Bonke abantu bathanda lapho owesifazane ehlonipha isithunzi sabo. Ubani kulaba besifazane ongabaziqhenya ngokungakaze abe nesimo esiyiphutha futhi esibuhlungu phakathi nalesi senzo? Ama-confused ahlobene nobulili bomlomo, kuningi kakhulu. Uma lo mlingani ezama ukukopisha ukuziphatha komdlali wezithombe zobulili ezingcolile, ukuveza intshiseko yasendle, umbukiso awukwazi ukungahlehlisi, kodwa ungenangqondo. Imisindo ye-smack egcina imizuzu emihlanu edlule ingenza noma ubani ahleke. Kwabesifazane abangathandi ukugwinya isidoda kukhona ukuhlazeka okungajabulisayo: uma umuntu ephonsa emlonyeni wakhe, into empofu izokhipha umuthi ngokushesha, noma igijimele endlini yangasese. Ubulili buzophangwa. Kuyoba khona umhlabathi ongathandeki kokubili.
Kubalulekile ukuthi usho kusengaphambili lokho okukhethayo ocansini ngomlomo. Isimo esingathandeki singavela lapho umuntu efaka ingozi yakhe emgodini wakho, ezama ukukopisha inqubo eyaziwayo ye "emphinjeni ojulile". Ungadonsa ngokumangala, i-gag reflex ingasebenza. Noma kunjalo, ikhono lobulili lomlomo kufanele landa kancane kancane. Isifiso sakho sokumjabulisa umuntu kuhle, kepha uma kukhona okungahambi kahle, umzuzwana ungadalwa.
Sloughing.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uzama kanzima kangakanani, awukwazi ukulawula imisindo okushicilelwa ngayo ubulili bakho. Vuma ukuthi umsindo we-squelching kanye neminye imisindo engezona imilolo ingenzi iqhaza kumakhalekhukhwini omnandi nganoma iyiphi indlela. Uqala ukwesaba, indoda iyaqhaqhazela, futhi akufanele kuqhubeke ukukhuluma ngakho. Ungalwa nalo: ukuqeqesha imisipha yesifazane, ukucindezela nokuphumula. Umkhuba oningiliziwe uchazwa encwadini kaKegel. Lokhu kuzosiza ukugwema umsindo ongajabulisi futhi wenze ubulili bujabulise futhi bujabulise wena nomlingani wakho.
Gaza!
Izinkinga ngokugaya noma inhlanganisela engaphumeleli yokudla kokudla kungadala inqubo yokukhiqiza igesi ngesikhathi esingaphansi kakhulu futhi ilahle yonke into. Cabanga nje, uthando, amakhandlela, ukubukeka kwe-languid nobumnene, ukuphonswa ngokumemeza ezikhunjini embhedeni, ingilazi ye-champagne, ukubanga, ukuvusa okuthakazelisayo ... kanye ... "bunch"! Yebo, yebo. Isimo akuyona into ehlekisa, futhi akukho lutho oluhlekayo ngakho. Yiqiniso, ungenza sengathi akukho okwenzekile, kodwa isihloko sokuthi "uhlukanise" intombazane oyinikezile. Ungakwazi ukuhumusha konke kube yihlaya, kodwa i-romance izosulwa, umzuzu ulahlekile. Inqubo yokwakheka kwegesi ingalawulwa, ayikwenqabeli isisu, kodwa futhi kwenzeka ukuthi ingaphezu kwamandla. Uma unomfana owanele ongazange awuqaphele, cabanga ukuthi unenhlanhla. Ungalinda umzuzwana uma evuka ebhedeni, futhi uzoba njalo.
Ukuhleka.
Lokhu kuhlazeka kobulili kwenzeka kubesilisa nabesifazane. Kubonakala sengathi akukho okuhlekisayo esimweni sokukhathazeka, silindele ukwenza uthando, lapho nonke nifuna, uma konke kusungulwa ukuze kube nomlingani futhi kube nobulili. Imicabango yakho ngokuzumayo ishintshela emakhayeni asekhaya, ukhumbule isimo esihle esikhungweni noma emsebenzini noma i-movie ehlekisayo, lapho abadlali behla njalo behlambalaza khona, bese uqala ukugxuma, bese uhleka kakhulu, futhi ekugcineni uvele uvele. Indoda, yebo, engaqondi ukuthi kwenzekani nalokho ohlekayo, inganquma ukuthi ikuyo, ukuthi yenza into engalungile, futhi yenza ukuba uhleke kanjalo. Kulesi simo, kungcono ukutshela, bese uhleka, ujabule ndawonye futhi uqhubeke nomsebenzi ophazamisekile. Phela, ukuhleka kuyasiza, kukwazi ukucima isimo bese ujabule kokubili.
Ingabe iyintombi?
Lokhu akusikho ukuhlazeka okungenangqondo okusebenza kakhulu kubantu besifazane baseMpumalanga. Kuzo, njengoba kwaziwa, ngesikhathi sokubeletha kwentombazane emshadweni, kufanele abe yintombi. Kuze kube manje, kunamasiko lapho, emva kobusuku bomshado, baxhuma amashidi ngezimpawu zegazi. Nokho, umzimba uhlukile, futhi ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi awekho igazi ngesikhathi sokuchithwa kwegazi. Ukuze ugweme amahloni, ukungaqondi kahle kungavakashela udokotela-gynecologist, okuzoqinisekisa ukuthi ubuntombi buyiqiniso. Esimweni esinjalo, intombazane ikholelwa ukuthi ingaphansi kwedokotela oqeqeshiwe.