile. Qaphela ukuthi ngisho nentombi ingakhulelwa uma inezinsuku ezivundile. Futhi into eyodwa ngaphezulu. Amanye amantombazane akhathazekile kakhulu, uma ngemuva kwesenzo sokuqala abazange babe negazi. Umlingani wabangalela ngokungathembeki, ikakhulukazi okuphathelene namasiko amaSulumane. Ukwaziswa kwamadoda: ukungabi khona kwegazi ngesikhathi socansi lokuqala akusho ukuthi intombazane ayiyona intombi. Konke kuncike kwisakhiwo nokuqina kwe-hymen.
Ukwesaba Abafana
Ukuhlukunyezwa kubangelwa umbono we-ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Njengoba lesi simo sivame ukwenzeka nabathandi abancane, kungcono uma intombazane iqala ukucindezela umlingani ngaphambi kwe-orgasm. Lokhu kunciphisa ukungezwani futhi le nsizwa izogxila kakhulu ekuzwayo ngaphambi nangesikhathi sokuqhutshwa okuqondile. Abafana bazwela kakhulu ekugcineni kwendoda yabo. Bahlale bekhathazekile ngobukhulu bayo, ukuma, noma ukuthi kuncane noma ijika. Futhi balindela amazwi abumnene, agcwele ukwesekwa nokwamukelwa.
Ukwesaba okuvamile
Wena-ke, ufunda mayelana nobuhlobo bokuqala, wezwa ukuqashelwa kwabangane asebevele "bebalandela" okokuqala. Uzwile iningi lamangakwane mayelana nokuthi libuhlungu kanjani, kabi, ngokungathandeki. Kodwa-ke, kwakukhona izindabakwane mayelana nama-orgasms angenamkhawulo, ukulahlekelwa yimizwa emnandi nokunye okungenangqondo. Ngemva kokufunda umzimba wesilisa nowesifazane, uzothola ukuthi akuyona into evamile. Akufanele kube nobuhlungu obuningi, kodwa i-orgasm akufanele ilindeleke kusukela kobulili bokuqala. Uma ama-hymen encane - ungase ungabi naluzwa ubuhlungu. Uma kunzima kakhulu, akunakwenzeka ukuba "ukuphule" ngendlela evamile. Ngezinye izikhathi ama-hymen kufanele asuswe emnyangweni wezokuhlinzwa gynecological.
Kuzoba yini "okokuqala" kwakho - kuxhomeke kuwe. Gwema ukwesaba ubuhlungu nokuphuma kwegazi. Ukwesaba kokukhulelwa, futhi, akufanele kukukhathaze - qaphela ukukhulelwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Ngobulili ngokujwayelekile akufanele kube nokungabaza nokwesaba, akukho lutho okufanele luvimbe noma luvalo. Uma ungabaza, njengokuthi "ngabe lo ungumfana, yilokho engikufunayo, ingabe ngifuna ukuhlala naye kuze kube phakade?", Khona-ke mhlawumbe kusencane kakhulu ukuthi ungene ebuhlotsheni obunzima. Umlingani wakho ekukhulumeni ngezocansi unesibindi futhi unesiqiniseko, kodwa empeleni uyamahloni futhi ulahlekile? Uyesaba i-ejaculation ngaphambi kwesikhathi nokuthi ngeke asebenze njengomuntu. Ngokuvamile (kanye nentsha eningi) ihambisana namahloni okuthiwa ubunqunu, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ezinye izakhiwo ezihlobene nomzimba womzimba. Ungacabanga: "Umzimba wami uhle, kodwa nginayo i-penis encane kakhulu." Kanjalo kufika ukwesaba. Uqinisekile ukuthi uzophumelela? Ngakho kuyoba, uma bobabili nifuna ngempela lokhu. Kodwa ngokuvamile umfana uphikelela ekuqaliseni umsebenzi wocansi, futhi intombazane idinga isikhathi esengeziwe sokuvuthwa ngokomzwelo ngalesi sinqumo. Ukushayeka kungaba umeluleki omubi lapha, futhi ukusebenza ngaphansi kwengcindezi yisisombululo esibi kakhulu.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi nonke nifuna lokhu kusondelana. Uma uthanda ngempela, uma udinga lo muntu onomusa - qala naye impilo yakho yobulili. Futhi ngisho noma okokuqala into yonke ingaphelele - ungacabangi ukuthi iyohlale ifana nalokhu. Ubulili nesikhathi singathola imibala emisha, uzokwazi kangcono, funda ukuqagela izidingo nezifiso zomlingani wakho. Ubulili bokuqala kuyisikhathi esihle futhi esingenakulibaleka. Uma kunjalo, khona-ke ukuqhubeka kocansi kungafaka ukwaneliseka okukhulu. Uma "okokuqala" kuyoba nomlingani ongathandeki, esimweni esingahleliwe, mhlawumbe ngaphansi kokuthwala utshwala, ungalindeli ukuthi ubulili buzokuletha injabulo esikhathini esizayo. Mhlawumbe, konke kuzohambisana nokudumazeka, hhayi umzwelo nokuthandana kothando. Esikhathini esizayo, ungase ucabange nokuthi awufuni ukuya ocansini nhlobo. Isikhathi sokuqala singathinta impilo yakho yobulili yesikhathi esizayo.
Uzoya ocansini okokuqala?
Okungcono, uma kungenzeka, kungcono ukuchitha ubusuku bakho bokuqala esimweni esivamile kuwe. Isibonelo, ekamelweni lakho lapho ungazizwa uphephile futhi ukhululekile ngokuphelele. Induduzo izokunikeza umbhede okhululekile ngelineni elisha, eliseduze nendlu yokugezela. Kufanele ube nesikhathi esiningi sokujabulela ukuthandana nomlingani wakho. Uma wesaba ukuhlukunyezwa kwabazali, kungcono ukusebenzisa isikhathi sokuhamba noma ukuhamba kwabo, noma ngabe ubusuku bokuqala kufanele kwenzeke etendeni. Ukuqala kokusebenza ngokocansi kuyisikhathi esicindezelekile. Kubi uma kufanele ulalele njalo uma umnyango wangaphambili ungavuli! Umkhathi ubaluleke kakhulu. Isibindi sizokunika ukukhanya okukhazimulayo, ukuthula, umculo othandana kuzokukhulula. Amantombazane amancane angakajwayele imizimba yawo ngokuvamile ayamahloni ngobuqili bawo. Babuye basatshiswa yiloluhlobo olumile - lubonakala lukhulu kakhulu. Kungcono uma uqala ukwenza uthando ngekhandlela noma ekukhanyeni kwesibani sokulala.
Kufanele uqiniseke ukuthi ukhetha indawo lapho uzozizwa uphephile khona, lapho kuzoba khona umoya omuhle. Okungcono, qiniseka ukuthi akekho noyedwa ozophazamisa. Vele ufake konke ohlelweni ukuze kungabikho lutho olungakumangaza. Uzokwazi ukucabanga wena ngokwakho. Ikhaya lakho, lapho wonke umuntu ezwa ephephile, yindawo ekahle yezinsuku zokuqala eziseduze. Kuphela emoyeni ozolile uzothola uhambo lothando olungaziwa, ujabulele imizwelo emisha - lokhu, akunjalo, akulibaleki.
Uma ungeke ukwazi ukubikezela ukuthi uzoba yimuphi ubulili bokuqala nokuthi yiziphi izimo ezizoba khona - gcina okungenani imininingwane ebaluleke kakhulu. Khumbula, kuzobaluleka kuwe: igumbi livaliwe, lapho amazwi angafiki kumakhelwane, umbhede ukhululekile, izinyathelo zokukhulelwa zithathwe. Izimo ezingeziwe - isibani esidlulayo, izingubo zangaphansi ezihlanzekile ezihlanzekile, iphunga elimthandayo lempepho epholile, umculo othulile - uyathanda, kodwa akudingekile. Okokuqala, ubulili ngokokuqala ngqa - ubuhlobo babalingani. Ungazami ukuhlela yonke inqubo ngemininingwane encane kakhulu. Kuyoba khona izinkinga ezingalindelekile, futhi izinkinga zizoqongelela kuphela. Kunalokho, udinga ukucabanga ukuthi kuzoba kuhle kanjani, njengoba uzojabula. Izimo zokuhlela kanye nezinhlelo, njengomthetho, akulungile. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi wenza okokuqala okokuqala, futhi ubhekene nesimo lapho ungakazi ukuthi yini engakulinda.
Ukwelashwa
Amanye amantombazane acabanga ukuthi ngobulili bokuqala awukwazi ukukhulelwa. Lokhu akulona iqiniso! Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuyisikhathi sokuqala ukuthi ingozi yokuthola izifo ezithathelwanayo iphakeme, ngoba kukhona ukulimala kwangaphakathi lapho ukutheleleka kalula kungena khona. Ngakho kubalulekile ukuvikelwa okokuqala. Kungcono ukusebenzisa ikhondomu. Yebo, uma uzama ukuzama ukusebenzisa "it", ukufunda ukugqoka, isibonelo, iminwe. Ukusebenzisa kahle ikhondomu kubaluleke kakhulu. Abafana bacabanga ukuthi ikhondomu ingafakwa kalula ukuze imiswe ukuze ingagudli. Kodwa ngesiphakamiso, kufanele ushiye umgudu wesilisa, uma kungenjalo ikhondomu izoqedwa. Kungcono ukuthenga amakhondomu ekhemisi - enokwethenjelwa kakhulu. Akufanele neze kube yisikhathi esiphelele, njengaleli, ayigqoke ephaketheni lakhe elimthandayo le-jeans ngonyaka. Kumelwe futhi abe nesitifiketi sekhwalithi. Amakhondomu wekhwalithi enhle afakwe i-lubricant ewenza kube lula ukungena. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu uma kuziwa ocansini okokuqala - kuwubuwula ukungasebenzisi iseluleko sochwepheshe. Ikhondomu ayibonakali inzwa nhlobo. Uma kukhethwe kahle - ngokuvamile ngeke uzizwe.
Amantombazane amaningi akholelwa ukuthi ukuhlangana okuqala kuphephile ngokuphelele. Lokhu akunjalo! Uma usukhulile ngokwanele ukuqala ukuphila kocansi, kufanele uhambe kumgogeni wamazinyo bese ukhuluma naye mayelana nezinhlelo zakho. Udokotela wakho angakusiza ukhethe ukubeletha okungcono kakhulu kuwe. I-elula ingaba ikhondomu, kodwa khumbula ukuthi lokhu akusilo ukuphepha kwamaphesenti ayikhulu. Khuluma nomlingani wakho ngalokho acabanga ngakho ngezindlela zokuvikela. Ngokuvamile lo mbuzo uzoveza isimo sakhe sengqondo sangempela kuwe. Ukunakekelwa kuboniswa ngomthwalo wempilo yomlingani. Uma ekuthanda ngempela, uzovuma ukuzivikela ngokufanele.
Izimo ezinhle kakhulu zobulili bokuqala
Okokuqala, kungcono ukusebenzisa izikhundla zakudala. Okubizwa ngokuthi "isithunywa sevangeli" kuyindlela engcono kakhulu. Ngakho ungakwazi ukulawula ngokugcwele izenzo zomlingani, bheka ukusabela komunye nomunye, ukubonisa isithandwa nothando. Ungasheshi, qaphela futhi ungesabi. Cabanga ngezinto ezinhle. Khumbula ukuthi nguwe kuphela owaziyo wena nomzimba wakho, wazi ukuphendula kwakho ezintweni ezihlukile kanye nezidingo zakho. Ungakhathazeki uma ungenalo i-orgasm okokuqala. Noma kunjalo, konke kunaphambi kwakho!
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi kufanele uzizwe uthanda futhi uthanda, hhayi nje ukuzwa amazwi omusa. Umlingani wakho angase angazi nakancane ukuthi udinga ukuvuma kwakhe, ukuqinisekiswa kwemizwa nokuhleka kwendlebe yakho endlebeni yakho. Abantu abafuni ukukhuluma ekamelweni, ngoba banamahloni kakhulu, futhi unokuzwa. Kodwa-ke, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, othandekayo wakho uzofunda ukuhlekisayo amagama amahle kuwe, ukuguqula umzimba wakho bese uthola kancane izindawo ezibucayi kakhulu. Yiba nesineke! Akuwona konke okudingayo, ungakwenza okwamanje. Ngezinye izikhathi kufanele ubonise umlingani wakho okukunika injabulo. Ukuzikhethela kubalulekile! Funda amabhuku, ufunde amathiphu ahlukene namathiphu, kodwa wenze izinqumo zakho. Khetha okukuhle kuwe. Kungcono ukwazi ukuthi yini oyifunayo nokuthi yini oyidingayo ngempela. Futhi uma kuziwa kokusondelana, okokuqala, ungesabi. Yiqiniso, unelungelo lokuzizwa ungalondekile, kodwa zama ukuzola futhi ukhululekile, ngakho konke kuzohamba kahle.
Uma konke sekusele kakade
Lokhu kusebenza, cishe, kubantu. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi umlingani wakho udinga usizo lwakho manje. Mtshele amagama ambalwa omusa futhi agibele - ngakho-ke unethuba lokubonisa ubukhulu bakho besilisa. Mhlawumbe ufuna ukuhlala usondele embhedeni, ungawageza ndawonye, futhi mhlawumbe uzozizwa ungakhululekile. Noma mhlawumbe ufuna nje ukuvala futhi ungafisa ukwelula le minithi yokuthula. Hlonipha izidingo zomunye nomunye. Ungalungiseleli ukunakekelwa okusheshayo ngemuva kwesenzo. Ukuzwela ngalolu suku kuyokwanela - banakekele ubusuku obuhle, hhayi okuhlangenwe nakho okungeziwe okungaphezulu. Zama ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi ndawonye ngangokunokwenzeka. Futhi izinkumbulo zalokho okuhlangenwe nakho, shiya wena kuphela. Ungabakhupheli kubantu, ngisho nasesibuthaneni somngane, ngoba lokhu kuphelelwa yisikhathi ukuba kube ngokwakho.
Amathiphu engeziwe
Ungalindeli ukunquma ngezihlobo zocansi kuphela ngoba awukwazi ukumelana nokuthanda komthandi wakho. Isikhathi sokuqala akusona ithuba elihle lokuzizama kwezinye izimo zobulili eziyinkimbinkimbi. Uma nje uzwa ubuhlungu obuncane, obonisa ukuqubuka kwe-hymen, ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka, ulale emhlane wakho, welula imilenze yakho bese uyibopha kancane emgodini wakho. Beka umcamelo ngaphansi kwamagquma - ngakho ukungena kuyoba mnandi futhi kungenabuhlungu. Ungakhathazeki uma ungenayo i-orgasm. Ukucindezeleka kunciphisa injabulo futhi kwenza umzimba wakho kancane kancane uthinteke kuma-weasel. Lokhu kuvamile. Akumelwe uzenze sengathi ushona ngokushisa. Ngemva kwesikhashana uzofunda ukuthola injabulo yangempela ebulili. Unelungelo lokushintsha isinqumo sakho nganoma yisiphi isikhathi, uchazela umngane wakho ukuthi kungani uthi "cha."